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Archived questions from: 27 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I thought he was my dearest friend and lover..and he threw away 22 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I don't even know where to start and yet feel better just by starting. This man is or rather I thought that we were the best of friends and that we would see each other through any and everything. We have been friends over 22years or at least that's ...

Anxiety attack, all went wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I really need some advise i hope you can help, im a 26 yr old male living in the uk, my problem is this, ive just started seeing this gorgeous amazing girl that im crazy about but i seem to have developed some sort of anxiety, when we became ...

Why would she want to talk to a guy who stood her up twice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Here's the story: 19yr girl meets 41yr old man as a virgin. She goes on a date with him to try and forget 33yr old guy who enchants and frustrates her. 41yr old and her kiss for an hr straight. But then, he asks for a 2nd date and stands her up. So, ...

Am I just worrying too much about the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - 2 months ago, I met someone at a friends party and we started talking alot the day after and he asked for my number. We started talking literally all day, everyday. He made a lot of effort to make conversation with me as well. Throughout the...

Does he deserve this last and final chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved ...

He's threatening suicide unless I marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - When I was a fourteen year old freshmen, I met a boy who was absolutely gorgeous, and was a senior. He and I started dating a week after meeting. It was a really great relationship until he cheated on me so I broke up with him. He threatened suicide ...

Why is my boyfriend pushing me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now.I wouldn't say that it is true love yet.He is very down to earth and understanding material.At the beginning we were very sexually active,in fact i met him through a 'one night stand'.I'm not denying ...

I feel so used and so jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I feel like i really hate myself. Im in a really dark place. Basically, Im 27 years old and single mum to 5 month old baby. I dont know whether its cos I spend quite a bit of time alone and have a lot of time to think about things and Ive j...

My boyfriend lied to my face& up to now he is still hiding it from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Just this summer, I saw that my boyfriend had one of this girl's number on his recent texts, meaning he was recently texting with her. Oh and he knows that I hate this girl so much. So I asked him about it and he told me that "probably someone was ...

After our 3some and 4some I am wondering if I should continue the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome ...

Thoughts on technology and long distance relationships

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - It never fails to amaze me how many questions I see on here about long distance relationships (LDR's). I will admit, I understand the temptation. I've been there. I've tried it. I've concluded that they don't work. Still, what is it about these ...

Does he really want to get back together this time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend split about three weeks a go. He told me he didn't want to be with me at first and it was a definate no, then we met a couple of days later and i asked him again and he didn't he didn't think so, but he didn't know whether ...

I have no idea what happened that night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - okay so my question what the hell happened this night? so i am 16 and it was a saturday night and me and my freinds decided to go out into town (clubbing) becasue i had a free house so then we could come home when we wont too. When we were in t...

I feel like such a loser!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I feel like the biggest loser in the world. I'm 18, have recently started univeristy and I feel completely alone. Everyone around me in my old town seemed to be in a relationship, and here at University everyone seems so confident when talking ...

Complicated relations with girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - This is gonna be a long question...I fell in love with my best friend's girlfriend and I mean...completely. Never felt about someone that way. She's beautiful and has a deep personality, which I think doesn't fit with my friend at all. Don't get me ...

My boyfriend is acting weird, did he do something he shouldn't have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend wen out this friday to a college party at his school he commutes....and i leave about 4 blocks from his school he invited me but i decided not to go cuz i just wouldnt feel comftorable there....anyways the next day he gets home ...

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...

Should I be patient with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He is really sweet and absolutely wonderful to me. But he keeps telling me he's confused about his life. He was married for 15 years and it ended last year. She was well off financially so he never worried ...

Caught between my father and my boyfriend who are both strong willed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I and my boyfriend seeing eachother from last 3 years. i am 25 and he is 26. my parents wanted me to marry now as its my right age to get married. so i told them about my boyfriend, who is from culture. as i am north indian and he is a south indian, ...

