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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He slept with his abusive ex wife while we were seperated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - my love of my life and i recently got back together ater 3 months of being apart as we realised we are still deeply inlove and want to be together,he was married and got divorced years before i knew him.now after having zero contact with the ex for ...

I think my boyfriend is gay!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - About two months ago I discovered on my boyfriends laptop that he had pictures of himself. I thought this was a bit strange and went on to his email and went through his sent items. I then discovered he was sending pictures of himself to other men ...

I don't want her talking to my old bestfriend but she does anyways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she ...

I'll never be the "wild ride" she had with others!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

24 September 2010 (?) - I just can't get over my girlfriends past. It's not that I have an issue with the fact she's had sexual partners before me, or even that she had great sex with them. It's the fact that those relationships were almost purely sexual, and the sex was ...

She said I insulted her and she felt cheap after we had sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - Hi! I will try to make this as short as possible :-) I am 27 she's 19. We've been dating for about year and a half. I love her very much but... in the last couple of months she had become distant toward me and we have been fighting a lot. A week ago...

What do you do when you get into a fight with someone special to you and you have tried almost everyting?

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24 September 2010 (F) - What do you do when you get into a fight with someone special to you and you have tried almost everyting? I have asked with question to many people. And I have gotten many answers, and they were good answers. After a month I talked to him a little ...

How can I make him understand I'd like him to contact me when he's not working?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Well after I did not contact my boyfriend for about 20 hrs he called me telling me he's been working and apologized for not responding. He now works 2pm-10pm. I texted him around 11 pm that night to say goodnight, no response. I called him this ...

My husband has a lot of charges against him from my family, how do I be fair about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - My story goes like this: I'm married for 10 years and is blessed with 3 kids (2 boys and a girl). My husband has no job so I am the breadwinner of the family. I have a nice paying job that I can even support the vices of my husband which is ...

Is he acting this way because we had a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I have been together with him for 4 years and have a son who is 10 mths, he now seem so different in everything, he arrives latw from work, always fighting, excuses in bed and I am worried dat I am gonna lose him and I lv him so much, sometimes I ...

Should I say something to him or just let it go like nothing happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 4 months. We've had many up's and down's in the past and my friends think that I could do better but when they see that I am happy or I tell them that I am happy, they are fine with it and don't ...

I love her so much but I don't think I can deal with her new rules about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i have only been dating for two months. i am 16 but a romancer all the same. i lost my virginity to this girl and i love her. its not about the sex and i dont think she realizes it. in two months we have only dont it three times. ...

I still have love for her but the physical attraction is gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - Well, I met the woman of my dreams two years ago. We have been on and off ever since we met, we lived together up until work forced me to move away. I came home, we decided to give things another round. I still have love for her, but the...

Her mixed signals are confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - Girlfriend said she wanted to break up then changed her mind. For roughly two weeks we were talking daily and taking it slow. She even said things were good between us. Then she wanted to visit me last weekend and didn't show up last minute. ...

Should I still trust my instincts this time or should I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I have met this guy who is in his early 40s in a dinner arranged by a friend. As we are both single, we were asked to sit together. The guy has showed his interest throughout the night. It ended with him telling me that he hopes to invite ...

I don't think I should stay with my girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - We've been dating a year and a half or thereabouts, and recently she's moved to a different city, and I'm supposed to move with her but I don't know if I should. She's recently made her facebook completely private, so I can't see photos or commen...

What can I do to mend our relationship before he leaves for europe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - My bf and I dated only 6 months and he asked me to move in with him. I lived 135 miles away so quit my job,and gave up almost all my furniture (because he had everything in his house). Within 2 months we started to argue because I wanted him to set ...

Is my thinking far too possessive or do I have a good point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Ok I have a bunch of friends, well they're not really close friends as some of them are a bit untrustworthy and have been known to 'shit' on their mates by sleeping with their exes etc. I also have a boyfriend who I love very much. We been together...

My boyfriend has gone away for a few weeks and I'm worried I'm going to stop loving him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Hey My boyfreind went away a few days ago and hes coming back in 2 weeks i was missing him the 1st few days, i was thinking about him everyday and i was dreaming about him every night... but theres something about me if the person i love goes awa...

I love this woman so much yet I can’t let go of the suspicions and it’s killing the relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I’m in a three and a half year relationship with L. We’ve both been married three times before. We met shortly after an 8 year relationship and a 4 month marriage with another woman, T. My ex was constantly flirting with other men and ...

My partner is friends with a former lover, and I just cant get my head around this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to stop talking about former boyfriends because it felt icky to hear and know about them. She thought it would help me to know her better and did it a few more times until she finally stopped. I think it kills emotional ...

We have been seeing each other for 3 years without ever defining our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for nearly 3 years but he goes for ages at a time without seeing me or ringing or txting. We are not offically together can't define our relationship. When we are together i really feel a connection, that he has feelings for ...

We were so much in love but had a bad breakup, he's messaged me now. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Dear people, I'm angel, currently 23 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years during my engineering graduation. we had a very cute kind of a rapport, we were very good friends to start with as he was my batch mate and then fell in love ...

He keeps me around but I watch from the distance as he is still dating others!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm really screwed up. I'm in love with my best friend, and he claims to love me too, but I'm not sure what to do. Because we stay in two separate states, we haven't made anything official, until I move closer in around a month or two. We ...

He doesn't understand me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Hi. I have been together with this boy for 1 and half years. I love him truly with all my heart. However, I feel so hurt at times because I feel that nowadays, his friends are more important than me. He misses me a lot only when he is alone. I refer ...

Am I being over sensitive and paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Hi, i moved from England to Australia a year ago to live with my partner, who is english, but has worked here for several years and is already established. I gave up a good job, apartment and an independant life to start a new life here. i can hear...

My boyfriend wants to wait 5 or 10 years until we have a family but I am desperate to have children now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Hi there! I need my own famaliy but my bf doesn't want children now, he says he want them when his 30 or 35 yrs and now we are both 25 and we have been together for 3yrs,this things its really kiling me,and ther is no one who is proposing me,can you ...

I still have feelings for him but I'm struggling to get over his sleeping around while we were not together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - First of all thank you for any advice you can give me. I have a 3mth old baby and her dad and i arent together.but recently we started talking again after sooooo many downs and i think were cool now. But he told me he slept with different girls all ...

Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...

I'm still in love with him, but I'm unhappy. Should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I feel like it would take me a long time to go into the specifics, so I'm going to try to ask this as simply as possible. What do you do when you're in love with a person, but you're unhappy? I still love my boyfriend, and he still loves me, ...

My husbands touch makes me nauseous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 22 years. I have remained pretty close to the way I looked when I married my husband. I work very hard at keeping myself fit and looking good. I eat right and workout on a regular basis. My husband is a good man, he works ...