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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is spreading untrue rumors about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Hi, im having a bit of a problem with an ex of mine. Recently i just started dating a boy been dating for about 2 weeks, but one of my ex's when who i was in a relationship for a year is trying to cause problems! So my ex who i will call 's' has ...

What is his problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Basically I don't know what's wrong with my friend. We used to be so close but things have changed. I don't get what's wrong with him. Last summer it was the first time he started flirting with me and I told him not to. So he avoided me for ...

How can I convince my boyfriend to put just a little bit of effort into our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Im going out with this one lad for nearly a month now, I havent seen him for 4 weeks because he was on holiday, and last weekend he told me that he didnt wanted to come out because he looks horrible, when in my opinion he is gorgeous. The next day ...

My online relationship has fallen to pieces, what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. I wrote on here a week or two ago asking if people thought they could fall online. I don't question my feelings, but I have had to end things with my 'online love' because his true colours have started to show. Well the...

I'm sick of being hurt and lied to by my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - Hey, Dearcupid. This may be a bit long..but please bear with me because I desperately need help with it! I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2 years now, and we're both 17. My girlfriend went to a party with her friend and my girlfriend, h...

I hate myself for being so brutal to her in the past...how can I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - I was in a relationship with a girl for like six years and in June 2009 , all of sudden I dumped her saying that she was hell of a talkative and belong to lower class than my family. She was begging and doing all sort of desperate things not let me ...

His friend told me he is texting another girl....how can I bring this up without getting him angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for a year and a half. With him its been more bad than good because every week I find out something new he lied about, but won't ever admit to... Recently I've had a gut feeling he's been talking to a girl more than usual... ...

B/f just vanishes on me and then has reasons, but I hate it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - hey.. i don't know if its a really big problem but its all i think about all day, so here goes. i have been in a relationship for 4 years and 5 months now. and right now i'm only 19. i have been with the same guy since i started dating. i really ...

Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...

I told him I wanted to wait but he keeps trying it on! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Im aged 13-15, and i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months,i'm still a virgin and i told my boyfriend i wanted to wait! but recently we were kissing and stuff and i had a short skirt on and he tried it on? Immediately i got up and s...

Should I try to forget her unless she initiates contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - Lets not kid anyone here, I think I am in love with my married female colleague, and have been for some time. It started out as just an attraction (both ways) but I never really gave her too much thought. She one day started initiating conversation ...

Do you think that he actually likes me as something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - hi everyone so this is my problem i moved house and met a man that lives 5 minutes from me, we started having sex and thats it which he's cool with but im not. he's a very jealous person, like yesterday a family member was coming to pick me up from ...

Advice on how to have a relationship with my family that is emotionally safe for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - God I feel so pathetic writing this. I am a grown woman, in my early thirties! And I am writing a message like some emo teenager about how hurt I feel by the behaviour of my parents! I recently went through a divorce. I left an abusive partn...

Should I try and get him back or not? He said he wasnt in love with me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - so Me and this guy were just supposed to be a hook-up but then it turned into much more, i fell head over heels and he said he did too. but now he dumped me and im completely lost. He sent me a text that said " im sorry i do love you but im not in ...

Problems with our adopted daughter.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Hello everybody, I'm much troubled with my baby's behaviour and i want to know if the things r normal? Or what i should do to improve the things? At the age of 34 i adopted a 3 1/2 months girl child from an orphanage. Since the beginning i foun...

Why isint he sure of what he wants? I'm tired of the mind games...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Ok I am in serious need of some advice here as I am super depressed.. here it goes. Nine months ago I moved from Canada to Australia to meet up with some girl friends and stay on a one year visa to work and travel and have fun. I met a guy almost r...

I always wonder if I am doing something wrong in the relationship, or am I with the wrong man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend had mentioned that he is bothered because I seem analytical and cold. I am very affectionate. I give him hugs. I tell him I love him. I asked him why he is bothered by me being analytical. He said he couldn't tell me. Do men just expect ...

Is no contact working?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend for a good one year broke up with me... telling me that i been stressing her out too much and that she's not feeling the same thing anymore and that she finally lost love to me. i mean we were really good friends before we ...

BF broke up with me, then apologized and said I don't need to move out, but I read his FB conversation with a friend where he said he just wanted me gone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I just recently broke up with my BF of a year. I came home late one night and he said I dont love you anymore, Im not atracted to you and its over. This was really hurtful but I sort of knew it had been comeing for a while. Anyway I went away for...

I don't trust my boyfriend even though he has never done anything wrong! What is wrong with me? How do I fix it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls ...

After I told him I was a virgin he doesn't talk to me anymore! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy at a basketball court he seemed nice meaning as he introduce himself to my mom,so any ways we decided to kik it the next day with his friends in the night on a hill,it seemed to go okay and wed write eachother on facebook but after he ...

If I don't message her we don't talk at all! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - Hi just a basic question. I was in the romantic love stage with a girl and the tension was unreal between us she was even glowing so i knew i was in romantic love but i also knew that it was temporary and so I thought i'd speak to her over facebook ...