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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't clear my mind of the images of her past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

1 September 2010 (M) - So I am yet another person who has retroactive jealousy. It has bothered me for about 7 months now, on a daily basis. I broke the bank by going to therapy but it proved essentially useless. I do have OCD and am trying to remedy that with various ...

Eight years of marriage down the drain. Help!

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1 September 2010 (F) - I have an 8 yr marriege... My husband met up with his ex 3 weeks ago.. We were already having problems.. but this made up his mind.. after 3 weeks he wants too sell house and completely split.. Whats going thru his head?? ...

I want my ex back but now she is with someone else!

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1 September 2010 (M) - About my ex girl I miss her so much I cant stop thinking about her I dont know what to do with out her. She wont call me any more she blocked my phone number so I cant call her any more. In I think she meet a nother guy over back wh...

I am the other person in the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - Hi. I am a 28 year old female. I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a married man. This relationship started off with just a simple kiss and has escalated to a lot more, including love. He has been with his wife for approximately 8 ...

Why are some people secretive in relationships?

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1 September 2010 (M) - Why are people secretive in relationships? I think I know some of the answers. I have just come out of a roller coaster ride with a partner who was ridiculously secretive, preventing me from meeting a single person she knew, while I had introduced ...

I'm not sure whether or not I want to stay with my boyfriend or not

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1 September 2010 (F) - [Mod note: OPs original title: "Should I stay or should I go?" has been used already.] I'm not sure whether or not I want to stay with my boyfriend or not. He's 37 and I'm 26 and we've been together for 2 years. About a year ago I began doubting...

I know it sounds terrible about his past but I really want him to commit with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - "Wondering" I met this guy since i came here in Macau through our common friends. It's actually my guy friend who introduce me to him since that time that certain guy was looking for a vocalist for their band. It was like a sabotage thing b...

My girlfriend was raped -- how can I help her with the resulting trust issues?

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1 September 2010 (M) - Help me please! My girlfriend was raped by a boy she really liked back when she was only at the age of 16. He stole her virginity(raped her and didn't stop even though she kept crying) and led her on for about 1 month only contacting her when he ...

Is his anger the start of something more serious?

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1 September 2010 (F) - Hello, I need some advice. I just moved to a brand new state and city to be with my boyfriend. We've been dating for over a year long distance. We have spent time each other through out that time period. But since I've moved to his home town we...

Developing feelings for someone else so what should I do?

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1 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have always felt happy with him. He treats me well and we love each other. I always thought we would get married and have a family. But recently i started a new job and found that i have star...

I thought I never wanted to have children until now, but I am in a relationship with a man who does not want kids. Is this just a case of wanting what you cannot have?

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1 September 2010 (F) - I have never wanted children. In fact I made a conscious choice not to have any in my late teens and now I am in my late twenties. For the past three years I have been in a relationship with a man who also doesn't want children as he has grown son ...

I have a son with my married lover and now he has cut off all communication with us since his wife found out about the affair!

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1 September 2010 (F) - i have had a lover for 28 years. he has 3 sons with his wife and 1 son with me. i stayed away from him for about 6 years and now he has come back into my life. i am 55 and no one ever wanted to date me. except him. Anyway his wife just found out ...

My girlfriend has gone cold while she has been on holiday, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

1 September 2010 (M) - Okay so I need advice on what is best to do - my girlfriend has gone to florida on holiday with her friends and family for two weeks, she's already been there a week so next week she will be back, hopefully. But the point is whilst she has been out ...

How do I knock some sense into this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I don't know where to begin...I guess I would like some advice on how to deal with my boyfriend of 5 mths... Prior to the commencement of our relationship, I had spent a good couple of months getting to know him in fear of having my heart b...

I cannot get over the bad guy.....

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1 September 2010 (F) - There is this guy i cannot stop thinking about. i just cant seem to get over him for whatever reason and dont know what to do. the facts: -hes best friends with my manager (whom im also friends with) -he has a highly sarcastic, sometimes ...

My boyfriend has not returned my calls or texts since Monday! What should I do?

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1 September 2010 (F) - Hi! What can you do if your bf didn't reply your call and sms, i've been caling my bf since monday and sending him sms but he didn't replay im so stressd i dont know what to do please any advice?...

What should I do when she says something like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

1 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of a year recently said that she wished she knew me at a different point in her life. She then continue to say that she doesn't think she can ever "Fully love me or will ever have enough time for me in her current point in her life ...

Trouble since I moved in with him. Can't bear to fight in front of our son!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I have been with my fiance for almost fours years now since i was seventeen. He is 29 this year. We have a beautyful son togather thats 18 months. Well ever since we moved in with eachother in 2008 we have been having alot of ...

How do I get my girlfriend to talk to my sister after what she did?

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1 September 2010 (M) - Ive known my girlfriend for about 10 yrs but not been together for that long. We met up one day and we hit it off (originally just being friends) and have been dateing for about 6 months but known each other forever, always talking about the future ...

My boyfriend says I treat him like a toy!

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1 September 2010 (F) - I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but he sometimes says I think of him as a toy? We seem to enjoy each other very much, when he initiates, I always engage and want to please him but when I initiate, he often turns me down and states that he needs a ...

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

1 September 2010 (M) - Ok as cupid has helped me in my last relationship and im glad thats over and done with I am in a new one now and guess what? Yes I need help... Basically the woman I am with now has a rough past. We both some how met while buying a new car. She a...

He says he hates it that he loves me

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1 September 2010 (F) - So me and my ex has been on and off for about a year now. He says he hates that he love me.....is that good or bad?? Because im still deeply in love with him and he acts like his work is more important than me now since we seperated...should i just ...

Should I keep trying to make thing work? Or should I let it go and move on?

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1 September 2010 (F) - Hi my bf and I have been going through a rocky time lately. He doesn't seem as caring as he used to and that makes me a little insecure about his true feelings. I'm always the one approaching him, sending him texts, making plans, etc. Before it ...

I love him but he went and got married

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1 September 2010 (F) - My, guy who i was with 15 years got married on me 3 weeks ago, HE CLAIM HE F UP, i stiil seeing him just like we are still together, but he go home every night to his wife, what should i do?, i still love him much. i truly beleive he is my soulmate ...

Why is he doing this? it's breaking up our family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - My kids father and i have been on and off for 5 years. The past 3 we were going strong, and never broke up until a few months ago.he filled my head with empty promises of marriage and more kids one day. he has cheated on me one but it was for a few ...

How can I make myself happy again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - I feel very alone .... right now like as if no one cares about me. And idk why. I think most of it has to do with I have been alone all summer. I am every summer. I don't get those wooottt hanging out with my friends all summer. And it's killing me ...

What am I doing here??

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1 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so very confused. BUT ITS INTRESTING!! NEED FEEDBACK! Been best friends with this guy for 3 years. Always hanging out and everything. Soon as we met, sparks flew, we kinda both knew we were digging each other But i got into a relationship, du...