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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Wife doesn't tell me her sex fantasies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Note: Askers own title: My wife has never told me her sexual fantasies. And when I ask she just kind of stares at the cieling and goes "no i havnt really had any." Now I think she is bullshitting me. Why would she do that? ...

I am attracted to my wife's younger, sexier sister

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - I'm married for over three years now with my wife. I met her 5 years before that. My wife was really good-looking when I met her, but a couple of months before the wedding she began to gain weight, at least 20 lbs. from what I can tell, and most...

Should I dwell on a drunken kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Sunday night I was drunk and My roommate had a girl over he has been dating and she kissed me, just friendly she was drunk too. I didn't think anything of it, but kidding he said kiss him again with some tongue, I didn't think she would actually do ...

Confused about this man and unsure what to do next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I wrote last week about my friends brother stroking my hair behind my ear and asking if it was a flirting gesture, well this week, I don't know what has happened but all of a sudden he has been mean to me and then today he has been nice to me. ...

I am jealous of my friends moving forward when I appear to have stopped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Thanks in advance to those that read this, I need an ear, I finished uni this summer and had to move back home with my parents, and I'm still trying to find a job. I have little in the way of friends; as many have moved on and my best friend...

Am I just being an obsessive girlfriend or is he just not that into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out since january. At first we texted all the time. I swear there was hardly a text where he didn't answer me.Every e-mail was answered, he was never to busy for me and i him. We saw eachother everyday in class ...

How do I fix things and get them back to how they used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and everything was going great up until about a month ago and then things changed drastically. He wanted me to open up and voice when I have a problem but it seems as though when I do ...

My love of 3 years just moved out because she is confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - 14 days ago i received the most shocking new of my life. My girlfriend of 3 years told me that she wanted to move out and get a place of her own because she was confused about a lot of things. We were engaged two years ago but i lied to her (yes it ...

I'm starting to feel like a doormat and don't trust her, so how do I include her in my birthday planning?

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23 September 2010 (M) - ive been in a close relationship with a woman for 2 yrs now. lately ive gotten to where i do not trust her and feel like im being used like a doormat. this is unacceptable, tho she shows signs of caring etc. my birthday is next wednesday. she asked ...

How do I get over the devastation caused by his getting another woman pregnant and marrying her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Ok me and my baby daddy was together for almost 13 yrs. bout the last two yrs its was more off and on with us even tho that we didnt have the boyfriend/girlfriend title but we was still doing things as we were and a relationship. my daughter and i ...

His friend told me my boyfriend 'was not an angel' the entire 3 years we've been together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - bf cheated on me and i found out after 1 month break i thought everythng would work out and here i find out that he has been seeng someone else the entire month and according to his friend was 'not an angel' the entire time we were together for 3 ...

He's gone from being a gentleman to being loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I have a college friend that I have known for 8 years. When we met, it was wonderful and pleasant. A real gentleman he was. Now, he is loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting. He always want to have special dinner evenings in public. When ...

How bad is this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My friend recently confided in me that her and her husband of 6 years (they have kids too) have been having a difficult time lately. Apparently they had a very heated argument one night and he said something extremely hurtful and she (in the heat ...

His conversation really hurt me! should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - This conversation put tears in my eyes but I said nothing, I just sucked it up. Now I think that as conversation was on IM so maybe I misunderstood and I had no reason to be upset. Hi I would need some honest opinions about this conversation...

Her party ways and flirting are going to doom this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Ok my girlfriend is in liverpool due to University so we're in a long distance relationship she's always going out partying and flirting with males (you can see in the pictures) She claims she's not cheating but honestly I think she is. How can I ...

My dad's side of the family is causing trouble for my fiance and I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Over the weekend, I just got engaged. We've been together for a year and a half, live together and are elated. His family is very happy, so are our friends and well as my dad (and his wife) and my brother. The problem is my dad's dad and hi...

With my baby's mama but in love with someone else!

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23 September 2010 (M) - Hello, I am 23 yrs old. I am currently with my babys mama. I have lost the love that I had for her, and I feel obligated to stay n the relationship becuz we have a 2yr old daughter together. Idk wat to do?? I feel like I'm wasting my time with not ...

He cheated and I just don't feel his love enough.

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23 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship for 3 years. My boyfriend *Alan cheated twice in the beginning of our relationship (ex girlfriend and a woman that goes to his gym where he works.)I didnt deal with it at the time as my mind was else where with my ...

Why doesn't he touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I've been totally crazy about this guy for years...he knows it and has shown a interest as well...he has a major problem in my eyes...he lets me rub all over his body...Yes, I have even rubbed on his crotch...but nothing has went further...but that ...

