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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I being over sensitive when my boyfriend has not time to text or call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Hi, Can anyone help please. I met a guy on a dating line and he lives a long way from me (2and a half hours drive away). He has been phoning constantly and texting and we have met up a couple of times. He calls me at all times of the day, ...

I've become a hunting widow! Boyfriend has not time for me now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months. He is everything I ever hoped to find in a guy...he's smart, good looking, great personality, hard worker, and laid back for the most part. He also served in the Marines. I'm officially...

Do you think I was being manipulative?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I'm moving to another city for nine months next November. I have talked about this to my boyfriend about a month ago. We are going to stay together while I'm away. I feel like we haven't spent quality time together lately because he has a lot of h...

Couldn't get it up.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i've been hanging out with at uni. We're both 18, and he seems like a genuine lovely guy. Anyway the other night we were both out at a party with separate groups, but ended up hanging together, kissing etc. I should point out we ...

His family don't know I exist!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I've been seeing my bf for 15 months, we met online and he only lives a ten minute drive from me. We had chemistry and clicked early on and i've been very happy with him, also he's happy with me. But, his family dont know i exist! He lives...

He says his love is so pure that he cant even imagine me naked!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, i need help. I am totally perplexed in this relationship of two years with this guy. He says that he loves me. I know that very well. I love him too. But i think, may be he loves me too much, far beyond my imagination. He is a nice...

I slept with someone else when were not properly together and now I'm worried my boyfriend will find out, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 22, I've wanted to be with him for over a year, then I moved away for work in june,and he finally told me how he felt, we acted like we were together but wasn't due to long distance, when I came back for a few days I slept ...

Overwhelmed with life and don't want to be independent anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I'm frozen with inaction. I'm in a relationship that I hope will lead to marriage, but at this point (1 year), it's too early to be sure. I have always been fairly independent but I'm tired and lonely taking care of myself. I want certainty that ...

I'm jealous of his very attractive best friend! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I am in a very sticky situation. My bf and I have been happily together for 10 months and were friends for about 5 years prior. Things have pretty much gone off without a hitch, except for his very attractive, charismatic best friend. She is beaut...

How can I get him to open up about his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Ok, so here's the dealio: Me and my boyfriend (It's kinda long distance) is a foster kid. When I met him, he lived five miles away, but a while ago, he got placed in a new home, and he ended up being 10 miles away. Now he's just told me he has t...

He has made me feel so bad about myself I am considering breaking up with him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I need to know the essence of our relationship and also the essential lacking. Following is the sequence of events: We met and he fell for me head over heels. Would keep complimenting me all the time, was happy with me. I did not very much ...

Are the steroids the reason for him behaving like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2085 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend told me he was taking anabolic steroids after we had dated for about 4 months. Recently, he never talks to me, treats me like crap. Took back all of his promises he kept to me. I am moving 3 hours away in a few days and he used to ...

Should I tell him I don't want to be friends anymore or should I just ignore him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about 9 months and I don't think I can be friends with him any more and would like advice on whether I should say this to him or just ignore him. I have already tried to explain and been met with a very sarcastic ...

How do I tell him I don't think its a good idea for him and his kids to stay in my flat without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year has 2 kids, 9 and 11, who live with their mom and they are going to stay with him for the holiday in December. He’s living with his elderly mother and father for financial reasons – he had to give up his flat because he could ...

We havent had sex in 9 months! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years next month. We haven't had sex in nine months, though he regularly asks me for oral, but if I say okay, but I want oral in return he says no. We live together, I feel confident he isn't ...

Will it last with this new woman? I want my ex back!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - My ex husband and i got divorced 2 years ago today.....it was my fault i asked for the divorce and he was gutted and in great pain. i started seeing someone else. But realised i loved my ex who tried to get back with me...i was confused and rejected ...

I feel like we should be working on our sex life even if we're not having sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Me and my man been together for 3 1/2 years now and been having sex. Sex went from everyday, down to once every week, down to once every month, and down to 3 months passing no sex and then we decided to not have sex until we are married. We are not ...

Should I take a stand? It seems like she overreacted.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for three-years. Although about three-months ago, she had to move to Salt Lake City for her family (her mom is sick and she needed to be there for her). I was fine with it, even though I live in Portland ...

Should I be hurt by his ultimatum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - My fiance' and I got into an argument bout his job and its influence. I feel like a dirty secret. He says he wants to keep his home life seperate from his work life, ok. Yesterday he was called into work, just to realize that they didn't call him ...

Boyfriend wants to cook for me but he's a terrible cook!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - So this is kind of a silly question but I do need some logical advice on this. My boyfriend is a great guy(the majority of the time). He isn't a cheater, liar, or woman beater so...he's definitely a keeper lol. The problem is...He's a terrib...

Frustrating situation with a guy who just broke up with his gf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - So there's this guy, he is 24 years old that I really like. I just recently started talking to him. He is sweet, nice, awesome and totally cute. I have been seeing him every day for the past week and things seems to be somewhat moving forward. He ...

I've been too clingy, so was this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 18 however he is still in his last year of school and I stayed in this town because I met him, and we decided we would move away for university together next year. We have a really really good connection and have been ...

In somewhat of a struggle with my current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

14 October 2011 (M) - Hi there, (warning: this is long) I've been with my girlfriend for 14 months. We've had amazing times and lots of not so good times. Over 14 months she's had issues with a lot of things about me, issues that we've never really resolved that co...

Why would somebody so used to having sex not be making even any slight advances towards me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Hi all! I have been seeing a guy for the last couple weeks,we just had our 3rd very succesful date with each other yesterday. He is very sweet and sometimes will say things that just make me melt. He doesn't hold back on what he thinks or play any ...