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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Ok so here we go, it mite get a little lengthy but bear with me please. So I am 17 and was with a 21year old. (Please no comments on that) We we're together about 5months and grew, unexpectedly, very strong feelings for each other. We had a rough ...

I've got myself into a state over a guy once again! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

18 July 2011 (?) - Hi, I have got myself into a bit of a state over a guy once again. My long story cut short goes like this... Christmas 2010 a guy from college started talking to me out of the blue, i went along with it, we got along well, we only ever spoke du...

She hasn't called me back in over a month but still claims she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - I and my girlfriend have had a couple of good time before but she is no more to be in the frame again. she has refuse to call me for about a month and half now. all the response i got when i call her is "i am busy". i dont know what is going on with ...

I'm tired of always having to tell them to stop or back off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I'm deeply in love with. But I'm also the type of girl that gets along better with guys than I do with girls. here's the problem, every time I meet a guy that I want to be friends with he either ends up liking me way too ...

Is he spending too much time with his female best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Now, it might be a little long so please bear with me. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, and at first, I really didn't mind him spending time with his female best friend because well...they're best friends! But now, it's starti...

What should I do to save my children from this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been active on this site and giving advices as well to those who seek emotional help but at this point in my life, I would like to seek some enlightenment of making decisions. When I got married, my family disowne...

Boyfriend ruined my expensive pot, should I make him replace it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - When I moved into my first apartment I invested in a really expensive ($200) cooking pot. My mom has several that I grew up cooking with and they have lasted her almost 30 years each, still going strong. I LOVE mine and treat it carefully. I now ...

Is he reducing contact because he is losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for nearly five months and up until the last few days all has been going really well. He has always been really good at initiating contact and texts me loads of times in the day. He will regularly text me to tell me what he'...

My GF is a massive cheater and now she wants to keep me out of my daughters life! What kind of person is she??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - I met my girlfriend in May 5th, 2006 the day her husband went to vacation in the carribean. We had sex the same day, she has told me they were heading to splitville. When her husband came back from Haiti, I was at the airport and I saw them kis...

Having feelings for someone else, should I leave my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Basically, I have been in a long distance relationship for nearly 6 years. When I was younger it was because we couldn't afford to move closer, and now its because he's been in uni and we can't afford to live together. So we have been apart, we see ...

We are engaged but he hasn't even told his parents about me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - please help! I have been with the same guy for a little over 2 years. We have been engaged for over a year of the 2 years we have been together, but he still hasnt told his parents. he doesnt plan on getting married anytime soon. He says it will ...

Somewhere along the line he decided he didnt want a relationship but is still trying to string me along.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - About 5 months i started seeing this guy i met through a mutual friend. When we first met he chased me so hard and it took a little convincing before i just let go and went for it. As i was trying to get over previously being mucked around by ...

I let go of a wonderful man for my cheating ex...how can I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - My story is very similar to many people but I will make a long story short... Last year, I sensed my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me with my former best friend so I ended the relationship and moved on quite quickly. My ex-boyfriend tried to...

I'm terrified of losing him. Or am I too paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been going out with this guy for nearly a year. We were totally full on to begin with as he was away travelling. We moved in together in April. In the last few weeks I noticed he has cooled off a little bit and I have been trying extra ...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Well, my ex and I have a crazy relationship. Every time he's left me, he's come crawling back. So we decided to try to patch things up, but I didn't want to make it official until I saw changes. We got into a small argument a few weeks ago, and ...

Is my husband having sex with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - me and my husband havent had sex in about 3 days on the 4th day we had sex he came extremly fast and it was thick kind of gooey like...is that a sigh of him having sex with with some one else?...

I asked her to give me more oral, and then found out her ex's used to force her to give them oral and now I feel terrible....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - I have a problem and I want your imput on how to deal with it. Im afraid I may have been sexually assaulting my girlfriend, but its a complicated situation So me and her were dating for 11 months and I knew she had some problems in the past wi...

How do I move on? It's been over a year now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - So my exboyfriend broke up with me over a year ago and I just don't know how to move on. I am still very depressed and I just keep thinking why he didn't love me as much as I loved him. He got back with his exgirlfriend and I am completely ...

I helped him to get back on his feet and he repays me by cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I know I can never tell anyone this because its too disgusting and bizarre but when I graduated high school, maybe the stress of the transition, I became interested in a homeless man. I know its horrible and disgusting and just wrong, I helped him ...

I like 2 different girls who might like me too, but they are both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - So... I'm interested in two different women at the same time, and I think they think I'm funny and might consider a relationship with me, except that they're both in one two, though both of theirs is bad... Any ideas? And I'd like to remain friends ...

Is this abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I really really really need some help. Ive been in a relationship with this man for about 8 months, although there was a break in between there when I broke up with him for about a month for the same reason Im concerned about now. He is constantly ...

I feel like my ex only wants me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - What does it mean when your ex boyfriend say this to you , does he want to keep you in his life or just use you for sex? You know I took the virginity so there's a lot of girls that don't last with the guys that took the virginity so keep me around. ...

Do I keep my baby and raise it with a man who won't even let me finish school because he is afraid I will "meet" someone new? Or do I abort it and go back to the guy who possibly fathered my child, denies it, yet wants to rebuild our relationship? ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I'm not on here to be judged. I'm here to get honest heartfelt opinions from people who don't know me. Here is my story, I'm 18 years old, high school drop out, been through the bad and the good. My life is not one to be judged, I was in court bat...

He pushed his way into my life, but he's selfish and unsupportive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4677 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I don't know who is more selfish, me or the guy I'm seeing. We both just broke up with other people about 3 months ago. I was with my ex for 3 years. He was with his for almost a year and a half. Yet, all he does is talk about not wanting to ...

Stress is damaging our relationship and our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Hi... My boyfriend and I have been in a very long, and for the most part, very good relationship. We have been having an absolutely awful couple of weeks...both on his part and mine. Lately, I feel like he has been very selfish and inconsid...

Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...

My ex distanced himself from me, is this because he took interest in another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Hey. I'm almost 18 and I was with this guy for a year almost. He was the nicest, sweetest guy at first and we had such a laugh. He made me so happy. Anyway we argued a lot, he didn't like me speaking to other guys and would always question w...