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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Lack of friends or companionship is affecting my art!

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5 July 2011 (M) - I'm a freelance comic book artist. I graduated college seveal months ago and had to move back in with my mom and aunt. They live next to highschool so there is no o e around here my age and all my friends have either moved away, working, or they're ...

I don't know why I'm getting the cold shoulder from my friend!

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5 July 2011 (F) - Hi just wanted some advice really, a friend of mine who ive known since i was 17 seems to be giving me the cold shoulder. She has lived in Spain for the past 8 years and we have kept contact via phone and e-mails. Lately she doesn't seem to bother ...

Not ready to be a mom but also won't consider abortion! My boyfriend is an alcoholic and my family is extremely religious. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - ok so if you have been keeping up with my other questions you will know the whole story but if not i will make it a 'long story cut short' ok so i am in a lets just say 'rocky' relationship and i have now wound up pregnant. i have just turned 19 s...

I simply cannot see him stepping up to the plate and being a man.

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5 July 2011 (F) - About eight months ago, I met a guy on facebook. We chatted, started talking on the phone, and eventually decided to meet. So I drove to his house (Which is convienent because he lives about three miles away) to meet him and he asked me to be his ...

A dreamer and a realist, high sex drive and low sex drive. Can this relationship survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm ...

Him or them?

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5 July 2011 (F) - Help. I'm in a real dilemma - I've been seeing a man I really care for - he's a bit of a jack the lad and can be unreliable at times, but I love and care for him all the same! The thing is - my parents are very against the relationship (as he had a...

How to break up with someone I love?

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5 July 2011 (F) - Been in a relationship for 4 and a half years now. I love my bf because he is everything I want in a man. Only problem is he won't have sex with me yet. He wants me to be patient til his paranoia of pregnancy goes away. But it's not fair to me to ...

Is this girl messing my mates about or is she interested in all three?

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5 July 2011 (M) - Someone please explain is this girl messing my best mates about, or actually interested in all three of them? I want to know she's not toying with them like some girls do. She's my mate also and is a really nice girl, we went to college together...

I haven't been enjoying being with my gf as much and its putting doubts in my mind!

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5 July 2011 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now but i dont live with her but lately in the last couple of moths i havent been enjoying being with her as much in the last couple of months. Which has put doubts in my mind. And recently...

Should I keep the guy...or the self-centred friend?

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5 July 2011 (F) - I have known my best friend for about 3 years now. About 10 months ago she began dating a guy that we have both been friends with for a while. They recently broke up, and about a week later she began seeing another guy. At the same time, he...

I don't think my bf is cheating but why was she so awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for nearly a year. We were casual for the first 6 months, both dating other people while we dated each other. About 6 months ago, we started dating more exclusive. During the first few months of commitment, I was sceptical ...

I really cant trust my boyfriend....should we be together?

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5 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Thank you for reading. I’ve been with my boyfriend for several months and I just feel like I can’t trust him. I don’t believe him when he tells me he loves me. This isn’t helped by the fact he says things without thinking, things that really u...

I took him back after all he has done to me, but he wasnt even concerned when my grandmother died!

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5 July 2011 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles. Okay, yesterday my grandmother passed away. Let me start from the beginning. My boyfriend and i been together for 2 years and 5 months now. He has cheated multiples of times, mistreats me, lies, basically he needs ...

He asked to be friends with benefits: Should I drop him as a friend?

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5 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in the middle of a dilemma. I met this guy 3 months ago via an online dating site and we hit it off right away as friends. During the time, he was relocating from his home state to Atlanta to start anew with his father who just ...

Why is she so mean to me? Is she just jealous because she likes the same guy?

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5 July 2011 (F) - This girl confessed to me of liking the same guy though he doesn't know and considers her as a friend. The guy and I went on dates though we weren't officially gf/bf. We got into a huge fight and aren't on good terms atm. This girl came up to me and ...

He wants to have sex with the lights on but I am insecure about my body! Help!

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5 July 2011 (F) - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m My boyfriend took my virginity roughly 2 weeks ago, and since then we have been sharing whilst cuddling one night things we would like to try/different places we could go/ what turns us on. he mentioned that i...

Boyfriend won't stop flirting with random women online. Am I overreacting?

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5 July 2011 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend and I mostly keep in touch by email. I'm not on Facebook or Myspace, but my boyfriend is, and when I've looked at his pages on those sites it seems he is always finding random chicks neither of us ...

Did I make the right decison to take a break from her and focus on my studies?

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5 July 2011 (M) - hi,i ve been in a relationship for the past one and a half years.. am in my prefinal year of my ug course right now,am my parents eldest son and my dad is getting retired next year so i am expected to be getting a job as soon as i finish my ug ...

Is it just my husband that behaves this way? Or does a childless spouse always come last?

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5 July 2011 (F) - To anybody who is remarried: Do you treat your spouse, who is not the mother/father of your children, as someone of equal importance (not more, just equal) to your offspring or do the always get pushed into second, third or last place? Do you ...

She cheated on me, then broke up with me and started a new relationship....but now she wants to come back! What should I do?

