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16 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)
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Troubled relationships: Help and adviceShould I leave my boyfriend or am I overreacting?
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16 October 2011 (F) -
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. And we are about to buy our own house. He takes care of me etc..i don't know if all guys are like this or just him. I need to know if I'm making the correct decision. Anything sets him off when things ...
Girlfriend's promiscous past confuses/excites me
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16 October 2011 (M) -
After a long relationship followed by 12+ months of a very active dating life, I've met an incredible girl I've fallen deeply in love with. More so than anyone I've met previously, she is perfect for me. We have an amazing connection - in and out ...
I think I hit and abused my gf while under the influence of alcohol!
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16 October 2011 (M) -
My life long best friend has been a girl we will call Jill, when we were 16 we decided that we would start dating. We have always had an amazing friednship and relationship. We are the type of couple that can go out with our friends and have fun ...
I want him to go back to the way he was when we first met!
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16 October 2011 (F) -
just wondering if anyone here can offer me any advice cause I'm at a complete loss. been with my bf for over three years, one of those years was long distance. I'm far better educated than him - to MA level - while he barely has his leaving cert ...
Why does my mom hate me so much?
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16 October 2011 (F) -
Why does my mum hate me so much? am so upset? My mum was washing the dishes and I went to get a plate to make a sandwich then she told me to wash it after and I said "that's enough I will wash it" I didn't even finish the sentence and s...
I'm desperate for advice about my boyfriend and his priorities!
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16 October 2011 (F) -
This is going to be super long, but i really need some advice and i really appreciate any one who takes the time to read this and reply. I've had a boyfriend(C) for about three months now. he's my first serious boyfriend. He's been doing some ...
I don't how to conduct myself in front of my girlfriend's friends, please guide me out of this messy thing.
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16 October 2011 (M) -
I am in a relationship with this girl for the last two years . I have one problem and that is that I don't know how to conduct myself in front of her 3 girlfriends when I confront them in her presence . When I talk to them sweetly then afterwar...
Have I over-reacted?
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16 October 2011 (F) -
Oh my goodness, what a day! Right... did i over react? My son has been ill all week with a chest infection, he is 9. His dad and i split 4 years ago and he has never been consistent in our childrens lives since. He can be brill with them when h...
He's become distant and has trust issues and it's effecting our relationship. Please I need advice
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16 October 2011 (F) -
Ok so i will start from the beginning. I've been dating a guy for the last 10 months, we met at work but due to his job in the forces he has been re-posted for the last 4 months and we have been long distance but still finding time to see eachother. ...
I h ave given up everything for him and he cannot give anything back. Do I cut my losses?
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16 October 2011 (F) -
hi aunts and uncles, hope you can shed some lignt on my situation please. I met my partner 4 years ago, it was long distant at first but i moved in with him 2 years ago, left all my family and friends cause i wanted to be with him, he has children...
My Sister In Law obsession? But harmless? pls Help!
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16 October 2011 (M) -
I never thought it would come to this point where i need to just unload it all on paper or typing so to speak. I am 26 i am single, and i've known her since i was a kid, about 8-9 years old, Now i will type it all as it has unfolded and thi...
Any tips please on how to get him back? I love him and want him back. he's been depressed.
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2 answers
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4584 days ago
16 October 2011 (F) -
My boyfriend of 3 years dumped me 6 months ago and I am still not over it. We still talk now but online and I miss him like you wouldnt believe. He dumped me because he had became depressed as he had no idea what he was doing with his life an...
My man is in a low mood and acting differently. I don't know what to do about it
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16 October 2011 (F) -
hi im hoping you can help me. about 3 months ago i met this man and things have been great, he,s everything i ever wanted and more. he left his wife 10 months ago and i am divorced and apart from my ex husband 8 years. we moved in together last ...
How do I make my ex regret his actions?
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16 October 2011 (F) -
My ex dumped me out of the blue by text, after a year. He was rude and it was full of insults. I was a good girlfriend and never cheated. He turned everyone against me. How do I make him regret it? Do people like this ever do?...
