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I never wanted to marry so young but I have come to accept my situation, but my husband is making life difficult plus there is another man......

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Question - (20 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2010)
A female India age 30-35, *ash007 writes:

Yes... Mine was arranged marriage..

And I never wanted to marry so early... After marriage I realize that this is life and I have to live like this..

But... People are around me, they are not leaving me to live my life happy... Including my husband...

If I wore any nice dress, he will get jealous on me...

How cans he do like that na….?? After all I’m his wife...

Thinking this I use to cry at my office also...

All are trying to make me happy, but they don’t know what was my problem…

At the same time this fellow joined our office, and made my mind like this..

Some days later I realize, he cares for me much, and now I inspired and liking him... And he knows everything about me.. He is 30 year old unmarried... But I just wanted to know he is serious in this matter or not… and I wanted to know “what will be a men's mentality in the age of 30”….?? Is m doing is right or wrong..

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 September 2010):

Honeypie agony auntGetting involved with another man because you home life is unhappy, will not fix your problems or your unhappiness. It's like adding fuel to a bad fire.

You need to figure out what WILL make you happy and work on getting that goal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010):

Getting friendly with someone else won't solve the problems between you and your husband. You need to talk about these things, tell him how unhappy he is making you and ask why he acts like this.

Is there someone in the family who could explain each person's point of view to the other?

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A female reader, Priyanka09 India +, writes (20 September 2010):

Priyanka09 agony auntA mens mentality at the age of 30 is.....sex. My apologies to be blunt, but I am not too sure if his intentions can be judged by his age. But yes a man at this age could be desperate. Dont show him your vulnerable side, he may want to take advantage of it. You will have to work it out with your husband, I am sure you dont want to cheat on him, do you?

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