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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I leave my boyfriend when he needs me the most?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? I've been with him now for a year and a couple months and I feel like most of the time he tries to joke with me and doesn't know how to be romantic or sexy. We barely have sex anymore. He's always too tired...

Many friends told me to forget it but I am thinking of her all the time....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - Topic started when I saw a girl in the university about a year ago .. From the first moment I felt it was a different girl .. We did not talk a lot just to say hello as colleagues .. She had a lot of friends and was very popular within the ...

My husband is away, I've noticed some changes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Husband is away, noticed changes. We've been married 9+ years and have an 8y.o. My husband has left the country because of immigration reasons. He hadn't been back to his country for 14 years. He has been gone for 3 months. Before he left h...

What is going on with my three close friends..and how can I talk to them about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I'm wondering what's going on with my friends? 3 of my close friends have all of them been less than friendly lately, in each their own way. And I'm wondering if Im making a mountain out of a mole hill, or if I should speak to them about it? All of ...

Lost, don't want to hurt anyone including myself!

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12 July 2011 (M) - Okay. Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years. We live together and rent the back house of her gramas house. We fight, not all the time but a lot of the time. Im not jealous and shes not either but i just feel like i need to move on. but im ...

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - Hi there, I'm in my late twenties and single and, with the exception of a brief three month relationship about three or four years ago, have always been single. I am quite often told that I am good-looking, I am over six feet tall and am a pretty ...

How should I deal with my daughter's bad behavior?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I am at the end of my patience with my 19 year old daughter! Her attitude, mood swings and rude behaviour started around the time she started 6th Form college and having sex with her boyfriend. We had a few arguments and she would storm off to her...

Girl is into me, now is really quiet, almost absent!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - I met this woman that I think is fabulous. Mutual attraction right off the bat. before long we exchanged numbers, and for several days, she was all in my business, calling me every day, from early in the morning to noon, and then late at night. she ...

Is this a recipe for success, or disaster?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, i'd like to thank in advance for help. This is going to be quite long so bare with me. I feel as though it's time to ask for somebodies advice about whether my relationship with my boyfriend is a recipe for success, or disaster. I n...

In a relationship with my female best friend, and she told me about getting a guy's number! Should I be worried?

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12 July 2011 (F) - I'm in a relationship with my best friend(we're both girls). But the other day she was telling me how close she was to getting a really cool guy's phone number. And she seemed excited. But she stills tells me all the time that she loves me. Then a ...

I really do think we should split up but what do I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I am really stuck on how to handle this with out it becoming a real mess so some advice is needed please. I would be so grateful. I am currently married for 4 yrs this year but we have been together for 16 yrs. I was 15 he 18 and I am not 31. Re...

Going out with a great guy, but I have liked this other guy for 2 years! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Okay well i like this guy ive known for a bit over 2 years and he knew i liked him for a while. he thinks i got over him and i went to the easter show with him his friend and my best friend we had such a great time, he told my bestfriend he had ...

Am I being petty? Or is his attitude really selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (?) - Hi there. Here is my thing, my bf and I have been together a year and half and we are trying to buy a house together. We see eachother about 2/3 times a week, sometimes more. We tend to chill out together, eat, go to dinner, the usual kind of thing. ...

I keep on giving but get nothing from her, not even a gift on my birthday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - i'm 19 year boy and i'm in realtionship with a 18 year girl,we are having a relation from past 7 months...its been a great time with her....i love her a lot....lot means ..how much i love myself i love her... before few days my friends and i ...

Worried about the contact my boyfriend has with his ex and his obligation towards her....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I have posted a couple of questions on here and always had good replies. This one really isnt a question, more a request for opinion. I have met this guy and been seeing him for about 4 months. He is 29 and I am 31, both of our relation...

Inappropriate texts from the ex on his wedding day!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm torn as to what to do about a guy contacting me in an inappropriate way on his wedding day! He's an ex bf, I left him, like 10 years ago after a 2 yr relationship as we'd grown apart. We had no contact at all since then, but neither of us ...

He keeps standing me up and hurting me badly, but now he wants to see me again - should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - His someone i love so much. however he never has time for me. when i try seeing him, he always says his busy. sometimes we plan to meet, and when he stands me up. i feel hurt and end up being depressed for a week however now he wants to see me. ...

