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Archived questions from: 29 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why can't guys let go of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a yr and everything was good well at times it still is to a certain point. he has been tryng to deal with my pass. i had cheated twice on my ex husband. and he has such a big prblm with that he calls me names he says ...

How can you nicely tell someone they are unattractive naked and a lousy lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am now engaged in a sex-free relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we probably have sex about once a month. We are both in our twenties. The thing is, I am not attracted to him anymore. I feel superficial because it has t...

My boyfriend doesn't understand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am desperately in need of help. I am currently 17 weeks pregnant and live with my boyfriend of over a year. We have not been doing well in our relationship and we fight daily. I am emotional and hormonal and am sure that contributes to some of the ...

My girlfriend says she wants an open relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My Girlfriend want's an open relationship and i don't. We have been together for 3 years and are gonna get engaged and married. Still she is barely able to see me because of my job and college. I don't know what i should do....

I'm attracted to men, but don't want to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I really hope i dont offend any one so I appologies if I do. I am 38 years old and always had some sexual attraction to men. Its always been just sexual never wanted to date anyone that is. I dont want to be gay and in my family life it would not be ...

I feel like my wife lied to me about having an STD, how should I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My wife of 4 years returned from her pap smear with irregular cells. This in itself is terrifying. We found out they weren't cancer, so that was a huge relief. My question: when my wife told me she had the irregular cells, she then said, "I to...

How can I stop feeling paranoid about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well first i will tell you exactly what my problem is and explain it in detail. Any girl i get really attached to after about a month or 2 months i get paranoid that they are going to dump me. So basically 4 years ago i dated this girl, and after ...

Troubles with my fiance: porn, trust, family ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I just stumbled on this site looking for answers to my relationship. Even though I think I already know. I just don't want to admit it! I don't know what my question is? I guess I just what opinions? I started dating this guy almost 4yrs ago. We ...

Should we see a relationship counselor or should I not even bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend (or ex, I don't know) says that he doesn't want to be together anymore because a lot of things about me annoy him. However, he is willing to pay to see a relationship councellor (which I am not). Why does he want to see one ...

Why is he back with me and is this just a phase? Or did he never really care???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am goin to make this breif. I am going out of my mind at the minute! I am emotianally exhausted and I dont know what to do. Ok I was with my boyfiend for 10months and I split with him for many reasons. I was always making the effort, cooking ...

How do I control my thoughts about my future sister in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm a 22 yo student, happily engaged with a beatiful girl, currently living at her parents' place. This is a choice we mae a couple of years ago, because we know we couldn't get enough money to live in an apartment while we study, so we st...

Help me get out of this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which ...

My boyfriend claims he loves me and can't live without me, so why does he behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so this is my first time doing this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We have had our ups and downs like any normal couple. Over the last 2 years I have noticed a huge decline in his yearning for me. And with each passing ...

She lied to me but I still want her back, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well to start things off, im 19 and my recent ex is 17. I have been in college for one year, and she recently ggraduated from high school. We are young. We decided to get an apartment together as i transfered schools, to be closer to her and my ...

He has been terminated from a job, should I support him or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do with my boyfriend who's going through a very tough time right now. Recently he got hired for a job after 2 months of being jobless, we were both happy for that as he was getting depressed that he couldn't find a job. And then ...

Boyfriend got DUI and says if I wasn't so jealous it wouldn't have happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been living with my fiance for 3 years. He and I both drink daily. He has has a problem with crack in the past an cocaine. He has had 2 dui's in two years. He smokes pot everyday and takes pain pills every chance he gets.He is 56 I am 60. ...

B/f angry at me no matter what I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am getting really confused! My boyfriend is going through an angry patch and everything I do and everything I say ends up making him agitated with me! I do not know what I am doing wrong!! and to my knowledge I have been nothing but supporti...

Every time I try to get close to him he pushes me away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 3 years.. We had a baby boy together who is now a year old. I have gained some weight due to pregnancy and I'm fighting to get it off. When I was about 6 months pregnant, he said he didn't want to ...

Is it okay to pull away from the person you think loves you to test them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I never thought I would consider “testing” my boyfriend, but here I am dealing with some doubts that are driving me to seek action. My first boyfriend of over 1.5 years is by all initial impressions a great guy. We share the same values, respect ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me sharing dorm with a guy, its starting fights

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - basically i'm at uni and i've moved back into my flat. last year it had all girls but this year there is one boy moving in. so there are 4 girls to 1 boy. anyway my boyfriend hates the idea of me sharing a flat with any boys, so when i heard it...

