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Archived questions from: 8 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I've dated a lot of jerks, but this game where he throws me out only to ask me back the next day is new.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - ive been with this guy for 7 months now. he seems to have a hard time opening up, and seems like someone who nevr really could want a relationship. im the idiot who chases him. so here's the situation.. we moved away from our hometown together, we ...

She says she loves me but isn't in love with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - hi i need help i think my relationship is coming to a close but im finding it realy hard to deal with. i want to try and get things back how they were, she says she loves me but she says she's not in love with me. i said if i loved her id let...

He throws his ex in my face when we fight

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8 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had a lot of up's and downs. we love each other, and it seems he dont want to break up. not everything we fight about is his fault, but when we do fight, he throws his ex's in my face. "his ex's trusted him better" "his ex's ...

Why hasn't he been retested for STDs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Over 3 months ago my partner was bitten by a drunk female while he was operating his taxi. He reported the matter to the police. He agreed to go for blood tests. I offered to go with him but he said that he preferred to go on his own. Later that day ...

I'm in love with him but does he love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - [first question] My Boyfried Loves eccusin me all the time he says he knows i am cheatin whene i am not he dosent listen to me is he eccusin me because he's cheating ? x [second question] I Think Im In Love But Dose He Love Me?,, He Says it all...

He makes fun of me, hurts me and then says he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I stopped at my boyfriends this weekend and he got drunk one night, I was lying on the sofa and he turned to me and said "wheres this come from?" and pointed at my stomach he then said "you've got a right little stomach on you" meaning he thinks ive ...

My boyfriend is so nasty to me, he is now my ex boyfriend, but how do I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - My now ex boyfriend I was with for 4 years. We was each others first loves. I fell in love with this guy knowing he was super stubborn. So now that we have spilt I have relised how bad he treated me! He was very arguementive, and started arg...

He says he loves me but is still engaged

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hey guys I need advice so desperately!I met this guy in may!he is from germany I am from uk.he had lived in america for 5 years...we started off really casual,but then things got more serious!I found out he had a girlfriend because I read his ...

He doesn't love me but wants to be with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend told me straight out he dosent love me but that he still wants to be with me. he said he dosent think he will ever love me but still wants our relationship to work. what do i do?...

Why do people chase you and then drop you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - as your aware my last question was over my ex i moved on and met someone else, at first he was really funny told that i was the one, and that he loved me dearly we went on holiday together but he woud blow hot and cold with me, i felt real close to ...

I no longer love him as anything more than a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years so far, and to the outsider we look perfect together. We get little disagreements like all couples and we have an amazing sex life but I can't stay committed to him. Throughout those 3 years I have ...

Troubled, Physiological Issues With Boyfriend. - Lying to me to keep me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf now 5 months, when we started dating i thought he was just your average guy, nice, caring, sweet thoughtful..it was only week after week i would find out something new, he didnt tell me at the time because he knew i would be ...

My family says move on but he's my whole life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Me and my first and current boyfriend of almost two years were dating when I found out the shocking news that two and a half months ago he had cheated on me with my now Ex-best friend. I found out by her phoning me early in the morning and her ...

Girlfriend asked for Space, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Hi: I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 and 3/4years, I'm 23 she's 18. Just 3 days ago, she asked for a break or to have her own space. I was completely blindsided with that request because it was unexpected. Initially when she told me, I r...

No matter what I do, I can't seem to bring him to the point of ejaculation!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - OK - how to put this delicately...! I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and in many ways we do have a satisfying sex life - from my point of view at least, and he seems to enjoy it to. The thing I worry about is that no matter w...

Should I try to contact him or is there a reason he hasn't gotten back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - So me and this guy went out a bunch at the end of this summer, he bought me dinner once or twice, we did some real fun stuff together. Then september rolled around and we're both at different unis, but in seprember the calls and txts were still ...