Should I hang around or am I being messed around?

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12 July 2011 (M) - so weve spoken about me and her restarting our relationship after we split and ive made all the improvements she wanted, but she has now said. 'if i want you back ill let you know, but for now its a no' should i hang around or am i being messed a...

Stuck in no-man's land between together and broken up

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12 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years. It has not been a smooth ride - I cheated on him 6 months into the relationship but he decided he wanted to stay together and work through it. We currently live together, but for a long time now ...

Why do me and my bf try to make each other jealous? And why are we getting so possesive with each other? It,s destroying us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Hi all. Please advise. I.ve beem with my bf for a few months,and have found that we are both becoming more and more sexually jealous and posseive about each other. It,s eating me up. Whem we have sex,he tells me not to give myself to any other man, ...

We used to be friendly, but that has fizzled out. Should I try to rebuild?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - If, you were friends with a girl you worked with and got on really well, chatting and talking regularly, approaching her on occasion to talk (uninvited, although she never seemed to mind), and then you stopped doing this, 1) because she moved to ...

When do I tell my boyfriend that his decision to not have any more children is a deal breaker for me? I want to end things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were due to get engaged. We’d talked through the important matters, one of which was that we would have only one child together as he already has two from a past relationship. (I don’t have any) Then he called last week and as...

Confusing situation! He no longer expresses himself to me!

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12 July 2011 (F) - This situation is confusing to me. I have been messing around with this guy for about 7 months, but I knew him the year before. It started because he was heartbroken by his ex girlfriend and I had been there to comfort him and he admitted that he ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

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12 July 2011 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? We've had a rocky relationship for such a long time. In the beginning everything was great, it was awesome and perfect. But then he found out about my past (he asked me and learned that in the past - before I ...

Ex-girlfriend didn't use a condom when she cheated on me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (M) - So my ex-girlfriend cheated on me and we eventually broke up after trying to fix things. We only tried for a month but it was clear she didn't want to try... for the month we were together she wouldn't barely kiss me. Not even a week after we ...

Winning her back again....

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12 July 2011 (M) - Can a person win their girfriend back from a rebound twice? The first time we dated for 6 months and as we had problems and broke up she got into a rebound relationship. We got back together and after 3 years in happened again. Everyone says she ...

Was I completely in the wrong? Or did she somewhat over react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - i was just looking for a few opinions on this matter. u didn't know if this was completely my fault and i ran this girl off or if she was overly judgemental and unforgiving. so i met this girl a couple of weeks back. we hit it off immediately. gre...

Why is he so hot and cold with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I don't get it. He told me he like me and days/weeks later he doesn't call, texts, or even talk to me. Just yesterday he decided to talk to me. What wrong with everything?...

Do all guys keep their relationship status private?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Hi there, i havent got a facebook account but i am thinking of joining soon. I want to add my boyfriend on relationship status and I know my boyfriends answer to it already 'im private'...but if u were private why open a facebook account and put up ...

BF is married and lied to me about being separated from his wife, having sex with her and having another kid that I didnt know of. Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Five months ago I met this guy who seemed like a good guy and was fun to hang around. From the first moment we met he admitted to me that he had a son who was in the first grade, and showed me pictures like any proud father. Even though I myself ...

Why did he upset my boyfriend and lie about what kind of person I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - i dated this guy in my first year of uni and needless to say it wasn't the best choice i made being he gave me something,i got it sorted and then i broke up with him because he just wasnt that interested about us. been with my current bf a yea...

Guy breaks up with girlfriend to date me but now feels sorry for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I have known this man from work for 4 years. It another department in another city so we rarely run into each other. It has been so obvious he had a crush on me. When he finally asked me out 2 YEARS later via email, I was very surprised but I was ...

I think it's out of order him accusing me of things I haven't even done!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I'm really angry right now! My boyfriend of 2 and a half yes text me saying can I trust you? He has been on my phone and I have been texting one of my friends from school. And all i was on about is "how hes life is now being a new uncle!" ...

So is my 'boyfriend' cheating on me? What should I do? Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - ive been talking to this guy that i work with for about 2 years. we've always had something going on like kissing all the time flirting and texting.. a week and a half ago, he asked me to be his gf. he always tells me he is in love with me and i ...