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Archived questions from: 15 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is he being like that? Is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - Basically I don't know what's wrong with my friend. We used to be so close but things have changed. I don't get what's wrong with him. Last summer it was the first time he started flirting with me and I told him not to. So he avoided me for ...

My boyfriend blew me off to play video games. Am I being immature by being mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I of nearly two months went out the other night to the movies to see the new Hangover movie. After the show, I asked what he wanted to do next and if he might just want to go to my house to hang out for a couple of hours. He said we ...

What is up with this guy's behaviour? Should I hint that I want to meet up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - why did this guy ask for my number, and why does he reply to my texts ,but doesn't meet up wih me ?. he also pokes me on facebook ( he does it first ). he seems interested in me, but i haven't seen him since the night when he asked for my number. it ...

He has been sexting his ex! I don't know what to believe anymore....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old and have been dating a 20 year old for six months now. Yesterday was actually our six months and I found out he had been texting his ex girlfriend. the texts were heartbreaking and strictly sexual. she told me he only texts here ...

Is he hoping to cheat with this girl or just entertain her crush on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - I found an email exchange between my boyfriend and girl that has been extremely flirtatious with him on facebook. She told him she'd be in town for a few days in the fall and not to tell anyone but that she'd like to hang out with him. She signed...

A boyfriend who breaks plans and thinks I should be more flexible and "mature" about our separate lives.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has broken plans with me two nights in a row after a show/performance he recently had. Everything was going quite well up til then. I kindly expressed to him some discomfort with him never introducing me as his girlfriend, even though ...

He flirts with other women by text and email

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend signs off his emails and text messages with XOXO to women, particularly women who've expressed an interest in him. Even a ;) at times. I've seen the exchanges and conversations and they are deep relationship talks and sometimes ...

Falling for my long-distance crush.....please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - hi ! I am a 17 year old teen girl who has a crush on a 19 year old Pakistani guy . i don't know how things turned out ,it was just when he's not online in Facebook, i'm starting to miss him :( and i'm so worried because i might fall for him :( and...

My boyfriend's ill mannered children are too much to deal with! Should I just leave him and them to their chaotic existence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has 2 sons from a previous relationship. He has brought them over to visit for weekends a couple of times now. They make a huge mess and don’t clean up, won’t help with dishes although they are quite old enough, and have broken a...

My FWB has fallen in love with me and now says his happiness depends on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - I'm 20, turning 21 in september. When i was in my first year of college in 2007 i fell in love with a boy who was in 2nd year. We started going out but my sister,who was my guardian and acted like my mother since i dont have parents, didnt approve ...

I don't want to be this crazy compaining person all the time but they really get to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - I am a middle child with two sisters, one older (divorcee no children, has a boyfriend), one younger (married with children). We are all in our thirties. We are a close family but I have a problem when they make arrangements and plan family dinners ...

He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...

Do girls regret some of the decisions they make when chosing guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

15 July 2011 (M) - We were real into each other in the beginning, almost dating. Then something happened and she never had a chance to get over her ex. Suddenly, she wasn't ready for a relationship, which I understood. She said she's never been more sexually attracted ...

I don't know why he is ashamed of me and keeps me a secret!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've been in this relationship with one guy for like three months and it's quite okay except for the fact he wants to keep it secret. We both live in a small town and since he's kinda a known person and has many friends and all the people ...

I'm like a lovesick teenager over this married woman! Help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

15 July 2011 (M) - I'm a single guy in my 40's and am extremely love sick, as silly as it may sound. I feel like a teenager with the feelings I have for someone, who is married, so this person is unattainable. We have known each other for several months and saw a...

Did I do something wrong? Or was he just not ready?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about two months and our relationship has taken a relatively serious turn recently, as we both feel a very strong connection to one another and have even dropped the word "love". However, my guy has me a little puzzled ...

I hate how bitter she's being about the break up. She was hurt more than I was but now that I want back together, shouldn't that fix it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

15 July 2011 (M) - So, I'm not one for dating advice columns or anything like that. That being said, bear with me a bit. Alright, so I've been through a lot of difficult relationships. I recognize the fact that the difficulty in some cases was my doing. I though...

How do I tell him I'm worried by his need to make more friends? He might meet new girls and think twice about our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We're living in different parts of the world and could only see each other maybe 3-4 times a year. My bf is quite sociable, he gets along really well with everyone. I'm not that...

My boyfriend is acting strange.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - okay, so my boyfriend is acting strange. We have been together nearly 2 years and he has been acting extremely weird. for example, he will argue over the stupidest things and he knows I do not like to argue and he continues to argue. He knows i do ...

How do you know if a guy will just use you for sex then leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid...i would like to know how a woman knows a guy will leave you after you give him sex? Im in high school and as you all assume, guys are all after that. But in the world of "highschool", a guy will only wait for a girl for about 4-5 ...

Should I apologize to her for my obessive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (M) - I have an obsessive behavior which means I can somehow force myself to do something that I do not want to do and if I want something, I would do anything to have it. This obsessive behavior is both benefiting and annoying because my obsessive beh...

Feeling like I'm loosing my mind, and my love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - OK. My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months and everything has been amazing.....until now. We dont spend as much time together anymore (due to life - work, home, etc) so the time we get together is really important to me. On Monday ...

Dating for a year and never gone on a "date" yet!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We get along fine and time with just ourselves is great. We have never gone on a date yet. I've tried to plan 3 but always something came up with my bf and the date would be called off. Afte...

I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me, is it all in my head or is my instinct right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - I'm jealous of this girl and just by hearing her name makes me sick the entire day... I don't have proof that my boyfriend is cheating on me with this girl but I can't stop thinking about it. He always tells me nothing between them but I can't find...

At times I just feel like I should just let myself be used, but at least then I'll have somefriends...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - dear Cupid, I have a problem finding quality friends. It seems with in my circle of aquaintances of people I know the drama queens, mooches/users,pill poppers,selfish,materialistic, boastful/self important and just the average jerk seem to have all...

My ex is sending me mixed signals and tells me he needs a few years to figure out if he wants to stay married to me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - My husband and I split up because he couldn't handle a stressful situation that we had no control over..he just couldn't step up to the plate and give support when needed. Now the situation is over, it is two months since I moved out and the whole ...