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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I tell her after I leave I just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - I have a gf of 10 months. We really like each other. I visit her house every day for at least 6 hours. The problem is she wants me to come daily without gettin late no matter what and if i dont she gets all psyched. how do i stop doin that? Now,...

Second life is real life to my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I have been involved with a man for 7 years. In that 7 years I have found that he lies to me many times, changing his stories and says that I am remembering things incorrectly (which I know is bull). Because we live apart and neither of us ma...

My boyfriend and this other girl!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been having problems lately because he's going to be moving back to his hometown which is like 5 states away. and I don't know what to do. but to top it all off, I saw his messages and he was messaging this one girl who...

I'm having trouble with my orgasms! help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - Ok, I'm an 18 year old male, I starting masturbating when I was around 9 or 10, for a few years my orgasm stayed pretty much the same, but in the lsat few years my orgasm has been diminishing and getting worse and a couple of months ago it got to ...

Reconsidering getting married...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Hey guys! Im about to be married in less than a month but having doubts... I love my fiance and his family with all my heart but there is only one thing holding me back...he's really bad about feeding into the attention other women give him. At the ...

Help! Why is it so hard for him to understand that I won't jeopordise our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We found each other (you can say) at the same job. We work together constantly side by side almost every day from the time we start work till when we get off and still spend time with other. Our ...

Not in love anymore? Break up after 8 years? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I'll cut to the chase. Im a 29 year old male, been with my girlfriend for 8 years, going on 9. She's 27. We've both had our ups and downs and have been through some devastating situations, trust issues, etc. I love her dearly, she'...

Should I be worried about my boyfriend and his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Boyfriend and I started dating 2 weeks ago. Sometimes he brings up his ex (they broke up August 24th) which kind of bothers me. His ex blocked him on FB but added him yesterday. I can't really complain b.c my ex and I broke up a month before they ...

Do I stay and live a perfect life with someone I don't love? Or do I risk having to struggle in life in order to have another chance at love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Years ago, as a child I began to develop feelings for a boy in my grandparents' home town. By the time I was 19 I fell in love with him and we secretly dated (my parents have always been very old fashioned and I never had a boyfriend so I was scared ...

He was convicted for theft! Should I ask him about this or just stop replying to his texts altogether?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Found out my potential new boyfriend has a criminal conviction for theft!!. I met him online and have been chatting for over a month on the phone. We got to really like each other and planned to meet on Friday for the first time but I googled his ...

Does he love me and want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - hi i need to know whether i am mad! i have taken my boyfriend back twice but the second he came back to me, he was in love with this girl and yet he came crying to me and said he wanted to be with me, yet now he says he loves both of us but he wants ...

Why do I always keep running back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - argh! basicly, ive liked this guy A LOT, for like 4 years, when i was in year 10 at school, (i was 14) the school did a production, and he was the backstage man doing light and sound, id seen him around school and thought he was gorgeous! and my ...

Will my girlfriend get bored of having sex chats every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - will i bore my girl for sex chatting with her each day? she likes it but am afraid i might bore her...

He told me to go blow my brains out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for 2 years and we used to live close by eachother.I loved him so much but we started fighting all the time and he has a huge temper and anger problem so I moved away from him and also broke up. I also realized that our ...

How do I prove it to my boyfriend that I'm not having an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - im 15 years and my boyfrend is 20 years. i broke up with him some months before and we again joined. during that time i had another Bf . i didnt know how end the relationship with him .. When i wanted to break up with him my first Boyfrien...

My cousin is in love with me but I don't have any feelings for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - i am presently single. it so happen that one of my cousin has fall for me. he also proposed me but i refused him because i don't have any feelings for him. even though he continue running after me. he is always sending me text messages with ' i love ...

I know he is cheating on me with another girl but I cant let go of him, especially after we lost our baby....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Hi im a 24 year old girl i met this guy in varsity, we were friends for a year and on our second year we started to have sex until i bcame pregnant. he told me he wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy but the child did not survive. he came back we ...

Online relationship strain

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - Hello guys, i need advice with an online relationship and i would appreciate your opinions. I have been involved in an internet relationship with a girl for about a year, we met in a chat room and began talking as regular people but quickly real...