Boyfriend wants to do stuff with guys. I didn't know he was bisexual!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - right where do i start.... me and my bf have been together for nearly 2 years and are living together and everything, however 7 months into the relationship he told me he was bi sexual. he had never done anything with a guy, but i found out 3 mo...

How do I show my boyfriend I wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - how do i show my boyfriend i wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away. someone mistakenly called my bf by a different name. thinkin it was one of my friends. (they kinda look alike). this friend had once visted me on campus and ...

He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...

We have been together 17 months now and we still have not had sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers ...

Is this realshionship one sided or is this in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (?) - hi you lovely agony aunts out there, i always come on her for help when i need, and feel i need a little reasurring today..., i at the moment feel my relashionship is one sided, me more than him, or could it be in my head, i will tell you how it is ...

My boyfriend is very controlling with me but I am too attached and afraid to be alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i'm 18 and i have this boyfriend i i'm with for 9 months. he was so sweet and charming the first 2 months but then he started to be very controlling with me. he tells me what to wear, he even forbidden me of adding my pictures on facebook, he gets ...

We made up, but my new bloke is back to his old behaviour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a new guy for about 1.5 months. He is 21 and I'm 23. Like him a lot. But he forgot that we had plans. This is like the second time. And the other week we were supposed to go out on a date. But he showed up drunk, with his friend. ...

Is he making a fool out of me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay my boyfriend cheated on me before and he was acting all funny, so i checked his phone records and saw this number all the time coming up, so i rang it and a girl answered, so instead of saying it to him i checked his record so i dumped him. we ...

Is it time to leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end ...

Will he ever commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - scared he may never commit? Me and my fella been seeing each other coming up to 9 months. Before he got with me he had been broken up with his ex of 8 years for 7 months. We broke up a month after dating because he told me that he thought he wa...

Is there a chance for us? Or is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy since June, and over the last month we have gotten very very couply. We started in a space of course where we both could date others, though he never did that, and I did, which he know. So over the last month, he's been ...

What can I do to be better in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - This is probably going to be very long, but I need to explain the whole scenario for you to see where I am coming from. I have been in loving and slightly dramatic relationship with my bf for a year and a half. by dramatic I mean everythi...

My boyfriend seems to be choosing his child with his ex over our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has two kids, one by me and one by his ex. his ex decided to move to another state now he wants to drop our home and jobs that supports our child to hang out with his other son can you help?...

Why am I so confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so I started talking to this guy Travis last year around february. He was in one of my classes and was really into me. We hung out on the weekends almost every night going to parties and stuff. We also studied together for class a lot. ...

I have discovered my boyfriend has been contacting girls for webcam sex! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Today I searched on google my boyfriend's mail and the results that appeared all where from comments he posted on porn blogs for girls to contact him (for webcam sex and I don't know for what more). One of them had the date of four days ago and we ...

I want to get back with her but she has already started dating again! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - So here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broke up like 2 weeks ago and apparently after a few days of us being seperated she's already began dating someone else that she met when she was still with me. Suffice to say this isn't a good ...

I don't think he loves me as much as he loved his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi all... its a bit complicated story.. in summary.. i love this guy so much and i m ready to give up everything for him but he seems he dont love me as much as he loved his ex before...This is a nightmare for me..I cant remove this from my mind....

When we were together he seemed interested.. but now is not making an effort to talk to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I met a guy at a college party and he ended up giving me a ride home.. turns out we lived really close so he invited me to his place before taking me home and we ended up watching a movie. He slowly did the whole putting his arm around me and was ...

I am giving him a deadline. By next fall, he needs to be in a school or have a good steady job, or I am not going to be with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend of 3 years. First off, he is not in college and doesn't have a job. He graduated high school last year, but he never even applied to a school until after. He does not have a job either. He goes around ...

Is it fair to eject people from your life who don't mind their own business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I know that no-one's perfect, but I have lost a lot of friends lately because I can't stand people who stick their nose in my business. They try to manipulate me. Is it fair to eject people from your life who can't mind their own business? I kn...

I am tempted to cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - First of all this is a gay relationship, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and we are living with eachother, I am currently going to college and he is working. I love him with all my heart! We make eachother laugh about anything...