Boyfriend going away for six months and I'm pushing him away when he hasn't even left yet
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16 October 2011 (F) -
Im in bits. my boyfriend goes away next month to south africa for a placement and i cant even imagine being without him. we got together 6 months ago and he is leaving at the worst ever time ever...the run up to christmas. I feel like i keep pushing ...
How can I tell my boyfriend that I've lost our baby?
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16 October 2011 (F) -
I was 8 weeks pregnant until 2 days ago I lost the baby. Inside I feel so sad and desperately lonely. This is because I dont know how to tell my boyfriend I have lost our baby. I am in a LDR with my bf whos in the military. We have been togeth...
Boyfriend stressed out, has pushed me away and I feel so rejected
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16 October 2011 (F) -
Hey, Just wondering if I can have some advice please? I really don't know what to do. This past weekend my boyfriend has totally pushed me away, he is stressed with work and is off on a big business trip to London this week, which I know he is nervo...
I feel blank about everything including my relationship!
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2 answers
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16 October 2011 (M) -
(sorry in advance if this is post is incoherent) One day, I woke up feeling neutral/blank about my SO. This scared me, because things had been going great between us and I had no reason to feel this way. Just the day before, we spent the entire...
How do I get some balance, peace, more social activities and some friends into my far too busy and exhausting life?
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2 answers
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16 October 2011 (F) -
This is a bit long but this vent is a long time coming. Please... try not to look at this as "another loner bitching about pointless shit". I'm really desperate right now and I need some advice. Thanks in advance. A little background befor...
Just a dream? my ex-girlfriend appeared in my dreams. What does this mean? Is there still a chance for me?
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1 answer
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16 October 2011 (M) -
My ex-girlfriend dumped last year saying I had no future by doing odd job . After long time, last night, I had her in my dream in which she was saying that she would talk to me every Saturday on cellphone. What does it mean ? Does it mean she's ...
Why? He Suddenly changed his attitude, from being positive that things will turn out well to being negative about our chances
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1 answer
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16 October 2011 (F) -
I been in 3 yrs long distant relationship with this guy. He wasn't doing well in my country and left to go back to his own country. I visited him two times. we live half the planet away. it took 18 hrs to fly to him. We even plan to apply for work...
Will no contact work? To see if we miss each other or are better off ending the relationship? She is resistent to the idea.
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3 answers
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16 October 2011 (M) -
Been dating same girl for 4.5 years now. We dont live together and dont have children. Over last 2 years we have grown apart. Today we had a long talk and we both agreed we need time apart from each other. We decided a month of no contact would be...
Is it time to stop talking to my ex?. I still love him. What does he want from me? I am sick of him making me feel so jealous
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16 October 2011 (F) -
Dear readers I still love my ex boyfriend. Its been 10 months since we broke up. Lately he has been chatting with my cousin sister on a social network site. She is 3 years our junior and is more attractive than I am. He finds her to be an interes...
B/f wants to move in together but I don't like the closeness he has with his female friend and I can't commit like this
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6 answers
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16 October 2011 (F) -
I have written here before and I have recieved great answers, now I have a new question. My boyfriend of two years and I have had a few problems when in our relationship. In the beginning of our realtionship I found out that my mother had cancer a...
He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him
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16 October 2011 (F) -
He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...
Will lack of trust ruin everything? He keeps in regular touch with his ex's (plural). Our sex life sucks.
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1 answer
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16 October 2011 (F) -
I've been in a relationship with a guy for a year. We've both been in serious relationships that were not that great in the past. We've discussed marriage/kids and he's even asked me my ring size. Our relationship is perfect, except there's been a ...
Do I keep going with her? Or give up on her until she is over her ex? Am I just the nice rebound guy to her?
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4 answers
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16 October 2011 (M) -
ok so feel a bit strange about doing this but really need some advice. I'm 31, pretty normal guy. Have had a very normal relationship history up to now - few happy long term relationships, few shorter term things. My issue is with my current ...
My ex told me he's been chaste since our breakup. Do I have a right to be fuming, now I've found out that he has been having a connection with a girl? He lied to me.
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16 October 2011 (F) -
This is another question to the previous one I asked, my ex says he wants to keep in touch but doesn't...! Further update and new problem! He has made much more of an effort to be in touch, we were getting along fine as friends, this last week w...
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