How do they manage to sleep at night, tormenting others all day?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hey all. I need to talk to someone about this. Today I gave notice in my job and I feel utterly deflated. Having been in the job for less than a year, everyday in that office has been a living HELL - to put it mildly. Despite being qualified...

No sex...no job

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now ...

Jealousy and insecurity are causing major rifts in our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Please help - I'm scared our relationship is gonna end soon. I've been with my boyfriend nearly 8/9 months. We're both in love. But the problem is little things cause insecurities, arguments etc. He was with someone for 8 years before we got toge...

Did my boyfriend have a midlife crisis or was it that he just couldn't keep it in his pants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I have been going out with a guy for 7yrs and we were blissfully happy up until last November. He is 3yrs older than me. We bought a house last November which he probably pushed for more than I did but we both knew it was the right decision deep ...

Is he dreaming of having sex with the other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello again.... I have a second or shall I say third delima. Now since my husband and I are tring to work on our marriage......we dont have sex anymore like we use to. Since I found out about this affair and the possible baby we have had sexmaybe ...

Annoying ex co-worker--I've started hiding from her because she always comes around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Please help guys! I used to work with this girl who was very insecure and nosey. She always used to poke her nose in eveyones business, was opinionated and invited herself to everything everyone was doing. She left our company 5 months ago- than...

Was I his one night stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello to everyone! There is this man that I have been seeing on and off since 2005. He is very affectionate and I cannot help but become shy around him. My mother told me to choose him --a week before she died! I fought hard not to be with him ...

Is it his love or lust or just passing time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - i have a cousin who has fallen in love with me. before that we were very close to each other. he was always joking with me and me also i like him a lot.(just like a cousin) however since the past weeks while having a chat with him on the internet he ...

My mother emailed this friend and told him I loved him and now he's uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I'm sure this sounds unusual, especially being I'm 31 yrs old and my mother's 50, but the guy I love knows I love him, because my mother told him. I'd already told him I like him, but not that I love him, until after my mother did. We were ...

Bad boyfriend has me believing that no one else would want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - well i have been with this guy for 8 years. iam 24 i was 15 when i got with him. when we first got together we was happy my mom realy liked him. well about 3 years later i found out he was doing drugs behind my back. we would fight all the time and ...

Should I expect to talk to her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - [OP original title] Ive asked the question before on this site, but i feel like i didnt get much perspective on it. Anyways, ill simplify my story. Me and my girlfriend for the past year had a great relationship, i had trust issues that we...

Super complicated relationship, should I trust her again and give her another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - hi well its started we met online on msn, she used to love and tell me that she loves me so much but i was with another girl so i kept blocking her and telling her that i love another girl till a day me and the other girl argued together so i went t...

He is talking to ladies online and won't stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend of four years spends all his free time in chat rooms I have discovered 1o5 contacts all females . I read numerous sexual conversations he has initiated, denies he has a girlfriend , I've confronted him several times he tells me he's ...

I'm feeling insecure lately and my boyfriend is making it worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - dear aunts and uncles, i'm feeling insecure lately and my boyfriend just making it worst so about a month ago i found on his phone a picture of a naked girl it was from a magazine i was mad but we worked it out but i'm quite not over it when i ...

Personality change for the worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hey I've just started my third year of high school. I havea friend I met in my first year who I'm sort of close with. At the beginning she was shy, but polite and I (recently having been through a family ordeal) was aggressive and outspoken. Being ...

How do I change her demands to see me every single day without her going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - I have a gf of 10 months who i meet daily because she wants me to. If i dont then she starts those "i know u gettin bored of me" lines. The thing is its just not possible meetin every day in her house for more than 6 hours. its almost a live in ...

Emotionally weighed down, boyfriend not like he used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Recently I helped dye my boyfriends hair black. I did it to make him happy because he's been kinda down lately. But after that he's not like he used to be. Now he wears a dog collar, and adding a ton of black to everything. He talks really ...

Torn between my brother and the man I love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I am a 28 year old female. I live in the same house as my 24 year old brother, and have fallen in love with one of his closest friends. I tried talking to my brother about dating his friend, but he says its weird and stops talking about it. ...

My ex, who says he wants to get dating other girls out of his system, wants to date girl number two. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - So 3 months ago I caught my (ex)-boyfriend of 2 years (we started dating when he was 18, now he's 20 and I am 4 years older than him and 24) flirting with another girl (let's call her Girl #1--she happens to be your atypical "hot girl"). After a ...