What can I do about this dilemma without alienating any of my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I have a good friend (We'll call him John - not his real name!) who I have known since college. We've always got on well, and we still see each other on a regular basis and until recently I've always enjoyed us spending time together. The thing is...

Did he cheat on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - When my boyfriend woke up this morning, I had mentioned that I had dreamt about him and he asked what happened. I told him he probably wouldn't want to know and he asked why, did I dream about him cheating on me? I told him no and asked why he would ...

Controlling b/f texts me 200 times a day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hi, and thanks for reading my post. I've always been a happy person, smiling,laughing enjoying my life lately I'm tired, headaches, a tad down. I'm sure its because of my turbulent relationship. It started like a dream come true. He was charming,...

I don't know how to break down the wall between boyfriend and myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I don't know how to break down the "wall" between myself and my boyfriend, at least I still hope he is mine. Last night he initiated "the talk" but I tried to put off any break up until we really understand each other better. He said he hasn't been ...

My bf broke up with me because he said he was getting too attached to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hi My bf broke up with me today saying like he is getting more involved and attached to me which is affecting his other things in life. So he wants to break up. How can he say like this, i can see we are prefect for each other. We literally comple...

I need to find the courage to get out but I'm at a loss for what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - We have been married for 11 years and have been together for 13. Things were fine until my husband got arrested for driving under the influence and I had to ask my mother for 2000.00 to get my vehicle out of hock. My mother got very angry at my ...

Should I take him back? Or is he just a liar?

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8 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. He had a live in girlfriend that he had just broken up with and so was having to move out of home and try and re establish himself. He was under a lot of financial pressure and has been working late ...

From my end our relationship is perfect, but I am worried he does not think the same!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I was in a bar with my boyfriend last night, and there was a pub quiz happening. I wasn't participating, but I heard one of the questions, which was about golf. I generally know nothing about sports, but for some random reason I knew the answer to ...

Why do men have emotional affairs when they can just be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (?) - my question is very ckommon...why men have emotional affair..if the girl can be just friend so why the boys does not treat like other friends...why they remain texting....although it is simple but it is also a way of connecting and there becomes a ...

How do I get a second chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - hey guys , i dont know from where to start this , my gf blocked me on msn ,i know that coz i have her on an other profile but she doesnt know that i can see her online , we were in ldr , and we broke up coz we had so many ups and downs and i kinda ...

How can I convince my husband that this girl is just a flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (?) - my husband is going for foreign trip for 2 weeks ..i read a message from his collegue that he has a gift for him.she has to told a lie to his family for market and she was saying to pick it up from table himself so no body can notice...why???does he ...

Am I jealous of his ex or the fact that he has a child with her and not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Do you think its normal to be jealous of your boyfriends ex girlfriend who he has a child for? I'm not sure if its her i'm jealous of or just the fact that he has a child with her and not with me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. ...

I didnt get the job I wanted and this has really affected my self-esteem! My boyfriend sucks at cheering me up so how do I get him to give me some space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Okay this is not really a rel'ship advice question... I'm doing my MBA...recently this great consultancy firm came to our college - and i cleared all the rounds..but apparently they did not like me; so they offered the job to someone else. ...

We have just found out we are far off cousins, is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - I am very busy guy having troubles in business and studies.. And once in my life i found the person I could relate and who'd understand my feelings.. We then feel in love.. She was real close to me.. And we've now been together for about 3 yrs.. ...

Why did she end it with a text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - hi, my girlfriend of 2 years wanted to move overseas so i said its over. then i thought about it and thought we could still make it coz i love her so. i tried to get her back and she kept saying she needs time to think. so i gave her weeks. then i ...

We are getting married in 20 days but he still has not contacted me! What could be the reason for this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - hello friends, i got engaged to a guy who is completely selected by my parents. Our enagegement is over before 20 days, But till now there is no interest shown bu that guy toward me. We are getting married after 20days. Daily i will be witing f...

