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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I get the feeling that I just annoy my boyfriend!

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20 September 2010 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for 22 months. Everything was good until about u year ago he told me he didnt have any feelings for me, even though he said he didnt mean it, i just cant believe it. Lateley i just get the feeling that i jus annoy him. ...

Why has our relationship become so awkward?

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20 September 2010 (F) - Lately I have been so stressed out and crying and been so emotional thinking too much about our relationship failing or him leaving or me not having feelings for him anymore...I dont know where these feelings have come from or why but I cant handle ...

The girl is messing with my head--she may or may not be pregnant..

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20 September 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've got a really massive problem and I could be doing with some advice. I meet this girl and we got on really well, she was on the pill and we had sex a number of times unprotected and I'm discusted with myself. The last time w...

What is up with my boyfriend?

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20 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and things have been great for us. It's my first and his first real relationship as all previous girlfriends have not really liked him. One of the many highlights to why he loves me is because I ...

Am I being selfish? Or is my mom selfish for jumping into a relationship?

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20 September 2010 (F) - My mom was married when she was 20, and was with the man for 12 years until he cheated on her. I've never heard much about him until almost a year ago now. and I'm almost 19. she had started talking to him in October of last year, and went to visit...

I've asked someone to marry me... now I'm having second thoughts after we fought!

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20 September 2010 (M) - I have met someone and asked her to marry me .... things couldnt be better until we had our first fight ... then 2nd then 3rd , all within 5 days ... now im really rethinking this thing . When we argue it is a nitemare ,,, i try every way i can ...

Why won't my nice guy connect with me on a deeper level? I'm confused!

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20 September 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my guy for a little over 1.5 years. He is my first boyfriend, I am his 4th girlfriend. He is 6 years older and has many friends. I am shy and a bit sheltered, and am not so lucky with friends. We are both intelligent people, and we ...

Fighting all the time, having sex with strangers, no money and 2 kids.......What should I do about this messy situaiton?

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20 September 2010 (F) - I have been with a guy for the past 5 years and I have known him 7. The thing is we are fighting all the time. A few years ago we decided because I love sex a lot he allowed me to go off with other males and that is exactly what I did. There were ...

It seems I am doing all the giving in this relationship and not getting much in return.

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20 September 2010 (F) - Hi I really feel like im going out of my mind and i dont know which way to turn. I need someone to talk to. This might sound familiar as i have asked for advice previously. I met my partner over 2 years ago. we were long distant. after a year he ...

Should this man be trusted?

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20 September 2010 (F) - Ok.. I just started dating this man who is 35. I am 24. I have known him for about 2 years but we hadn't dated before, though he had asked me out a couple of times. One of the reasons I did not date him before, aside from me being unavailable, was ...

Girfriend coming back from a trip after long-distance arguments. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - My Girfriend is away for a one month language course in Europe. It has been 3 weeks now, and she is coming back next week. Before she left we werent doing very well, fighting and even getting physical once or twice. But we keep getting back ...

Is it my boyfriends business my credit card debt?

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20 September 2010 (F) - So confused...... I have been with my boyfriend for the last couple of years. His finances are in order, mine are not. I used to be debt free but ended up going back to school and acquired my credit card debt while I was in school ( not from ...

Girlfriend keeps receiving dirty messages from ex but doesn't want to stop talking to him

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20 September 2010 (M) - Hi I have been with this girl for nearly 2 years.She says she loves me very much and wants to be with me. Normally we have a good relationship. Before she was with me she had another boyfriend whom she cheated on, with a male friend of hers from...

I feel angry/sad all the time but don't want to go back on meds

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20 September 2010 (F) - 1. I have been on anti depressants for the last 8 yrs, on and off. 2. I haven't had any anti depressants for a few months. 3. I don't know if I'm down because I haven't had any meds or if I'm down because of my day to day life, or if it's because ...

Mistake and more mistakes....

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20 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I really dont know what is wrong with me..... I cause silly mistakes with my relationship. Just been through a tough time but i really built up the relationship again but i do foolish things to hurt my partner which i did not meant to...

I'm worried we might be getting married too soon, but he has told me he will break up with me if I don't marry him!

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20 September 2010 (F) - hi, i really need help with this. time is runing out. i am so in love with my guy.i never had such a deep feeling of love from anyone. we are like magic together. we got engaged on july 4th . i was very happy. we started dating in nov. [8 months] ...

She wont talk about what happened! How do I deal with this?

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20 September 2010 (M) - we have been friends for 13 years and i fell for her 1 year ago its been awkward,but we manage to stay friends.well she started staying at my place off and on, she would sleep on my bed, and out of respect i would only sleep next to her with no ...

Is he using me? why is he being weird??

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20 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 1 month - we had been dating for quite a while and I have known him JUST as a friend for over a year before we became an item and before we ever had sex. We had unprotected sex after getting a bit too drunk together - it ...

