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writes:i,m living with this guy who i,v known for about 10 years and any way when i moved in every thing was fine.until he stared drinking and doing drugs and i really want to leave but i dont have any where else to go and its not like he drinks every night but when he dose he turns into this monster and he screams and brings up my past and he bangs on the doors like i sad a monster well you get the point i have a 4 yer old son please i need help wht should i do the longer i,m around the more i want to kick him in his butt he makes me sick . and he dosent care what should i do.
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reader, supersofi  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 If you feel afraid of him then there are places you can go. Even if you find it difficult to leave then think of your child. If he grows up with this the likelihood is that he will consider this behaviour normal.
Contact your local citizens advice bureau and explain the situation to them and ask them to put you in contact with services in your area for families where domestic violence is an issue. Even if he hasn't hit you yet, doesn't mean that he wont. And domestic violence includes any behaviour designed to instill fear such as name calling and repression.
I wish you all the best for the future....
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 July 2011):
 You need to put your son first and get away from this man. Do you really want your son to be brought up around drugs and alcohol? Believe me you may not realise it but at 4 he will be picking up on the signs and it could already be effecting him phycologically. You need to get out of that house with your son. Wait until your guy is sober and tell him it is over and you are moving out with your son. If you feel that he is a danger to you well then pack up and leave when he is not around. You say you have no where to go, but this is not an excuse to have your son in danger or be putting yourself through this misery. Look in to renting cheap flats or go to your local citizens advice officer to see if there is any help you can get.
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