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41-50,
*ondos
writes:Hi there,I got divorce recently because my husband cheated on me,anyway, I 'm here alone in USA.(new arrived).I'm working in a company. The manager has some feeling towards me even before I got divorce. he asked me if I'm married or not.now, he knows I got divorce and he is very gantal man and kind from the begining, he takes care of me so much, asked me if I need anything, doing search for me for anything I just asked him when we talked. I surprised he did search for me. anyway, I like him or may be love him so much. he is being happy when I'm happy and he encourages me to do best in my work and even in my personal life.he supports me so much.we talked together every day and he asked me about my life , my friends, my family and everything.we went out for lunch together as friend and we will go out together as he offered he will take me to a nice place for walking.he is married, and he loves his family. but he has something with me. I feel it and he always told me where he is going and what he is doing in the weekend and sure asked me the same where I will go and what I will do.he is married for about 23 years and there is also a different in age about 15 years. I'm very happy being with him, he also there is a lot of chemistry between us. he treat me as a friend but I'm afraid if the things will go further because I will not be able to stop because I'm lonely and so attracted to him. I know he will never leave his wife and I don't want him to do so but I want to do relation with him. is it OK? I don't want to hurt and I don't know if he really loves me or not. because what I want is his love and his care not having sex.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (20 September 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-to-do-when-the-person-youre-attracted.html
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reader, Red591 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 If you do than you are just like the girl your ex-husband cheated with. It creates bad karma. I would keep friendship and use him as an example of what to look for out their in the non-married male world :)
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reader, futurearmywife +, writes (20 September 2010):
 no it is not ok. If your feelings are growing for this guy stop hanging out with him and talking to him. How do you think his wife would feel about it? and your husband cheated on you. I've been cheated on before and it hurts believe me, and you know how it feels too. It sucks major. Don't let the relationship grow, it's wrong to do that. if he is happy with his marriage let it be, don't be a home wrecker. Did you like getting cheated on? my guess is no, so what makes you think that its ok to do with your boss? I know you are new to the united states but get out there and meet some people....stop hanging out with your boss so much its not ok and the feelings you have for him are going to grow stronger if you don't put an end to it right now.
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