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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Husband doesn't pay much attention to me...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - My husband for a couple years has been coming home sitting on the couch, watching tv, waiting for dinner, then falling asleep on the couch at times without speaking a word to me. I've tried talking to him about my loneliness but he always lashes ...

I'm confused, are we over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we recently had an arguement because i went online and found he was talking to other females, without my knowledge. He told me he wanted to make it work and not to give up on him. Talked about and ...

He disappeared after our second date...and I miss him so much I cry myself to sleep!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I dated someone twice. Then, he disappeared - he didn't make contact with me after the second date. I haven't seen / heard from him for 2 weeks now. I'm disappointed and confused. I'm too embarrassed to call him because the last time we met (2nd...

Could my boyfriend have a personality problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I had a boyfriend and I'm wondering if he has some personality problems. He always changes up a story from what really happen when we argue he doesn't like to take faults when they are his he can't talk about his feelings he runs away from his ...

How can I sit with my mum and tell her I have been lying for a year??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, hes 36 and I'm 20. I love him more than anything. We had our up and downs but we are always there for each other and find a way to work our differences. He knows my family and they all love him, ...

Is it normal for him to masturbate daily? Is porn the problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Hello everybody.I discovered this site accidentally and I started to like it ,so i will also tell my story to you all,to find out what you think and other opinions.First of all,sorry if I’ll be making some grammar mistakes,English’s not my mother ...

I feel like I'm the only one in love in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Ok I'm in a relationship that feels like I'm the only 1 that's in love he has cheated in the past and I have given him another chance I just don't love him the way I use to there are no kids involved between us I just feel like I'm here just to be ...

Is it too much to expect the man who wants to marry me to treat me to a gift once-in-a-while?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I’m trying to figure something out concerning my relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We don’t live in the same town and see each other at weekends. We get along well, he does housework, he cooks, he calls me in his lunch hour just to say h...

What is the average amount of sex to have per week?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, What is an average amount of sex to have per week? My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year and have sex once every 1-1.5 weeks. I feel like this isn't enough but maybe I'm the one with high hopes and will always be disapp...

I love him but life is passing me by. I don't know how much longer I can wait around hoping things will change.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Hey Guys I have a dilemma. My bf and I have been going out for 5 years now and I've reached a point where I'm seriously starting to question where this relationship is going. Our problem is that we're not financially equipped to marry or even re...

Why does she ignore me and distance herself if she loves me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for around 2 years. We are both in our mid to late 20´s. The relationship started after we met on our way to work for a long long time. She was seeing someone else at the time which i didnt know about but i thought sh...

Partner is gender confused. Am I doing the right thing by staying with him? Need some help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I feel im in a real dilema. I just really dont know what to do for the best. My partner i have been with now for over 2 years told me after about a year of being with him that wearing womens clothes is something he has always wanted to do from a ...

Should I keep her in the back of my mind playing it cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - Sorry but I don't know how to do this short. I met this girl just about 2 years ago. She had a boyfriend back then. meanwhile we was hanging out together (just as friends). We lost contact for about 4-5 months, but is back in contact now. She...

Time is not on my side

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4674 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - My fiancée and I have been together for almost 2 1/2 years and have seen one another almost every day since the beginning, total commitment to one another. She’s in her late 40’s I’m in my early 50’s. She’s been married twice before and me once. ...

I'm Tired of Being my Mother's Mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - My mom is bipolar, and I've been trying to take care of her since before I can remember. My dad was a workaholic, so he was never home to do it. About 3 years ago, he started trying to rejoin the family. Now, he takes care of her, like he should, ...

Worried that person I wrote about on here might figure out who I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - do you ever get nervous the person you write about for advice looks up a certain topic or looks for their own advice and comes across what you wrote? I don't have specific names or anything but i definitely have alot of posts that entail what was ...

Brain washing uncle from hell ! Help ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Hey :) i could use some advice ? well this is going to sound crazy but me and my some of my family have strong suspicsions that my uncle might be menatally abusing my cousin and brainwashing my aunt. Well ...

Together 8 months and B/f still has no idea if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months now and he still has no clue if he loves me and I would do anything to have him say he loves me back and I never nag him to love me cause I want it all to come naturally when its time but its really ...

Do you ever wonder if your relationship is over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Do you ever feel like your relationship is over, but not sure why or how it got to a point where it is... like if there is nothing left on the relationship.. My bf and I had been fighting for some time now; I would say for about 6 months now. We ...

My man says I look like something that came out of the garbage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Hi i have been seeing this guy for 17 months to be precise and we used to have sex everyday recently is has reduced to only weekends , when i asked him about it he says i dont dress up for him when he comes home and also made a comment saying not ...

How do I get fiance to open up sexually without being promiscuous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - ok so i am here to beg for your opinions and help me work through this stuff in my own head. so here is some background for you all... i have been with 5 women in my life the 5th being my fiance. all of the other women i slept with i was in ...

Why do people get the wrong idea and think that I am flirting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - dear cupid, Why do people think that I am flirting? I am happily married woman. My man rocks my socks off but other women always accuse me of flirting. When did flirting become synonymous with talking or being friendly with the opposite sex? I ...