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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there unfinished talking I need to do with her? Or should I just draw the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I've been split from my ex for 7 months now and we haven't had much contact because I told her I needed to get over her. She texts me probably once or twice a month to see how I am. I've been on a few dates, but I just can't seem to get over her, ...

My feelings have grown, but hers haven't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

16 July 2011 (M) - I've been living and working with this girl for over a year now. We get on great, I've gone out with her few times and we do things together at the weekends. We joke alot with each other in work as well. Recently my feelings towards her have grown ...

Partner leaves me for days when I try to talk to him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - When I confront my partner about things he always walks out and is gone for days. During this time he is nasty to me via text and acts like he doesn't care. My question is dies care or am I being played for a fool x ...

How do I start to gather some self respect and finally break all ties?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my married lover for 3 years. Over the years he has hurt me terribly and blamed it on 'being weak'. He has lied through his back teeth and it has gotten to the point were I'm struggling with everything he says. I am madly inlove w...

The never take the blame boyfriend. why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I'm really gettin sick of this relationship we ben together for a year and a half and we have a baby together. My problem is that I'm tired of feeling like my needs are not understood but yet I'm suppose to understand his we agrue bout the dumbest ...

I'm a cheater. How do I find my happiness with just one person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - Dear world, I'm 30 years old ive had my share of unsuccessful relationships...mainly unsuccesful because of me. i've never been faithful in a relatonship. im emotionally cheating and sometimes it leads to cheating physically if the emotional pa...

He doesn't ask whats wrong when I'm feeling down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I was feeling really down the other day, and talking to my boyfriend online. It was very obvious something was wrong by how I described my day, my responses etc. Instead of asking though, he just ignored it, sent me a few flirty messages, and sa...

I like being with him but he doesn't satisfy me in bed. How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - Hello there! I recently started dating a man who is 20 years older than me. He is 66 and I am 46. We met online and we had an almost immediate connection, at least on an emotional and spiritual level for me, but for him it seems that he feels he is ...

Why I am losing on so many fronts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (M) - Since I was born , I have been on fighting on so many fronts. I was 14, when pimples started appearing on my scalp and they were gone when I reached 20 but at the cost of losing my hair. after five years, I lost my heart to a girl with whom I w...

I think he fancies this lady neighbour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - hi i have a parner i been with for 3 years but there is a lady living in the same block of flats as him she use to always be in his flat untill i got very angry about this i think he fancys her but he keeps ...

Bad breakup with my ex, and our engagement is ended!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I need opinions agony aunts and uncles! I was engaged to my recent ex. We were together for 3 years. When I graduated, I went out to eat at the school cafe with the other students to say our goodbyes. The main person organizing the lunch was a ...

High and dry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

16 July 2011 (M) - I've found that I am very co dependent. I just moved out frimthe apartment I had with an ex gf one week ago. We lived together about 8 months. I knew this day was coming but I stayed anyway. We didn't have much in common and she has about 130 ...

All my boyfriends have been cheaters ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - i have seen many bad days. None of my relationship was successful. All my boyfriends cheated with me. M so stressed and unhappy. Now adays smal smal things irritates me and i start fighting with who ever comes cross. Please help me...how can i ...

When he gets needy, all I want to do is be alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years now. We see each other about every 6 weeks, and the longest stretch was 3 weeks in a row. I thought he was everything I was looking for sweet, kind, loving, smart, funny...ect., but now I am...

I'm concerned about his friendships with these girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for a month i know thats not long but i am in love with him and he is in love with me, but he hangs out with 2 girls and everytime he is with them it bothers me so much, the first girl vanessa is his co-worker and there close ...

What do I do? My husband ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - i have been with my husband for over 4 yrs. we hve a 3 yr old. he works a lot on his feet all day, hes a manager at a convenience store. he doesnt go out at all its work and bk home. i dont boss him around he has the freedom to do as he pleases hes ...

I feel he loves me, but when he is goes to his hometown, I'm a nuisance, and it makes me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I have been living with a guy for about 6 months....he is going through a divorce, he is so so sweet, he makes me feel so beautiful, and I love who I am when I am with him!! He loves his daughters, I haven't met his girls or any of his family!! I ...

On relationships: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - The following was forwarded to me by a member of my church. It is adapated from a book: "Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work" I believe its worth passing on: "Dr. John gottman can predict with 96% accuracy within the first three minu...