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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have huge trust issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have huge trust issues. i have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now. since i was in a car accident i have been staying with my mother and its about an hour from his home. i have been with my mom here for nearly three months and he has ...

I want to leave him but physically cant bring myself to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Im sort of in a relationship with someone. We have been like this for 10 months now. He's lovely and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. But he does have his moment where he turns and just doesn't talk to me, blanks me and does all ...

Why do I always get bored one year into a relationship? I love my boyfriend, but I am getting bored with him as well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hey. I don't know what's wrong with me. I've only ever had two genuine, long-term relationships and have only had sex with these said people. The problem is, is that it seems like after I hit the one year mark, I just get totally ... bored of the...

He can't go one day without wanting sex from me, is my boyfriend of one year using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend always talks about sex and always wants it.. we cant even be alone without having sex for a day! we have been together for a little over a year. is he just with me for sex? i asked him and he said no and gave me reasons why he is not... ...

He is abusive and neglectful, skips work and is attached to his computer. What kind of man is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have been with a man for close to 3 years after his divorce in 2008. He started to become violent but yet abusive in his own way towards me. I ignored all signs and continue the relationship. We moved in together and I began to see he was attached ...

I just want to be with him! Is there any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - Hi there, Theres this guy I've been working with. He said to me that he really likes me but because he has a boyfriend and we work together, nothing will happen between us and we would just be friends. I absalutley love this guy. Everyt...

If I meet up with my male friend (who I have no feelings for), will my boyfriend think it is ok to start meeting up with his ex's again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Basically. My boyfriend ruined my trust at the 1 year barrier as he had coffee with an ex without telling me, after about of month of telling me he didn't want to see her again, and me crying because he'd be texting her ALL the time. We had a big ...

Does every relationship go through a little rough patch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Does every relationship go through a little rough patch? Things were going great till like a couple days ago now things are just on the verge of being okay. We have been in a relationship for almost a year but have been friends for two years. I just ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Im a chinese divorced woman met this Englishman 18 years older than me. I love him and try my best to learn English. We've been together for 2 years but we dont live together. My english improves a lot but there is still misunderstanding ...

Why am I watching my ex girlfriend whenever I see her out and about, even though I have a new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I just broke-up with my girlfriend of 6 months. I felt she wanted to spend time with her girlfriends and not me. I did get mad when she went out with her girlfriends. My Ex-wife left me for another man and I might just be too controlling of my ...

I feel like if I don’t give him what he wants sexually, he wont treat me right

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 6 years now, since we were 16. We have always has a good relationship but we have some major issues. I love him so much and will never give up on him. He has anger issues and trust issues. I admit that I did do ...

How can I make him see that being together again is the right choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and my ex is 19. We dated for a year and three months and our relationship was near perfect. We fought a few times, just as any two people in a relationship would. We said that we loved each other for almost the whole time, and with time we ...

He cheated, now I am falling for someone else and have no idea what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Ok, this is probably going to sound like I'm a complete bitch, but I do have a conscience and I do feel bad about what I'm doing here. I'm 26 and have been with my bf for 2 years. He cheated on me a year ago, and has been flirting online ...

How come I feel like something’s wrong and he’s being really distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Right now I’m in a 3 month relationship and everything is working out for the most part. He just got his license and is looking for a job. I have had both things for a while and started new job. Anyways our relationship started out great, we texed ...

Struggling to cope with the distance.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - i cannt cope with distance releationship and now im making the wrong decisions. cant stop thinking that he is cheating on me too....

Is this just my negativity from being cheated on in the past? Is this a normal rate relationships go at? Or is he playing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hi All I am 29 and have been seeing a 20 year old man for 3 months. The problem is when we are together he is so lovely, and tells me how much he likes me and I am amazing etc. However, although he texts me every day the relationship just ...

End relationship or keep trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I am late 40's and have been involved with a man for 4 years...a comitted relationship, but we are not engaged and do not live together. We each have 2 children...older teenagers. The beginning of our relationship was great, expected to marry this ...

I think I am not "in love" with my boyfriend of 8 years anymore, and now an old crush is back on the scene I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship which I been in for 8 years, I love him but not sure if I'm in love with him. I have recently been in contact with a old crush and the past 2 weeks we got close, my heart telling me to be with him but I don't know please help ...

I thought frogs were supposed to turn into princes, not the other way around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have a really big headache literally today because of a man I thought I knew but he turned out to be someone totally different and a liar. I have been dating someone for some months now - he gets on great with my child and some weekends we get ...

