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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is my family so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - why is my cousin so nasty . my cousin Trudy is 40 years old with two kids . Jason, 20 and Ben 18 . well i never knew of her or my extended family untill i was about 11 . even then trudy was so stuck up and thought Jason was wonderfull as ...

He is married now but wont leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - He's married now, why wont he leave me alone? ive tried and tried but i give in, i love him sooooooo much and know that he has a wife now, but he keeps coming and coming, i keep letting him, what do i do when the love is so strong for a married man, ...

In-laws forcing me to get pregnant for a boy child!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Dear Readers, Please help me. I have been married for the last 5 years, I have a daughter (4 yrs old) and during my delivery I had severe heart complications and was under coma for almost a week after delivery. It took me almost 3 years to recover ...

Playing long distance tug of war...

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3 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year. I've recently graduated and moved to another city. I know he loves me but We are constantly arguing, I think the distance is mostly to blame. But at the same time, whenever we fall out I fe...

He's been done twice for being drunk under the influence yet he drove my car home DUI again!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - well my boyfriend did something really stupid - he has two dui's and he still drank and drove home last night, i got reallllly upset seeing that he was driving my car and that a third dui will land him in jail for 1 year. should i have gotten so ...

Help me keep my sanity! I am still in love with my ex and can't stop thinking about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Dear xxx, I have a problem and i hope you can help me. I am still in love with my ex, but it is not as simple as you think. I just cant stop thinking about him. I hope you have time to read the long story below. If not, please give me tips and...

He's totally different now that he's started college...

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3 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and now we share a 9 month child . But now everything is different ever since he started going to college. He doesn't call me in his breaks, he ignores my text messages and his a totally different ...

Am I wrong to complain about my boyfriend's daily drinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my BF for just over 2 years. Practically every day after work he goes to the pub soemtimes for a couple and sometimes alot more. I seem to be waiting for him to come out of the pub all the time. He says he's coming over ...

Is my boyfriend taking me for granted?

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3 September 2010 (M) - Is my bf taking me for granted? Haven't seen him since tuesday (well wed morning but all i did was drop him off to work). It's friday night and i texted him asking when I can see him next. He responded with "I don't know... I have a...

Switching Up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

3 September 2010 (?) - This is a really complicated situation for me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and four months. [I'm 21 and he's 29] At a certain point in our relationship he told me that he would like to marry me one day even though we'r...

After I got proof of him with another girl, he called me a psycho and broke up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for four years, everything was going well till early this year. He quit his job and started his business. He was stressed out and start hanging out with his friends alot more. He joined church groups and start riding his ...

What is this situation? I'm so confused and feel so wrong! (sex problem)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I feel like crap.... Okay here is the situation: I have a girlfriend and she has a brother. I love her dearly and been with her for about 10 years. Well we have been fighting a lot and her mother wanted to kick me out because of our arguing. ...

Help please - really rocky time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Help please - I'm churning inside. My Partner and I are in a very difficult situation. We have been together two years, and it was a big deal for both of us to start a new relationship in our fifties. We didn't rush into it and were committed to ...

Why did he disappear on me?

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3 September 2010 (F) - oky long story short me and my boyfriend were suppost to hang out n the weekend. on a saturday then all of a sudden he told me he could only hang out for two hoours becase he had a wedding to go to. i dont believe it though bcause he would have kn...

Will she ever leave this rocky relationship?

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3 September 2010 (M) - She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years now. These 5 years wasn't smooth for her. She has frequent verbal conflicts with him, broke up but pacthed countless times. 2 years ago, she told me her bf slapped her but still remained in this ...

He has an "I'm always right" attitude

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3 September 2010 (F) - Hey there, Just wanted some opinions on my situation. My Bf and I have been together for about 5 months and when its going good its great, when its bad, its terrible! During this time he has accused me of looking at another guy when out ...

Should I let go of this tidal wave relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy off and on for last 8 years since my senior year of high school. He was my first love and I thought we were going to get married and have children one day. In recent years we break up for the smallest things, like a phone ...

Why does he keep bringing up the past?

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3 September 2010 (?) - okay i dont know no more.. i mean my x and i dont see each other as x's ... how ever everytime were together he brings up the past i mean it doesnt bother me i just get confused by the way he looks at me and because he bring up the past.. i dont ...

Fiance doesn't understand that I want to live a health life!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - So my fiance don't care much about health, diet, eating habits, etc while i do and am trying and would love to eat and be as healthy as i can be not just for myself but for my future family and my career. I currently hold a bachelor's in Alternative ...

I'm worried about his weed habit

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful man but he smokes weed and says he has urges to smoke often, how can I get over it and simply love him? I don't want to change him or control him but i have a bad history with weed and the men in my ...

Getting married next month after six years, but no sex

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3 September 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 6 and a half years. The past two years we have been engaged and are getting married next month. We just moved in together about 3 months ago, and it's not at all what I had hoped for. We tend to work opposites, ...

My b/f posted for men-to-men

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3 September 2010 (F) - Help! My boyfriend of 4 years posted personals Men to Men on Craigslist. I was totally shocked. In addition he semed to know all the lingo and I am totally disgusted by reading it. Appears he is not new at this. I even replied to one of his ...

I don't want to become a single mother, how can I get him to open up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so I am back with my ex boyfriend of 3 years and the father of my child. Currently I'm living back at my parents house with my son and my partner lives on his own. Last week he asked me if I wanted to stay the weekend so I did. But since ...

He knows I have low self esteem yet he still continues to talk about other girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend knows I have very low self estyeem, and knows how much it hurts me to hear him say how pretty he thinks another girl is. He told me he will stop, but of course like a lot of guys they don't stick to what they say unfortunetly. He ...

Am I just convenient for him?

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3 September 2010 (F) - I feel hurt by this coment but am i over reacting to it. I have been seeing this guy for over 5yrs now and while i love him dearly he does'nt love me,he's fond of me i know but i don't feel any love from him.he's always txting me everyday without ...

I think he is mad because I confronted him about drunk dialing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - He dumped me after 6 months. I met this man online. We started meeting in my place.We never been anywhere else.He used to come at my place every Friday and drink stay over for the night.I enjoyed his company as I am lonely woman.I work 40 hours a ...