My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...

It's so hard waiting, when will I get my blessin'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I don't know what it is, but I feel like the only thing I'm missing in my life is a husband, I understand that marriage is hard work well so is long term relationships, sometimes I feel like if will never come and other times I feel like its so ...

Although I am usually chatty when he is around I just freeze up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - i need help. there's this guy and is OBVIOUSLY too good for me. i really like him. all my friends think i should just talk to him. but i cant seem to bring myself round to it. im usually the most talkitive person ever. i talk to EVERYON...

I don't know if he is interested or even it it WAS flirting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I'm feel as though I'm going crazy as I just can't get my martial arts instructor out of my mind. I've known him for nearly 3 years and we've always got on, but recently we've been talking more and he's getting me involved in the teaching side ...

I know I need more than good looks to get me through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I m 26 years old girl with many issues.I have amazing boyfriend,good,tolerant,calm,very rich,I get almoust everything what I want, but I never feel satisfied.I ve been surfing the net in search for help to my overcontrolling and agressive ...

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last ...

Trust? I'm not sure what to think about this situation but I don't want to go down that road again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Major Trust Issue. Ok. So here is the issues. Yesterday my bf who i've been seeing for the last 4 months was arranging drinks with a girl that he has told me in the past that he is good friends with. The issue is that he messaged yesterday to...

I'm feeling really bad that we touched each other just for fun.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - we are not a couple but we touched each other that night in a scool club's camp(we'r both 21). it all started when she got close to me as she liked me or something so i thought id respond(cause i like her). so she took me to bed says that she wanted ...

How do I move on from a drug user that I love so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hi everybody how can i move on from a drug user that i love so very much ...We always said that we were always going to stay together no matter what but it hurts so much seeing him killing himself with the drug and all the lies he been saying i ...

Boyfriend being cold and distant, is it related to stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for taking time to read my question. Ok, so um I need help like urgently. The best relationship I ever had is about to collapse and I want to do something before it's too late. Here's the situation, I've been seeing this gu...

Window for the "Previous Sexual Partners" talk has passed... what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello World, I had sex with my girlfriend on our first official date, and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place with finding out her previous sexual history. I was a virgin when I slept with her (and was blind-sided by the whole experi...

I'm afraid he's going to leave me for someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I've been in a fantastic relationship for a year now. He's absolutely wonderful and treats me so well. But I am quite insecure. He's never done anything to hurt me or make me think he'd leave me. He even called me the love of his life the other ...

Boyfriend beating me--is there any safe way out of this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so I've been with this guy for 3 years, and he's been hitting me for a while now. A long time actually. After we were together for only 6 months he started to hit and it has continued these past three years. I had the option of course, like ...

My girlfriend moved out after 3 years... I love her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - well im back after 4 years.so i have been with my girlfriend now for three years we actually split up a year ago but i guess i felt we worked it out because nothing changed we still slepted in the same bed had sex did everything couples do.so she ...

Is it realistic for me to hold out for the day that he isn't selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has always been quite selfish. Not in a terrible way. But he does continue to put himself first. Even when I really really need him. I asked him to come over the other day as I had had an awful day and just needed comforting. He had ...

How do I react to my girlfriend's actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I met my GF about 4 years ago, at first we just talked a bit but I kinda fell for her pretty fast, I asked her out but she refused, I was a bit upset but she was important for me so I stayed a friend for her (and I was REALLY a good and caring ...

Gf living life of riley, while I work to making a home - fair?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - dear all, my gf dosent see a future in me, because i have 15k student debt! we where making out after a session of sex, and i asked her how she slept, as she seemed to be having nightmares. she didnt want to tell me at first, but after pers...

The language of love, is this flirting or just making friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a culture-related question about flirting versus making friends. My boyfriend gave out his phone number to 3 girls he said were flirting with him. When I told him I didn't like it he claimed that this is how he makes new friends. Now,...