I'm sick of my boyfriend!

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20 September 2010 (F) - Iam sick of my boyfriend of 6 years, I DONT LOVE HIM NO MORE. i been with my man for 6 years and first been great, but he made me to give my child up and my home, my car, a year of the relationship he started abuse me, gripping me back the neck and ...

Why would he lie about having a girlfriend and why is he so persistant on keeping me in his life?

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20 September 2010 (F) - a guy I've been talking to for 4 months lied to me about having a girlfriend,even though I asked him specifically if this girl was. we're only "friends" but we do have an intamate relationship.. when i found out i told him i didnt want to be his ...

What is up with him?

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20 September 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] My bf always gets jealous, when i write on a guys wall, or when i comment something. So i told him i wouldnt do it anymore. Now, he is doing it, and i dont understand. What is up with him???????????...

How do I make her realise that anyone but her ex is a better choice?

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20 September 2010 (M) - So I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now, and we've been on several dates. Everything has worked out well up until now. But last night, she told me that her ex-boyfriend is acting like he wants to get back with her. The breakup hurt ...

I never wanted to marry so young but I have come to accept my situation, but my husband is making life difficult plus there is another man......

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20 September 2010 (F) - Yes... Mine was arranged marriage.. And I never wanted to marry so early... After marriage I realize that this is life and I have to live like this.. But... People are around me, they are not leaving me to live my life happy... Including my hus...

Getting over my ex? Is it hopeless for me to think we can get back together?

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20 September 2010 (M) - For starters, i've posted here a little over a week ago about my long distance relationship that i had going for about a year. We were having issues at the time, lots of arguments, lots of stress, lots jealousy(from me) Well the relationship, as...

I feel bad for not contacting him, should I say sorry?

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20 September 2010 (F) - I asked this guy out. He cancelled on me once and we rescheduled for later in the week. Then he ignored my attempts to contact him about our plans. I got mad and sent a text to him calling him an ass. He sent a smiley face back. And then i sent ...

I think I might be afraid of commitment!

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20 September 2010 (F) - I think I might be afraid of commitment, but not for the usual reasons people have for fearing it. This morning my boyfriend (of 6 months or so) said for the 20th time that I can leave some clothes at his place. He normally leaves some at mine but...

Should I put up with her behaviour for the sake of the relationship? Or is this just unacceptable?

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20 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend continues to force things I don't like on me after I told her I don't like them [ie I tell her I'm not a cat person/allergic, she keeps dumping her cats in my lap; I tell her I don't like going certain places and she still always ...

Is it realistic to think that she could leave him for good and come with me?

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20 September 2010 (M) - A few months ago I came across a girl a knew from years back. We started talking and texting. And as time went by we would do it more frequently. At this point I was falling for her but I didnt want to tell her because I she had a boyfriend. Well ...

Embarrassed by my father's affair!

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20 September 2010 (F) - My dad has been having an affair for the last 6 months to a year and has now asked my stepmom (whom I am very close with) for a divorce after 18 years of marriage. To make it worse my dad is 59 and his the girl he has been having an affair is 32 ...

My BF lacks creativity and originality, but I love him. Getting bored fast....help!!!!

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20 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of a little over one year is 20 (Four years younger than me). We met working for a national park last summer and have been traveling around for the last year. Anywho, my problem is that he has no creativity or originality when it comes ...

What's a cute idea for a gift to buy for my boyfriend?

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20 September 2010 (F) - Is there anything that is cute and not cheesy that a girl can buy a guy to show that misses him. But mind you, I wont take him back until he changes the way he treats me....

Should I give up on her and move on or keep trying?

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20 September 2010 (M) - I have a serious question. Me and my ex broke up four months after her dad died. She told me she had severe depression and she didn't ever wanna go back to that so she decided to go get help. She also told me that she's an alcoholic. She to...

Is it ok to have a relationship with my married boss?

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20 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, I got divorce recently because my husband cheated on me,anyway, I 'm here alone in USA.(new arrived). I'm working in a company. The manager has some feeling towards me even before I got divorce. he asked me if I'm married or not. ...

Giving your all and your partner doesn't? Why it it this way?

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20 September 2010 (F) - Why is it that one person give their all in a relationship, and the other person doesn't?...

My bf shuld marry his ps3 instead of me

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20 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been having problems with his stupid ps3 because he cant limit himself. he tells me im going to play for a few hours and that turns into 5hrs+ and 5hrs is the least usually he plays 4 8hrs. i was upset cuz thers 5hrs down the ...

Relationship is becoming more abusive, police no help!

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20 September 2010 (F) - We have been together about 6 years. We have had good and bad times,,, We had a really rough patch where he was physically abusing me,,I never told anyone or called the police,because I love him and I didnt want him in trouble,among other reasons. ...