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*auren90
writes:Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 7 months. for the past 3 weeks says hes too busy for me and has been ignoring my calls, im moving states soon and hes been distant. He keeps telling me he wants to be friends but changes his mind everyday. He told me hes getting used to being friends and it tore me apart. He yelled at me alot and has been cussing at me. A few days ago he said he wants to be together the weekend before i leave. So I go to this party and while i'm there i dont hear my phone ring and my boyfriend says (im ******* done with you, have a nice life in california) later this guy kissed me (a peck on the mouth only) later that night my boyfriend apologizes for how he was acting and i stay the night. Now my boyfriend found out about it and hes telling me i cheated on him.. Does this make sense at all? He takes steroids. I feel really bad about it, but i dont really know how to feel. The whole situation is stupid. Is he being manipulating? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): I think his behaviour is his way of dealing with your move, although it doesn't excuse it! A kiss is not cheating, and he seems a bit jealous, but this is probably again made worse as he's worried about you leaving. Only you know the type of person he is, but to me the steroids thing is not good, and could also contribute to his bad moods. Do you think you could be happy without him? If so, stay friends and move on, if not, talk to him and see how the land lies. Good Luck!
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