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5 July 2011 (M) - My galfrend confessed that she slept with another man. I forgave her. But she insisted to break up... Two weeks later i discovered she is having another relationship. Now she is calling,she want 2 come back. I dont trust her any more. What do you ...

Finding it hard to trust him after only 2 weeks!

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5 July 2011 (F) - i'm starting a new relationship, we have been together only for 2 weeks and i'm really starting to have feelings for him. But the thing is that i am finding really hard to trust him. I don't think he's a cheater or anything but things have been a ...

Boyfriend is more excited to meet his female friends rather than work on his current relationship.....

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5 July 2011 (F) - If your bf got excited to see and meet up with his close female friends from college and things weren't going too great with your relationship, money was overly tight, you were living together and you were carrying him along on your wage until he ...

He says he's not ready for a relationship - is this just an excuse? Should I wait for him?

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5 July 2011 (F) - hi everyone i was just wondering what to do about this situation. i met a man at the beggining of the year, i really like him he has been very hurt before and says he,s not ready for another relationship yet. should i wait for him until he is ready ...

She told me I'm like a brother and I irritate her! Can I salvage this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - I've been talking to this woman for 6 months or so, what I had intended to be a friendship turned into something more. I started talking to her online and for a while it was fun. After 3 months go by I realized that I was falling in love, after that ...

How can I get rid of these feelings for my boyfirend's friend?

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5 July 2011 (F) - This is going to be long so bare with me! I've been with my current boyfriend for about 1 year 4 months. At first he wasn't very caring and tended to be very selfish, it took him 6 months to say 'love you' he never says 'I love you'. He's been ...

I'm feeling emotional. Last week I had a miscarriage. So why is he not supporting me and still watching porn?

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5 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice on how to stop feeling angry with my bf and to understand his actions. We've been together 9 months, and a few weeks ago, we found out we had an unplanned pregnancy of 7 weeks. We spent a lot of time trying to decide whether ...

Am I being stalked, and if so, should I move?

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5 July 2011 (M) - Last April my girlfriend and I split amicably after 9 years. The last few had been very rocky. I lived with a friend for a while then, bought a flat which I've been doing up in a very small quiet road. Finally finished it and the garden (which ...

What do I do? I am head over heels in love with him. But he dumped me as I cannot have more children

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5 July 2011 (F) - what do i do when i am head over heels with someone and after two months of getting somewhere with me he dumps me because i cannot have any more children? Would this be a deal breaker for some men? How do I handle this?...

I believe he is in love with me as well but is unable to cope with the idea

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5 July 2011 (M) - Writing this has taken some time; so, thank you for giving the time to read and try to comment. Your help is much needed and appreciated. It all started a year ago. I started having a thing for this younger guy (both of us guys) and sensed that he ...

My girlfriend of 19 years doesn't ever want to have sex. Should I leave her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - I met my girlfriend 19 years ago. You might think that's a lot time for a woman to remain a girlfriend, but the primary reason I never married her is that we have not have had a sex life since about Year Two. I have told her several times that I l...

He never called me so I'm hoping he doesn't bother now, should I just change my phone number?

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5 July 2011 (F) - He said he would call and I haven't called him in over a week. He still hasn't called. Do you think he is going to call? I'm over him now but I wonder if I don't want to hear from him should I just change my phone number? I don't want him to call ...

What is going on in this guy's head?

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5 July 2011 (F) - I would love to know what is going through this guys head. Him and i kinda had a thing before and then it basically stopped cuz he didnt seem like he had wanted anything. So then i moved on with someone else and been happy. I been seeing him at the ...

Should I play hard to get?

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5 July 2011 (F) - back in feb i started to like this guy who i was working with. sad thing is i moved away after i started liking him him and i stayed in touch and we started heavy flirting thru text messages almost everyday. Iv grown to really like this guy over...

I really want to leave but I don't have anywhere to go!

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5 July 2011 (F) - i,m living with this guy who i,v known for about 10 years and any way when i moved in every thing was fine.until he stared drinking and doing drugs and i really want to leave but i dont have any where else to go and its not like he drinks every ...

Does he still want me?

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5 July 2011 (F) - i have a lot to say. 8 mouths ago my boyfriend broke up with me because i cheated on him. and then he ran in to his ex and told her that she could move in . long story short . so any way we would still see each other . every now and then . i finely ...

Should I come clean to my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I have a really complicated situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for about 5 years and in March of this year we got back together after having been separated for about 7 months. For most of our relationship, we have been long ...

He's always too depressed to have sex!

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5 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are 22 years old. Weve been together for about 5 years now. in the last 6-8 months he hasnt wanted to have sex... at all. The last time we tried was about a month ago, and his friend knocked on the front door so we stopped. We ...

He told me that sometimes he hates that I wasn't a virgin!

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5 July 2011 (F) - I have a problem, i had lost my virginity a few years ago which was the biggest mistake of my life well i hadnt let my self date since then nine months ago i met my current bf i had told him everything that i had been through since he was still a ...

I feel used by my best friend and flatmate!

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5 July 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I moved to a new country about a year ago. It can be a pretty lonely experience, but somewhere in the middle of all that I met someone I really got on with. Let's call her Polly. Me and Polly got on like a house on fire and deci...