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Archived questions from: 16 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What do I have to do for my girlfriend to forgive me?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - It was my girlfriends birthday a little over a week ago and I had some stuff come up that got in the way of getting her a gift. I told her about it and at first she was fine with it, then a few days later she brought it up and i felt terrible...

A bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Is it a bad thing or does it look needy for me to tell him that he inspires me by being in my life. I think this is thoughtful and giving of me. What would he think?...

I love him, but my relationship is SO BORING (the sex too)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19, and we've been together for a year. I truly do love him, don't want to leave him, and really can't picture myself with another guy. I've even tried talking to other guys (when we were on a two week break), really cute ...

I want to move away, should I break up with my boyfriend first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - my situation is ..blah. i have a best friend. me and her have been bestfriends since we were both 6. we have done everything together, and have not the least bit grew apart from eachother, even though we dont always keep in touch, we have and always ...

Why can't I end it when I know I should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend on 3rd july 2004 on my 18th birthday, he was my first big relationship and my first love. We have been together for over 6 years and it has been very up and down with one or two break ups. when ever we split i am convince...

I've tried dumping him twice but he doesn't get the memo!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - hi i need to break up with my boyfriend, because he is controling and overbearing. the proplem is i dont know how i tried too twice already and it went knowhere we got back together. so how should i put it to him, he always would just get mad and ...

I just don't find her sexually desirable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - So after being horribly abused and used by two different women (I won't go into details, but the end result was me having a complete mental breakdown), I had finally rebuilt myself from the ground up, and I was feeling confident in who I was. After ...

He likes to be around his guy friends all the time, I'm wondering if he's gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - why is it my boyfriend likes to be around his guy friends all the time im beginning to wonder if he gay.When i ask him lets go somewhere together or walk together he saids he dont feel like it but if one of his guy friends ask him to go he jumps up ...

I'm only asking for a happy medium!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Have you ever been in love for the first time, and it is with your very first girlfriend too, and you love her so much that you would never let any harm come to her, but she never seems to appreciate anything you do for her and that is tearing you ...

Do exes come back a second, even third time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hi I was wondering if you could help me at all. My ex boyfriend of 5 years split with me in 2008 before i completely lost my sanity i left for a new life in London. I was doing ok and seemed to be moving on until my ex wanted me back. He moved t...

Who is this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - When I met my current boyfriend, 2 years ago, he was kind of a ladies man, and i accepted it. He was always honest with me, while we were still just friends. He started to develop feelings, as did i. SO we finally gave it the title. My best ...

Proper etiquette!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hi, need advice badly. Basically am in a 3 year relationship love my boyfriend very much but cant stand his family. They have no manners. Went to family meal recently his brother made really crude jokes and had a chat about it with his mam. My ...

He's browsing women's sexy clothing websites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm the girl that had the boyfriend who wanted a break. Well things haven't gone as far as that but I have found that he has been checking out girls wearing sexy clothes online. He is no way looking at pornography, just girls weari...

She was very standoffish and made me feel like shit. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together just over 5 months. We started out fighting and when things are good, there great. We found out she is pregnant, and at first things were okay. We found out after we had a blow out and said it was done for ...

He's texting other women and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hey there... I am so confused I don't know what to do! My boyfriend is very up tight about his phone and so he has a password on it and doesn't even want me to touch his phone. And so I went through his texts and I saw 3 texts that stood out to me. ...

Regretting marrying my wife as she isnt the woman I thought she was

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - This is my situation... I am married and have a newborn child (4 months) but I can't stand the fact that my wife was what some might consider a "slut". She slept with 16 guys, slept with a married man regardless of her knowing that was his ...

Should I accept her back in my life or just be done with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - 11 days ago my fiancee broke up with me, she wanted to be with another guy. After all the break-up arguments were over she has been texting me and hinting about getting back together. I do love her but I don't enjoy the way she has treated me ...

He's done nothing wrong, yet I don't trust him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, So, I've been with my partner for over two years now and am still not able to completely trust him. We have a great relationship and love each other very much, and he's never done anything to make me suspect infidelity on his part. We...

We keep breaking up and getting back together all because of his flirting with other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have broken up and gotten together 2 times and i really do love him! We broke up the first time because he just use to flirt too much to an extent that he didnt even notice himself! 2nd time was because i went overseas for about 3 ...

How can I make things go back to the way they where when we first dated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - I'm dating a girl who has a bad history, she did tell me everything about her past she also told me that she has changed and that she wants to be with me forever but i'm struggling to trust her and i end up hurting myself and her too. Whenever she's ...

I want to find the right way to tell him about being unfaithful to him....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - My friend recommended with site to me, so here I am, I hope you can provide me with some advice. I cheated on my boyfriend and don't know how to tell him so he'll listen to me. Please read through the back story before making any ideas of how ...

Trying for a baby is destroying our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend now for 2.5 years and 9 months ago we started trying for a baby. Since then the sexual side of the relationship has gone downhill for me totally. Once she has ovulated, i can forget sex, as she is worried about 'u...

Why cant I seem to hold onto a man? I'm not picking the wrong men, they are picking me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I seem to be caught in a cycle of rejection and I need help to break out of it! My long-term relationship ended nearly three years ago and this year I decided to try dating. In the last few months I have been rejected by four men and I can't figure ...