Torn between the ex I love who I have 2 children with, and the woman who loves me and is pregnant with my child....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I was in a 4 year relationship with who i thought was the one... Im a recovering addict and upon finding this relationship i became co dependent in it, the addict history is important because i stopped going to meetings, which means i stopped being ...

I had a relationship with a guy who had been with his girlfriend for 4 years and now I'm pregnant he wants me to have an abortion, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - im been since this guy for 8 months and im totally in love with him, theres a connection there big time and always have a fairly good sex life, but hes in a reltionship for the past 4y ears and admits he does love her and now ive found out im 2 ...

How could a man be like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Why would a guy not be interested in women until he was in his late 20s,never settles down,but had a bit of a relationship with someone years ago,keeps going round another womens house for sex now and again,when he finds out shes pregnant he wants ...

Why did a good girl allow sex so easily?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I met this lovely 20 year old girl through her sister, a co-worker. I took her out to the movies just once, and then did not see her for a month. We kept in touch. When we met again we went to a secluded place where we talked about her dreams...

I know he is busy but I am fed up of being the only one putting in any effort into this relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 and been dating a guy who's 35 for over a year now, though its a distance relationship. We still get to see each other as often as possible, he sends me ticket and I fly over to him. We are so much in love, and he treats me so nicely when ...

Whats going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I need help im seeing this guy that i thought i liked untill he gave me mixed signals...one day hes showing affection towards me and always looks at me when talking and then the next day he has no interest in me only glances when i ask a ...

He has the final say about everything in our marriage, and I cant even get him to talk about our problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - i have been married to my husband for 27 years. ever since we married he has the say in our marraige, i was married for ten years before we had our son he never helps me around the house he works hard and is a good provider. we have not had a ...

How do I get out of this slump without letting it have an effect on my relationship as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I've just been made redundant from my job and I'm gutted to say the least. I love my work, I love the girls I work with and more than anything I'm worried about money and how I'm going to aupport my family. I do have a partner who works but even ...

In love with 2 totally different women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I’m in love for two difficult women and I don’t know what to do: The French woman – She is 10 years older than me. I had a one year relationship with her, but she was breaking up all the time, so many times I never know when is the last one and...

How do I convince her we should get back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - hello everyone , i really need everyones advices, my ldr girlfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that she doesnt want a relationship anymore, she said its not coz of the relationship it self, its coz of her , but i dont get how she could ju...

My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a ...

I can't put up with this abuse any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Well me and my baby's dad been together for 5 years, and a little after a year he started throwing things at me, yelling at me, now its kicking me, socking me in the side of my head and at times he does it in front of our kids and he only does it if ...

My BF wants space even though we are already in long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hello there!!i need an advice regarding this problem of mine....You see i'm already 30 years old, just now i experienced my first boyfriend.Through online networking sites.We been communicating through phones, emails and been chatting for almost ...

Should I stop being so affectionate and see if b/f gets the hint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - My bf and I are going through a "sensitive patch" he has been having issues with work, feeling stagnant in life, and just in general feeling down in life and I have tried my best to support him, but due to his stress he has become very stressed, ...

I think I'm wasting both of our time because I love her but am not in love and don't think I ever will be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - Please take a minute and help me try to find an answer to this insanity I feel I am living in. I have been dating a gal for a little over 6 months. She is 28, I will be 32 next month. We had been online friends for nearly 5 years before we started ...

Is she interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (?) - I can't figure out if the girl I have been dating is interested in me or not. She tells personal things, she really opens up to me, and we have a great time together. We've slept together a few times, but not had sex, I've never made a move, and I ...

What could be the reason for her change of attitude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I'm slightly confused at the moment, i've known this women for 2 years now,the first time we met we hit it of well, not to sound corny but we sensed something in eachothers eyes, she flirted with me by always looking deeply into my eyes, always ...

My drunken mother says I'm a kid and my feelings don't matter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Okay me and my mom don't get along she is always drunk and yelling at me. I try to explain my feelings to her but all she cares about is herself she always says I'm a kid I don't have feelings. I don't live with her. She lies to me and everyone ...

Were any of these relationships love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - i wanted to no which one of these relationships that i can found out if it;s love or in love with? my first one was when i was young i call him my true love cause even though its has been a few yrs but i still say that i love him we just keep ...

How can I get my boyfriend to give me some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - As you read my other post my ex and I are still on a break but I just can't get the past out of my head. i'll know he'll never change although he cries to me and says that's the past, it still hurts me because I put one hundred percent effort in our ...

Is she confused or just plain upset that I didn't propose to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over five years. Last spring we moved in together, and things seemed fine. Three weeks ago I came home and she told me she wasn't happy and she didn't want to be with me any more, and she said she ...