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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My new boyfriend is 6 years younger than me.....his mum is only 10 years older than me......is this morally wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Ive fallen head over heels for a guy who is 6 years younger than me. Ive just turned 28 and he is 21 almost 22. We are both crazy about each other. I am worried that this is morrally wrong. His mum is only 10 years older than me. And she wants to ...

I need to get over this no good man and move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hi. I need some good tips to get over someone. Stop thinking about them and wanting to contact them. As I really want to forget this man!!!!! I'm in mid 30's and met a guy 5 years younger then me. His gorgeous and successful and told me straight...

My Wife cheated two months into our marriage, will we ever be happy again??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Recently I discovered that my wife of nearly ten years had an affair with a co-worker. As if this wasn't painful enough for me to deal with, I also learn't that this happened only two months into or marriage! Now I find myself constantly quest...

Am I being neglected or am I being too clingy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hi, i have an amazing boyfriend. he is also my first boyfriend; we been together for 5 months and everything is going wonderfully, however due to his uni course, he has to spend one month on a site doing archaeological digging. Hes busy from 9 u...

He said I was playing games but I really do like him and I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I feel really silly doing this but I don't no what else to do.. Sooo here it goes. I work part time as a barmaid in my local pub, and Friday just gone I worked a late shift as we had a big family reunion party in the Pub, and all night long a guy ...

She told me she was pregnant and I felt my heart shatter into pieces!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I have badly fallen for my professor, (spare me the lecture, i've heard it all). I've liked my professor for 2 years, and felt a deep connection with her the first time I met her, she began teaching me and although I didn't think it was possible ...

I can't let another man get close to me.... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Okay, I am haunted by a question... Back story: Two years ago, I was in a 2 1/2 year long relationship (that started out as a 5 year friendship) that suddenly, and quite unexpectedly went sour. My ex turned verbally and emotionally abus...

I know he isn't worth it but I still can't stop being upset!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I dont know what to do, i like this boy but i know that to him im nothing like a just another girl to him and that makes me feel so small and ugly and i hate it. When i see him out in town (nightclubs)it brings it all back and i think whats wrong ...

He thinks a relationship will distract him....should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm confused. There's this guy who I have known since high school. He apparently liked me back then, even though I had a boyfriend and I hardly noticed him. Fast forward four years...I ran into him through a mutual friend's party th...

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

Boyfriends says he'll come over and then never calls and never shows up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend told me that he'll be coming over my home at around 10.00 am yesterday because we were planning to hang out together the whole day but he didn't.When I called him up yesterday morning around 9.30 am to confirm our plan...

Boyfriend is always using my insecurity against me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I am very insecure about myself, and my boyfriend knows it. But it feels like he is always using my insecurities against me in some way. He always is going on and on about how clumsy I am, and its not in a gentle teasing manner either. He is ...

Why can some people not compliment others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Why are some people unable to compliment others? I have a co-worker who is also female and she never offers me a compliment no matter how good I look on a particular day. However I compliment her a lot. What may be the reason for this?...

I don't like my fiance telling me how to do things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - do i give too much attitude, is it wrong that if i offer to help doing something i dont like my boyfriend going to micro manage me and when he does i get annoyed feel like he thinks im incapable, he says he is just trying to help but than when he ...

Was I rude and demanding to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hi I had a huge fight yesterday with my fiance of 5 years because he said i embarass him because i told him to put something away in front of a group of people instead of asking him, do i have to ask him to do things? i thought if your in a ...

I ran into my school teacher crush and after 12 years I still have a thing for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I am 25. She is 40. She was my teacher in 8th grade. I hadn't seen her since. I ran into her the other night at a club. I went up to her to tell her who I was and we laughed and exchanged small talk. She was pretty drunk. I asked her about her ...

Why do people dislike me? Is speaking your mind really that bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - This isn't a love/relationship question but I think this site is great and I go nowhere else for advice, so I hope there are people here who would take the time to read this and help me out. Okay, hi. I'm a 17 year old girl. I've never had proble...

I want to break up with my girlfriend but I'm afraid of her reaction and upsetting her family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 or 3 weeks now. I'm thinking about breaking up with her because she makes me really mad. The main reason is that she hardely ever talks and doesn't want to do anything fun. By fun I mean normal ...

I feel ashamed for being so weak! Any tips on how to stop this happening again and progress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - excuse the length but it helps to write this. last night i had a long think about where my life is going and a guy ive known for a while and thought he was a friend isnt. i stupidly thought he loved me as i had strong feelings for him and always ...

I don't know how to end a relationship with no valid reason to end it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I have been with a girl for a few months, and it feels like I have been almost pressured into being with her. It's only been about 2 months, but I am already finding myself craving time alone without her there. She hasn't done anything wrong, but ...

With no money.....how will I be able to change things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - This might a little long and at some point nonsensical... This is the first time i ever write what's really on my mind and it's also the first time i express myself honestly and with no strings attached. I should mention however that i am not a US...

My boyfriend's reaction is a bit odd, what do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - hey ok i may be a being a bit melodramatic because im sick but i still want your opinion. ok ive been sick all week and i finally went to the doctor today and he told me i had swine flue. if i lived by myself i wouldnt care less but being that im ...

Half of me says I should stay because I love her, the other half says leave because she's a cheater....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - So i had been with my current girlfriend for 1 and a half years. we met in senior year of high school fell deeply in love it was great i couldnt tell you how strong my love for her was..i was gonna marry her i was completely commited to her. Then ...

How can I fix my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello I'm in LDR with my bf. We're living really far away and could just meet up like twice a year because of professional reasons. We chat, skype constantly everyday but I have a problem of trust. He told me yesterday that he's tired of me aski...

How do I get the man I want and let the other one down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - i met this man 4 month ago, he stayed with me for the first week we met then we saw each other at least 3 or 4 times a week, but then he kept asking me if we could be sex budddies. i said no i deserved better and he understood. we didnt speak for 6 ...

In love with a man my family would not approve of, all the while they are trying to arrange a marriage for me! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello all, I am Indian,28 years old and in love with a white man 15 years my senior.We don't find our age differences an issue at all. From a cultural perspective, my parents don't approve of me marrying a white man and outside of our caste/religi...

I'm hopelessly in love with a guy that doesn't love me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I'm hopelessly I'm love with this guy. He's one of my closet fit friends, even though I don't see him that much anymore. He's like my brother and I'm like his sister. Iv been in love with him for 2 years but he's realy hot so he has girls typifying ...

My girlfriend's family wont let her make her own decisions and she cant come to see me with my child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hi everyone its been so long since ive post to you wonderful people. This now me and my girlfriend have a 1 month old daughter we stay about 15 minutes from each other. The problem is i want her to come and visit me sometimes now and her mom is ...

Why me? What is it with girls who want to cheat and then want to start again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship with this girl for 6 months on and off we first got together on a party night. We had our fun and that was it. Then we met about a month later and we seemed to be quite right for each other. At least that's how i felt...

If we do get back together, does it mean we won't have the exceptional chemistry we had earlier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Dear Aunties, I have recently broken-off a two-year relationship, so I'm in no hurry to get involved with a new guy. That being said, I have started to wonder if an ex is considering trying it again with me. I'd be all for it if it's not too soo...

Why is he like this now? it's like he cant be bothered with me, which is confusing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - My ex and I got back together 3 week ago (we split last time because of distance) he said things would go back to how they used to be. however, we havent done one thing that we used to do last time. He's never got time for me. he is either working,...