Is this just my trust issues or is he doing something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - ive been with my bf for nearly a year now. i met him on facebook and we met and spent few hours together when i was there in his country.i only treated him as friends at that time but things developed after that.we chat for hours every night,webcam ...

How to persuade a family member to leave an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I believe my brother's wife is emotionally abusive to him. He and I share and run a business together and we were always close growing up (we're twins) so I know him very well. They dated for 8 years and I always thought she was bad for him righ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want sex anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend hardly ever wants sex, I really do think it's wierd. Usually you hear that they are pests but my boyfriend isn't at all. It's not a case of I need to tell him, I've told him and his response is usually 'your a slag and I'm tired' even ...

Ex wife is hanging onto my family!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - The facts: we were divorced a year ago after 3 years of separation and lots of good reasons to split. We have 2 boys, 23 and 19 years old, now out of the house (university and "exploring the world.) I met the love of my life 2 years ago, and am ...

Did I lose feelings for her during our separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girl were separated for two months. We talked everyday and texted each other. The thing is, over the two months I did not miss her at all. Even though we talked everyday every time I saw a text from her or see her calling me I would cringe ...

I gave my husband everything and now there is nothing left of me....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 25yr I'm a housewife and mother of 3 (3yrs, 2yrs and a 6m)have been married for 3yrs but been together for 6yrs with my husband...our relationship has been going through rough roads for the pass years mainly coz I feel neglected ...

I'm an emotional wreck!

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16 November 2010 (F) - Recently ive been really emotional. I cry about the littlest things for example I cry everytime I think of me and my boyfriend (Of 2 Years) breaking up, If he talks about some other girl or even jokes around about being mean to me. Its long distance ...

Why does an ex (first love) make things so complicated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4797 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I am still in love with my ex. We were dating for a couple of years and he was MY first Ever Love. He got my name tattooed on his arm and always told me loved me. Then one day my friend tells me he no longer wants to go out with me. I was devasted ...

How can I stop myself from falling out of love with my ex? I still want her to be my wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - My ex gf whipped me. She treated me like shit cheated lied you name it then threw me to the canibals. I went way down had to go on antidepressants. I used to breathe her 24 7 for months and months thinking maybe she would return. I want her to be my ...

How do I make my son my priority over my romantic relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - This isn't your typical relationship question. I am currently involved with a man who treats my heart like a revolving door due to his own depression. I am madly in love with him and that won't change. My problem is my lack of self esteem that ...

Cheating: are some actions more unethical than others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - It's unethical to get involved in an affair but many people do and then some typical outcomes may happen from there. Some questions on these outcomes and which of them are considered more or less ethical/moral: (note: I'm referring to lon...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my dream or just let it slip?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (?) - Hello i have a dream question. First off, Im a very caring loving person dispite how vocal and rude i can be. So yknow, when somethings wrong with some one i'll tell them 'i love you' because i care about them and no matter what, i'll be there. ...

He's so hot and cold with me! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - so there's this guy I've liked for a while now. we were such good friends until he started being a jerk. he knew I liked him but probably thinks I don't anymore because of how he hurt my feelings. I forgave him and he was nice to me again. I think ...

Is he still in love with me or am I just his sex partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hi I have a problem with the father of my son, we've been together for 6 Years now everything is fine except he doesnt take care of me I mean ,he didnt pay for my son and he never proposed to me , he doesnt help me with anything like buying ...

He flirts with her all the time and I feel like second best here! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, my boyfriend has this female friend hes always flirting with. ever since the beginning of our relationship it has been causing serious problems..ive even broke up with him over leaving flirtatious picture comments on her profile.he ...

I can't trust him because he let me down! Am I being irrational here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I am currently engaged to a man seven years older than I, and we've been together for three years. About a year and a half ago, my father passed away from a long-term illness. My fiancée knew my father, and of his illness, and that time was qu...

He doesn't like my flat bustline...help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - My partner and I have been together 3 yrs and I thought our relationship was ok. Out of the blue he said that when he made love to me it was like doing it with a little boy. He wont explain what he means, I've had 4 kids and havent got much of a ...

This toxic relationship with him is exhausting..but I love him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for almost two years. When I first met him, we were perfect together. I am usually friends with a guy first before I go out with them, but this guy we just jumped right into out relationship as soon as we met. By one month, ...

I believe my hymen is broken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - i'm a virgin.i've fooled around a little but never done penetration.i thought my hymen was still intact,until a talk with a friend last night lead to some research,and all this time i had mistakenly thought my cervix was my hymen.then,realizing from ...

I can't stand that she's not a virgin!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Okay so im fairly certain that i want to break up with my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 9 months now and in her eyes everything is going great. But a few months ago I found out she s not a virgin(I am a virgin). Ive tried to let time ...

My boyfriend is unrealistic!

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16 November 2010 (F) - I'm going to start with an explanation first. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Him and I love each other. He is as sweet as can be and we've never had any huge arguments-- only bickering that lasted 5 minutes and we g...

Why bring another girl to MY party when you're supposed to be there for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Why has my boyfriend invited this girl to MY party if he never takes me to any of the parties he goes to? My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and during this period he’s taken me to one party, and one wedding. Nowadays (As he ...