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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend said porn stars are hotter than me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and porn. Ever since my boyfriend got a new job we've had less time for sex. Whenever we see each other we have a lot of sex. I'm not a prude, so with me anything goes (except threesomes). I let him do whatever he wants. I sometimes ...

Husband skinny dipping with my Bf and now hes texted her behind my back, how do I deal with this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - I caught my husband skinny dipping with my best friend, who is also married. I feel he cheated even though they said nothing happened but it still hurts the same. This is not the first time he has done something like this to hurt me. When I ...

I cant deal with her mindgames any more! Should I let the relationship diminish, or finally answer her calls and let her carry on behaving this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - My girlfriend and I 30 and 26 respectively. We just hit the year milestone on our relationship July 11. I haven't verbally spoken to her since two days prior to my bday when she unofficially broke up with me June 27. Anyway I haven't desired to call ...

I feel inferior compared to his ex and their amazing sex life, should I ask him if he does wish I were more like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - So, I've been in a couple long-term relationships and so has my bf. I know we all miss a bit of what we had back when but are happy with what we've got now. My current is a great boyfriend and I wouldn't trade him in, but we do have a lousy sex ...

My boyfriend has been telling everyone about my miscarriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - Hey, do you think I am right to be annoyed with my bf - we had a miscarriage last week. He told his mother and best friend (and told me he'd told them). I didn't want to tell anyone about it, but was fine with him telling people as long as he let ...

Why he is doing all of this but still has me blocked on Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - me and my ex had a big fight not long ago, afterwards, everytime i went to his work he would rub it in that he wasnt talking to me by saying hello to my bestie all the time and saying bye to her and saying her name after the hi and the byes. i ...

Why is he like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - There's this guy in class who took my number from a friend and started texting me. We texted for a few weeks and in class he keeps on looking at me and we smile to each other but we've never talked in person before. Recently he stopped talking to ...

Can anyone give me their thoughts on this situation and how to cope with the loss of a good friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - I have this friend which I met over 4 years ago and back then she use to be really happy, kind, and such. She also never touched alcohol or drugs. Well 2 years ago when she moved to another city for college she completely changed. She drinks until ...

He controls me and runs back to his ex, should I forget about him completely, or can I have both him and my happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - Am I the one in the wrong? So, I dated this guy who was very, very controlling. I wasn't allowed to wear make up to school, low-cut shirts, or talk to other guys to cushion his extreme trust issues. We broke up nearly two months ago but for the ...

Cheated and feeling very guilty, how do I get over this and have a healthy relationship with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - I am a 29 years old man. I have a girlfriend who is living in a long distance with me. We used to live together and had a intimate relationship. Since she has left there was some problem between us. Basically it seemed that problem was only my side. ...

Ex girlfriend holding a grudge because I cheated, am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - Hi. Well i was with my ex for 5 years, and i cheated on her. She found out after we broke up, then she went through a horrible stage in her life. She contacted my mother on mothers day, and we started small talk i.e txing etc. Since last sunday we ...

I don't hate my ex anymore and want to congratulate him on having a baby, how should I do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - Today I read a question about a guy that calls his gf names and wont let her eat til he says its ok. It made me feel sad and horrible for her because thats what my exbf did to me but he was badder. I treated him so good but he would always find ...

Boyfriend has been acting different after getting back together.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - So here is the thing im 38 weeks pregnant and due any day now. a few weeks ago my boyfriend/baby dad broke up and we got back together last saturday. from june 30 untill now he has been hanging out with his friends all the time. alot more then he ...

My mother doesn't think we are compatible because of his future career, and deep down I know she is right......what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are so in love with each other. I know how he loves me so much and trying to make me happy as he could. He is a mature minded man although we are in same age. He is patience and low profile...

I cant seem to turn my boyfriend on! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't get horny at all I have tried everything. I have walked around naked I have teased him I have kissed him hard I have come on to him and I have done a few of his fantasies... He sometimes loses it while inside of me. Please...

I have a girlfriend of 2 years who would never betray me, but then another woman who gives me what I need....who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - i've gotten myself into a terrible situation and i need advice, please. i have been with my girlfriend for two years now. she's been very good to me and treated me well. i know she would move mountains for me if she could. and she's a great pa...

Bad break up and our engagement has ended....what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - I dated someone for 3 years. We got engaged in 2010 and broke up this May. He is now 27 and has only had 2 partners in an 8 year period. He is very athletic, tall, handsome. But he had a lot of weird beliefs about sex. He claimed to have a porn ...

I need help trusting my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls ...

Is it stupid to try couples counselling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I'm almost a month and a half out of a 5+ year relationship and I'm having a hard time. I feel like I'm doing this break up thing the best I can but it's not enough. I work more than a fulltime job, I joined a gym, I see friends, I laugh, b...

I feel that a relationship revolving around drinking and spending the night in another girl's house is completely shady. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over 3 years. During a year-long break after 2.5 years of dating, he began to hang out with a group of girls, and continued to hang out with the same group of girls after we got back ...

He misunderstood my texts and now wants to break up with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - On Monday Fourth of July, I sent my bf of 8mths. a text saying I was drinking at a friends house and that her bf was there. So my bf thought right away that I was cheating that I was with a friend of my friends bf. But the thing is it was a joke I ...

Girlfriend says I have communication problems, but I don't know how to work on it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - Well, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year. I had just ended a 23 year marriage were I was misrable. When we started this relationship she told me that I have a communication problem. I have been trying to work on this problem but ...

I'm insecure and not sure about my boyfriend, also my ex is back in the picture!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - i love ma bf but i feel too insecure :( iM not as good looking as all the other girls. now a days the perfect girl has to be skinny and pretty im not skinny nor fat :( im in between :) well what can i do to not feel so insecure? :( my bf hates it ...