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male
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36-40,
*bramsinda
writes:My galfrend confessed that she slept with another man. I forgave her. But she insisted to break up... Two weeks later i discovered she is having another relationship. Now she is calling,she want 2 come back. I dont trust her any more. What do you think i should do?
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 You ask what we think you should do...what does your gut tell you?
You dont trust her anymore,and how long she has been two timing is any ones guess
She probably fessed up just to ease her guilty conscience. Maybe she had been two timing for a while and finaly made her choice(him!!)
She probably realized too that the grass isnt greener on the other side now that she is fully with him
But my guess is that she is calling you just so she can have the validation of knowing ur still interestd so dont remain friends with her or say yes to be together again coz the moment you say yes,i can bet you she will sing another tune again,coz her wanting to be close despite everything is just to ease her guilt and help her to move on
Bottom line she wasnt mature or woman enough to be honest with you about being fully satisfied in the relationship,so why would someone like you(who i assume values himself) settle for such second class behaviour?
YOU CAN DO BETTER!!
But the choice is yourz...
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): Trust is base of all relationships. Once lost can not be fixed. you need to move on. She is vulnurable and not capable to be with one man. if you see the point here, she is again now cheating other man than you also. not worth focus.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): tell her its too late and you have got someone else now.
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reader, a_maldita  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 She cheated once she can do it again..
Find someone who can be faithful to you in all means...
You deserve better than her kind...
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): I think she wants to have her cake and eat it and is just using you because the grass hasn't been as green on the other side as she thought, she not worth it, trust me you can do alot better with a girl who has respect for herself and you. Go out and find someone more deserving of your time. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): Be a man! Do not tolerate!
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