I don't like this girl and don't want anyone to get the wrong idea about us, what should I do if she comes onto me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - so people i got this girl and i think shes butt ugly but she really likes me and once asked me if i masturbated and i got so disgusted i almost threw up! what should i do if she tries to come on to me?? i don't want anybody getting the wrong idea!!?...

Love and happiness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Is it possible to love someone even though your not happy?...

My FWB slept with my friend, how should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - So I'm writing about a fwb relationship that I need advice on what to do with. there's this girl I have been talking to for a few months. I liked her strongly at first and couldn't get my mind off her. She expressed interest for me as well, but gave ...

I know this girl is using me, yet she makes me look like the bad guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Alright so I was in what you might call a reationship. I dont considering partly through it I figured out she didn't like me. I started dating her while on vacation in south Florida. We talked and found out she wanted to move up to NC about 4 hours ...

I don't want to lose my good friend but I don't want to go against my boyfriend's wishes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hello Cupid. I have a seriously problem. I am stucked up between my best friend and my boyfriend. i once had a facebook account. However once i met my better half he told me to cancel it. i did it since i did not feel the need to keep an account ...

Dreams of me and my boyfriend breaking up again and for good

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for six months, we broked up twice but that because we were in a bad situations, and now we are doing good, i love him and he loves me, but for sometime i been having dream that i'm gonna loose him again, one dream i had he ...

I need to take the best decision for my baby.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has stuggled with addiction for 16 years. Drug, alcohol and porn. We have know eacjh other for 15 years. We got together 2 years ago after reconnecting....he and i were so excited to be together...and everyday we worked as a team to ...

Now that he's single he doesn't want to be with me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I am a female who had been dating a married male of this same age group for approximately 18 months. my dilemna is, now that he is single he seems not to want to be with me and build a relationship. he was being very evasive about it all at first, ...

I don't know if she really is under stress or am I just tripping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - So here's the setup. I've been with the girl for about a month and a half. We are both 19 and in the same college, and live quite close. She is my first girlfriend, but she has had several boyfriends before me. In the beginning we were quite close...

I'm falling in love with her and falling out of love with myself.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - I'm a shorter guy, 5'6 and 1/2. I've always been subconsciously self-conscious about my height but it's never really bothere me too much as it's taught me to grow in other areas such as a good sense of humor, empathy, my creative side, and ...

She's lost interest in sex because of her religious beliefs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year, and she's gradually lost interest in sex. She claims she feels guilty because of her religious beliefs, even though she was quite aggressive sexually early in the relationship, and actually ...

I'm tired of this double standard relationship. Is it time to let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Here it goes. I've been with my bf for over two years. We have amazing chemistry unlike any I've known. He tells me daily he loves me, compliments me says the sweetest things at times to me. Also, speaks a lot of marriage. The problem is he's ...

Is our relationship failing? Is there a way I can get the spark back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - How can I get the spark back? Me and my boyfriend are in holiday in Barcelona and he just now said to me that through out this whole trip he hasn’t been happy with me and that he thinks that whatever he does, I will never be satisfied. That...

Any suggestions, as I watch her try to decide what to do with her marriage?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - I am a male, age 56 and recently left a 30 year marriage after falling in love with another woman...Gosh, heard this before, I'm sure. Anyway, to complicate things, she is in an unhappy 30 year marriage herself and is in love with me as well. We ...

A person I loved is really mad at me! When do I try to make contact again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone...I'm really sad and sometimes depresion gets over me.A person who I really loved is mad at me I guess she doesn't want to talk to me.That person said it will comeback wen its ready to come. Yet months have passed n its still not here. ...

My boyfriend might have traced my secret account! What if he read a horrible question I asked some time ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - So my issue is very compliacted, about three months ago I started a relationship with an old friend, he's a nice guy, and I like being honest, but he's the kind of guy who doesn't like to know about his girlfiend past or anything (although I had ...