Is it important to find out why they broke up with their ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - I hate long distance relationships and i promised myself not to have one again.. this one was unexpected and i plan to move hours away to be with her with quitting my job in the process.. We've been talking for a year now and have met a few times....

Have I been fooled by him? Or am I taking this too seriously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Ahhhh, I feel decieved... and dissapointed in myself for letting it get to that. Was he a professional slimeball, or did he have feelings? I had known him for 4/5 years. Met on a night out, but we lived in different countries. I got a boy...

What to do in a sexless relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - ok here goes, me an my partner met 3 years ago she had just had a child and things worked perfect. as time went on we became closer an closer an the child even calls me dad as her real dad is not around. ok so basically we both have no real family ...

He promised to marry me but now it isn't happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - hi,i m jyoti.i have a physical relationship with my boy frnd.i want to marriage with him.he promised me for the marriage.but he do'nt.i m very disturbe.plz help me....

If he wants to end it, why can't he tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Hello all, I have been dating these guy for 8 months now and he has even expressed interest that he would want to marry me and asked to see my parents. Last month, no quarrels or anything, he just stopped picking my calls or returning them and ev...

My b/f doesn't like it that I added someone to my friends list--should I not do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Facebook related question. So me and my bf made a new friend last month but my bf met him the day b4 and i met him the day after. i only have ppl that i know or rememeber on my list and dont add new people if i dont know who they are. this new...

Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...

Why did my best guy friend push me way, what did I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - well lets call him (A) well me and A have been friends since the beginning of 8th grade and the last day of 8th grade we were friends. actually we were in class together listening to music together and everything you know just the best of friends ...

Why is my husband so secretive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - hi,my name is amrita.I am married for 6 months and i am now pregnant,but when i ask my husband questions,like whats his monthly payment or whats his password for yahoo he dont wanna tell me these thing.I gave him my password to my yahoo cause i love ...

Not seeing each other enough...busy schedules

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - my bf and i met in college, did the long distance thing for almost 2 yrs, broke up, got back together, broke up agian and are now back together for a yr and going strong. talking moving in together, marriage and all the long term things. however, ...

I don't understand where the relationship is going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago we hit things off really well he was a bit rude at times to me it was just a casual thing and then i started falling for him so I asked him the question is this going anywhere? he didnt reply could not give me an ...

He doesn't like my annoying habit and doesn't think we can go further because of it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - Hi Okay I'll try to keep this short as it's nearly 5am here and I need some sleep. So I'm currently seeing this guy and it's really only the 2nd time that we have met physically prior to this we met online and then we e-mailed then we talked ...

I'm worried about our future since our communication seems to be a little off. Am I right to worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Hey Dear Cupid, My concern is about the communication between my fiance and I. We seem to have our differences and not understand each other or see each other eye to eye at times. And our communication is off balance. I feel our minor difference...

I hate my mom's family! Am I a bad person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (?) - Hi, I have more of a health question than a love question but it does pertain to my relationship. Agony Aunts please help! I'm a young woman who's been having periods for almost three years and they've been so irregular lately, with terrible...

I proposed but she broke up with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - i had a relationship with girl,I have loved her more than any one can imagine,the greatness of that love has suffered me even i was with her, it was a love out of control,i can not really descirbe how it has been.I told my parents about fiancing ...

Help! I think he gave up on us too easily!

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22 September 2010 (F) - Hi, my bf broke up with me recently, but I don't think he made the right choice. Here's the thing, he's been selling a lot of his stuff, trying to find a new job, and new apartment, has been cutting off connections with old friends, etc. To me, it ...

Why does he always have his bags packed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - why does my boyfriend always have his bags packed? and when I asked he says thought you might need your space! or maybe i you don't want me here. Then he comes back in and say's "if I'm not welcome her I would like to know instead of you avoiding...

Troubled relationship and now she won't see you!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - You're a 34yr old guy and you've been seeing a soon-to-be 19yr old for 7 months. She's only met three of your friends (who were from out of town and spoke no english) and that was months ago, she understands when you tell them you're her tutor. You ...