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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why? I care so much for others. Yet I am the one being Cyber Bullied. Help me rise above this please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - I finally thought I was okay, and didnt need to rely on strangers over the internet to help me through my life.. Guess I was wrong.. I havent been upset lately but now its all coming back. about a month ago, I went to a party and i regret it, but ...

Why we hurt those who love us so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (M) - I am Pakistani and have been in a relationship with a British girl for the last 18 months and she happens to be just one year younger than me here in Dubai. She and I being great fans of football . I like Diego Maradona and regard him, like mil...

I want to be a partner, not a mother or a sounding board

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - I am 43 and am dating a 46 year old man for 9 months. We are both divorced (5 years and 10 years) and both have kids. I have really been enjoying getting to know him. When we first met, he had just moved from a rental house into a house he had ...

I hate that my boyfriend is flirty with other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - I just hate the fact that my bf is flirtacious to other girls,he is 22 now...and thats very immature,he admitted to having an ego problem ..that it kind of boosts his ego!his friends challege him at times if he could talk up/get the no. of a ...

I cheated with my boyfriend's friend, we broke it off but are now communicating again and I'm only happy when I'm talking to him! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - hey , i really need some advice, please dont judge me i feel bad enough about myself as it is back in may i fell for my boyfriend of three and a half years best mate lets just call him james, ive known james just as long as my partner who we will ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex! Can this be fixed, or should I walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - i was in a really bad relationship on and off for about 6 years i moved states away to be with this guy and we eventually broke it off. i met up with an old friend that ive knows for a really long time and he was over seas for a few years and i ...

Am I just being insecure? Or are these reasons not to be with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (M) - So I have someone great in my life,but I've been finding out some things about her,and I'm not sure if I should try to persue my love interest,or just take it back to a strictly platonic friendship,or sever the connection completely So first ill s...

Is my boyfriend being uncaring and is it okay for him to be hiding photos with girls from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hi, i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and everything was going so well until recently. The other night he went clubbing with his best friend and put photos of it on facebook which he showed me and that was all cool, ...

Is this even worth it anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone and thank you for your help! My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. Started off nice as all relationships usually do. He was sweet, listened to me, complimentive, and very caring. He still has many of those traits but there...

If you are with a divorced man does that automatically mean I have to have a second best wedding and a second best life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - My partner of 3 years is a nice guy, he makes me laugh, he’s good company, he cooks me dinner, we share interests. Intimacy is great. He got divorced 6 years ago. I have never been married. The problem is he has so many problems and we cannot ge...

How shall I approach my mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Dear girlfriends, could you give me some useful hints how to tackle the following situation:¨ I am 47, a mother of two children, 19 and 22 years. I left my husband four years ago, it turned out he has been unfaithful to me from the very beginnin...

How do I talk to my FWB about my feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here is my problem me and this man are fwb, I wanted more and I told him but he didn't say anything back. he treats me quite badly, we arrange for me to stay at his and then he forgets all about it. we arrange a night out then when the ...

Being ignored by the first guy I ever loved, how can I fix things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (M) - I am 15 and i am a bisexual, a year and a half ago, i told a boy in my year, that i was convinced was also gay/bi, that i liked him and he cyber bullied me. It has been a year and a half later and he hasn't spoken to me at all, he has unfriend...

Why did he not want me when I was his girl but now he wants me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hi I have a question about a guy I met online. We met on a dating site and really hit it off he lives in another state but we kept talking exchanged emails and after about 6 months phone numbers We eventually decided to meet I was so crazy about hi...

We just don't match sexually anymore. I still love him and feel that I'll marry him, but recently it's gotten worse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with my bf for over a year and we've talked about marriage and kids quite a lot. Problem is, when we first got together, he was not over his ex and we had some issues of him lying to me about contacting her and hiding emails/te...

He won't let me see his facebook page because I snooped when we were broken up!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - I snooped in my boyfriends facebook account months ago when we were broken up.we're back together now but he wont add me back on his friend list.he said i dont deserve it because of when i snooped.he said he will put that he is in a relationship as ...

What should I do about this guy my girlfriend is hanging out with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (M) - So my gf meet this guy on a dating sight just like she meet me. But this guy is 30 and says age is just a number. He buys her whatever she wants and she hangs out with him i know she hates this guy. SO DO I. But he keeps touchin her and picks her ...

I need help, my family treats me badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - I feel trapped in my life with my dysfunctional family treating me badly. My 3 siblings have shunned me and always scheme things to get me in trouble. I'm always being yelled at and blamed for things that I didnt do wrong. I'm always being pulled ...