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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

All he wants is sex, what about my financial responsibilities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Hello, I am a 56 year old female divorce now for 7 years...and I just told my boyfriend that it's over! We have known each other now for the past 20 years. And he just went through a divorce about 1 yr. ago....we have been dating for 2 yrs but te...

Everything I do is not good enough for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together almost two years and in the beggining everything was beyond wonderful..like a dream come true.we went on dates every weekend.he surprised me with gifts.and showered me with attention.but the past four months ...

Multicultural marriage becoming overwhelming

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I've been married to a Luo Kenyan (we just celebrated 9 years mid-August). We have a 5 and 6 year old girl and boy. We both live away from our families, he, obviously much farther than I as we live in the US. Lately things have been strained b/c #1 ...

Is there such thing as the "one" or is it just a stupid thing people want to believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - how do you know is someone is the one? i have just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 an a half years.. we have broke up once before but i know now i dnt want to get back with him beacuse he is an ex for a reason now! but all my friend keep sayi...

Is there anything I can suggest instead of porn blocking software that would be fair on both of us, and that would make him stop lying to my face?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Towards the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend I found out he looked at porn. I asked him not to, because the thought of it made me feel very insecure. He agreed, and promised that he'd stop looking. But he didn't, and after a while a ...

How can a couple rebuild from the point of relationship burnout? Or is it helpless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for about 1.5 years now, and it's been pretty rocky. There have been trust issues, control issues, fighting that goes on late into the night, etc. We have both made mistakes, probably me more than him. He's given me ...

Why the hell am I finding this guy so hard to resist when he offers me nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Hi again to readers who have given great advice re the Sydney internet guy. I haven't made the trip to Sydney and have decided that all he wants to do is to use me. I have accepted that, as hard as it is over the last week. When I text him last we...

Too big a change in the relationship. Why?

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2 September 2010 (F) - Hi me and my bf have been together almost two years..In the beginning it was absolutely wonderful. So romantic he showered me with attention. Even had our problems with jealousy and trust issues for the last for months. I recently went to riverside ...

Torn between my current stable relationship, and the possibilities of what could happen with this other girl if we were both single.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - Sooo this may seem like a really confusing question but i thank you in advance if you read this all and give advice Sooo me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 years now, we started dating in our senior year of high school and this ...

Is there a way for us to communicate calmy so it doesn't escalate into an argument?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I of 6 years have been fighting a lot. Most of the time its over small petty stuff but of coarse we have had some big problems too. We would like to know if theres a way or how to communicate calmly so it dont escalate?...

Does he just need time alone? Will things get better when I am not at home 24/7?

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2 September 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I have a quite complicated problem so ill try my best to explain it. I’m 16 and my boyfriend is now 19, we have been together for 3 years and met during high school, through a friend. I’ve been through a lot of problems during our relation...

Problems in my relationships....

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2 September 2010 (F) - Am a 23 yr old female who is having problems in my relationship. one is that i have never come during all my sexual encouters with the few guys i have slept with. two is that i feel kind of confused coz i have two guys right now and currently am ...

We never really broke up and I am finding it hard to move on....

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2 September 2010 (F) - till now i cant move on my past.. ive been badly hurt before.. its hard for me to trust once more.. i have a bf before i get here in japan.. he promised me that he will wait for me.. but couple of months staying here..i heard news about him.that he ...

Can anyone make sense of what is happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Please help me.my man womt touch me wthout being begged. Each time he gets home, sits to delete messages and numbers before relaxing. Most times when with people all is well,once alone in bedroom picks a fight over anything small and goes to bed ...

He stopped texting after we had sex, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - okay so there is this guy that i have been talking to kind of and we before we started talking we were always really flirty and stuff so finally he gave me his number and we talked a little but not to much and then recently we started talking a lot ...

One minute she is very sweet to me, the next she breaks up with my saying she doesn't love me! What should I do?

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2 September 2010 (M) - The girl whom i like is at times very sweet to me and show that i m the only one for her...but then she has a lot of guy friends because of which she doesnt devote time to me and then she want me to always be around her.. we were in a relation...

Will my boyfriend become a monster? Are these warning signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and feel that I care for my older bf. I know that I'm not quite in love with him and yet, he's my "first" and we're happy. The only thing is that I worry about some his behavior. He's sweet, encourages me in everything I pursue, and it's hard ...

Has my ex just come back to me to take my virginity?

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2 September 2010 (F) - Dear cupid,i was dating my ex for 9 months and we never had sex,and i found out that he was cheating and ended it,we got back together this year(june)and he think we should have sex,did he come back to get what he never got at the first place?my ...

I don't want my family or his family to know that we are having sex, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I dont undestand why my boyfriend of 5 years gets mad when I dont want his family and my family know that we had sexual relationships. I know that his family judges the women for having sex for a young age but he denies it. His cousin got pregnant...

My boyfriend is the kind of guy I need but not what I want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Gosh...i dont know what to do. I like my boyfriend and hes cool, but i question our relationship. I LOVE talking to him on the phone but sometimes on like Facebook or something i always avoid him and i dont know why. My friends are always telling me ...

I'm becoming bitter because of my troubles with men.....

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2 September 2010 (F) - I feel so desperate right now, I need to let this out or I feel I will burst. I fell in love with a man who ended up been married. This relationship has destroyed me so deeply. This guy is military and he happens to be in Iraq. I want to get out of ...

How can I show my new boyfriend he is not just a re-bound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - im going out with a new boy and everyone is telling me that it was too quick and that they hope it isn't a re-bound from my ex who i was so in love with. and it absolutely isn't but he told me that he thought he might've been a rebound i don't kn...

He ended it, but now he wants to get back together - on HIS terms. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I've been in a long term, long-distance relationship with a guy who basically controls me. I can't do anything without him knowing, he HAS to know what I'm thinking and why I'm thinking that and I'm not allowed to go near any other guy, which is ...

How can I make this better? I love him so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - hey there so i have a little problem in my relationship...my bf lives 20 min away but we go to the same school so i do get to see him and i stay at his place every weekend, he doesnt have a cell phone so i hardly get to talk to him when im not ...

Am I in danger from this guy who texted a nude pic to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I went on plenty of fish several months ago and was flooded with emails. I tried to weed out the jerks and players and would block them when I realized they were users. There was alot sleezy guys on this site. (as a caution to the ladies out ...

We were on a break! but he can't forgive me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. However last year we split up for 3months he split up with me because we kept arguing as i was abit overprotective. i begged and begged him back he told me no every time said he can never get back, even ...

I love him so much.... he left me please I need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title please i really need help. i love my fiance more then my life but he just left me today. we were engage alomst three years ago. i hide him about my past . i was victim of rape when i was 11 years old. i did not tell him befo...

I'm pregnant by my younger b/f, I don't want him, or the baby.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - need help fast! I am a 30 year old female and have a boyfriend that is 21 I just found out i was pregnant he doesn't no yet because I didn't want this to happen he already made it clear that he want's a baby by me but lately I have been having a ...

Long time girlfriend suddenly ditches you for friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - MOD NOTER: OP's own title: My girlfriend and I have been dating since the middle of our sophomore year in high school, and we just started our senior year. So it's been a little over a year and a half. I really really hate her two best friends, so s...

My bf's ex wife drives me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Me and my bf are in cooling off stage. Because we need to think things over if we still want to continue our relationship or not. We are ok as a couple as far as I knew, and the only argument that we have is about his ...

Please help me find the strength to leave my abusive b/f

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I have recently been in a very abusive relationship with a lad who is three years older then me,we had been together for a year and 5 months but continued to keep something going between us. Durin this time i have been with him he has been extremley ...