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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can this girl talk to my friend after what he did to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - One night out my best mate led on this girl and then got with her, she really liked him but she didn't know till after they got with each other that he was with someone. I know since i'm also friends with her i should of said, but he's my best...

How can I better deal with my father who treats me like I do not count in his eyes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - hey, thanks in advance for reading this. I know I will sound like pretty much every other teenager on the planet, but I'm convinced my dad hates me. He doesnt like, abuse me physically but he treats me like my needs come second to his and I am ...

I feel like he should know better about how to please a woman and am thinking of dumping him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Well, I am dating a new guy. We have had sex about four times, it only lasts maybe 2 minutes (premature ejaculation) the problem is I really like him but sex is important in a relationship for me. He does not perform oral sex on me, or seem to ...

He says he misses me so why wont he make time for us to spend alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hello All, I met a guy on a dating site, seemed very nice, genuine, went out a few times - its been a month now since we have been seeing each other on and off, but he always seems too busy to meet properly or spend a day together, he has already ...

I don't know if I could survive an LDR...should I just dump him although it would break my heart??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - From what I understand MOST LDRs don't work out in the end. I understand there are some, and it all depends on the relationship, and the circumstances, but for the most part, I don't have faith I could survive one. The problem is I'm just entering...

We spent a night in a hotel and now no contact...please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, i have a bit of a confusing situation in my mind. Recently ive been talking to a guy who i became very close to, he always text me 'good morning beautiful' every day and we stayed up til at least 2am most days just ...

Can I avoid running from love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I got back together with an old flame last month (20yrs ago old flame!), we have spoken loads on phone/ by text and have agreed to take things slowly. I've met his family and friends, he has no kids/ ex wives etc. and is an absolute darling. We ...

Should someone be given a chance if they have mental illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Hey all, I need a reality check... I was with a girl from Sep 07 to May 09, living together... The good times were fantastic but I think she has some personality issues, unresolved anger, etc... that basically put me into a "fixing" her role ...

Boyfriend cheated on me with my cousin!

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3 July 2011 (F) - Hi,my problm is relatd with my bf and my cousin.i am in a relationship with my bf frm last 6 yearz.He promisd my parents that he will marry me 4 sure.He married 2 me in a temple but I dn have d proof of our wedding.during dat time my cousin askd me ...

Successful cheaters only, tell me your stories.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I was curious to hear of stories from women who have had affairs with married men and got their happy ending. Please no slander or judgements, all I would like to hear about is stories that have come out the other side were a married man has ...

She's hot and cold, and stares at me and then looks away. I don't understand what's going on!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Hi ladies. Just got a quick question here. I went on a couple dates with a woman almost a year ago and still see her around often. We basically have only said hi to each other and keep moving when we see each other. She dumped me by the way. Anyway, ...

Should I break up with my lying and cheating bf for good??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles! Okay, i'm dealing with a terrible situation right now. My boyfriend and i been together for 2 years now and throughout those 2 years, he has cheated 4 times, he mistreats me, he hid things from me and lied to me. Okay, ...

Never Ever Give Up on something you cannot go a day without thinking about ... or is that an old wive's tale

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Ok ... .. about 5 years ago now .. almost 5 to the day .. I fell in love with the woman of my dreams, a woman that made me feel the way I never thought I would feel, in a way that I didn't think was possible for anyone .. let alone me .. problem ...

Online Lesbian Stalker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I met this chic in February while in a relationship with now ex. I met the chic from a site n wanted to get to know her, in a none sexual way. So we exchanged numbers and maybe within a week or so met. She seemed real cool. It was only 3mos later ...

Is my girlfriend ashamed of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Well ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years, it's weird she never brings me around her house, never wants to have sex It comes to a point were I have to literally ask her if we are ever gonna have sex or not.. Its sad She broke up with me...

There was a lot of suspicious noise in the background when we spoke ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - I just got off the phone with my girlfriend.... and as painful as this is for me to admit something did not sound right. When there is break in talking on the phone there is not a lot of noise, but I heard what sounded like moaning from her, among ...

Devastated after going though his phone ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch.2 months later we started meetin up as friendsm him sayin she was out his life,and he had only done it to push me away.We were gettin on ...

Why are guys pursuing me now? I just want to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I'm extremely confused and being pulled in a million different directions... bear with me if I get confusing... I recently got out of a very bad relationship. he was controlling, manipulative, and overall not right in the head. I still find mys...

Boyfriend never buys me any gifts and has lame excuses!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my bf for 2 and a half years now. I know we both love eachother. we don't live together yet. what really bothers me is my bf has never had a car or licence so I am always the one who has to drive to see him or drive where ever ...

I asked a question and don't like the answer I got!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - I am a more touchy-feely person than my wife is. I think she is incredibly sexy and to show her I think so and to be affectionate I like to lightly slap or rub her bum for instance when she is standing at the sink doing dishes. It's a cheap th...

He caught me fliriting online, and now I've caught him flirting online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - So ok last week my boyfriend caught me flirting online sexually suggestive like, no i didn't send pictures, my number,or ever met up with these two people. From that day i cutoff contact with both guys, gave my boyfriend all my passwords and even ...

I know I can get very controlling, I don't want to yet I don't know how to stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and I know its about time that I should stop feeling so obsessed and passionate. I am so controlling in our relationship and I don't know how to fix this problem, there were things that hap...

At 18 I am bored with my fiance of four years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - We have been together for about 4 years. Were supposidly engaged,I love him to death, and and i wanted to marry him....but now im doubting this...hes immmature, lazy selffish and an asshole....he doesnt go anywhere with me maybe besides walmart, ...

I worry past mistakes might catch up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Where do i start, okay so a little over a year ago I made a huge mistake and thought I was pregnant. I told my old best friend (We'll call her C) after I found out I wasn't, she then accused me of lying about it. Of course we quit talking. Right ...

Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...

Can it be true that you make your own luck? Do some people attract bad luck due to their own attitudes?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hi agonys after 7 years of mental cruelty by my son`s father i finally had the guts to tell him exactly how i felt. And what he really meant to me. In the past i held back my true feelings as i still loved him and had hope that he would change to b...

I want to forget this cheat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - hi, i am in a very pathetic situation. i loved a married man for 2 years. he was so nice to me. he showed a lot of love. i knew it was bad to love a married guy who' s 20 years older than me. yet, i loved as i got expected love from him. at last i ...

I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, ...

I am lonely and vulnerable, but should I accept what he brings to the relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I was seeing a guy for 2 years and we got on really well. About 3 months before he started texting my best friend's mate after they met briefly once at a party. I confronted him and he assured me they were just friends. He then broke up with me ...