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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Misunderstood his email, now he's mad.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months - really like him but he is playing it really cool. So i am playing it cool too. All was fine, then today he sent the following email "my phone just went blank c**t switch it on" I took the c word...

Relationship addict!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Hi, How do I get over control issues and trust issues in relationships? I seem to fall from one relationship into the next and they get progressively more and more unhealthy. My currently relationship has been going on for about 2 years and w...

How to regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance now for almost 4 years and we are on the edge of breaking up. I recently lied to him about stupid crap. I lost my job and didn't tell him until about 2 days later. I know it was wrong and I should have told him but I was ...

Stop seeing this guy or let him take the reins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - About 2 months ago my boyfriend of a year broke it off. He just didn't "feel it enough," aka not enough passion, and his gut said this relationship wasn't going to work out. I thought our relationship was great. Maybe he wasn't exactly what I would ...

She's hit rock bottom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is 25, I'm 37. In the beginning obviously everything was so great. We had alot in common, but yet differences which kept it interesting. Had a great time going out, staying in and our sex life was simply amazing. Now I feel its all ...

Anything but a fairytale..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - About 5 years ago I met once of the nicest sweetest people in the world and fell in love with her. Sounds like a fairy tale, but it is anything but. The truth is that from the get go I based our relationship on a lie and I had fidelity problems. ...

Would you say he's controlling?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Is my boyfriend controlling me? I have been dating this guy for a year and four months. Some insight into our relationship: I have cheated on him. (Kissed an ex at a party) And told him in a hurtful way. That was four months ago. Since then...

My boyfriend kisses some of his guy friends and I'm not talking a peck!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend kisses some of his Guy friends and not just a little Peck I have talked to him about it n told him it really bothers me that I feel like he's cheating, he stopped for a while but only after a huge argument about it n now he's ...

From Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - hello well i have a boyfriend and he was really nice when i first met him and we have been going out for almost 2 years now but now he likes to hurt me . like when we first had sex he was so gentle and careing for me but now h...

If I'm on an online dating site just chatting, would you call that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - hi i have a boyfriend that nobody approves of i like him alot but the strain of sneaking out to see him is taking its toll. its hard 4 me to lie about were im going all the time. but i really like him and dont feel ready to break up with him. he ...

What are the rules of giving one space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Recently the guy I've been dating for 7 months now (not my bf..just dating) has been acting not like himself..he's also not been showing so much attention that I am use to. Then I found out he is mourning from a loss family member that happened a ...

My dad is still angry at me, how can I get him to forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - dear/sir/madam i cannot see anybody sad i cannot talk bad to any body.i am a very soft hearted person.but two days before such an incident happened i became angry on my father and i shouted at him we had a nasty high loud conversation at mid nigh...

I love her and its difficult to forget her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - i am in love with a girl i told her i love at that time she told me that she has a bf who cheated him she need to think, then on ther other day she told me she loves me and she also kissed me. then after 2 days she told that she want to stay sin...

Is he is making do with me, while still on the look out for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) - Hi, this might sound like a trivial question, but I thought I'd just ask for some opinions anyway. And yes, it's about online/long distance things, which I know tends to get a lot of criticism. I have been in contact with a guy for about a year...

We'll be talking frequently, then suddenly he vanishes for weeks on end! What is going on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Ok so I am a bit confused. There's this guy, we met about 7 months ago and the chemistry was amazing. Then he had to go home (we met while he was on vacation) but we've been keeping in touch via the net. I had plans to come visit him early next y...

I just don't want my husband anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - hi, i am 31 and my hubby is 33, we have been together for 11 years, married for 6 and have 3 children together, 9,7,4. my problem is that i don't want him any more, i hate him a lot of the time and i don't want him to touch me any more. i do have ...

How would you feel if you found out your spouse had been lying to you before you got married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - How would people feel if they found out their spouse has been lying to them since before the marriage proposal about serious betrayals and disloyalty? Lied throughout the engagment and after marriage...What kind of a person can lie to their partner ...

It is so close to our wedding but we both have doubts! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I was in love with a guy.We are in relationship since 2yrs now.We decided to get married.He used to do all lovely things to me.Very caring,Affectinate,Not at all aggressive and all.Everything was so smooth and going pretty well. Suddenly ...

Get back with ex or go with new girl who offered support and grew attached?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - my ex GF and i want to get back together, or are in the process of sorting out ourselves. we both have realised our mistakes in our old relationship and are having fun dating. however there are a couple of obstacles in the way: - her p...

I told my best friend what her husband had said, and now her husband and my boyfriend have turned against me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Drama! Drama! Drama! My boyfriend, my best friend and her husband and i aré really cool.. We text or call each other all the time.. Well my boyfriend and her husband were friends before they met us and she and i were friends before we met them... ...

She walked out on me and we had only been engaged for 2 days! Will she contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - my partner walked out on me two weeks ago, we were only engaged for two days..... will she contact me or do i move on?...

I can't switch off my feelings. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - 3 years ago, i committed adultery and fall in love with a prostitute. eventually, she stop being one on her own accord, and i get friends to teach her how to do massage instead. Then we became romantically involved. Strangely, she ask about Christ ...

Is this just a rough patch because of the distance? Or do I just not love him enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) - I feel so lost. Like a horrible girlfriend. Like a horrible person in general, I honestly don't know what to do that Im turning to total strangers for comfort. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and things are serious. The only problem ...

My ex tried to use me........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - My ex tried to use me,i hadnt heard from him for 4 years,but 3 weeks ago i had a message from him,i had a coffee with him,then he trys it on,i refused and said its best to stay friends,i spoke to him a few days ago through email and asked him what ...

LDR girlfriend is giving me too much drama

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - let me clarify, sorry about that but answer will be appreciated Okay, I'm a long distance relationship here... we been going out for 8 months but in august she went to college to another city. sometimes she comes to visit but we do have problems...

Can he forget what happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I was partying with common friend of mine and my boyfriend.I got late so stayed at his place.But he started kissing me.I pushed him away and i didn't do anything.But he was trying to kiss me that i couldn't resist and i kissed him back for a very ...

I'm still carrying what she suffers with. I can't stop loving her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) - I had the most wonderful relationship with a wonderful girl, and now's it gone. I loved her so much, she meant the world to me. Waking up beside her was the finest thing I had to look forward to. She suffered with horrible emotional trauma from the ...

He said he needs some time, but I think he wants to break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I'm 19 my boyfriend is 34.. he recently asked me for sometime off the relationship. I feel really confused he says he needs time because he is sick and he needs time with his children and I understand but I don't understand why is he is saying that ...

We've both tried moving on, and I can't seem to get away from thinking about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - Some background information: So my ex and I dated for 2 years and we've known each other for about 5. We go to the same college, we still hang out, we still talk all the time... But the last couple months or two we were dating (before we both left ...

Really complicated mess! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - Hi guys this is a rather long question so sry in advance.For the purpose of this question i will need to tell u yhe whole story, so here it goes. A while back i saw a girl (duh) and it was whoa like love at first sight.the problem is that i did no...

I'm in lust with my girlfriend's sister and her feet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - I have a gf for 2 and a half years. I love her so much. I am a foot fetish guy and I want her sister's feet and I want to have sex with her. one time i slept in their house and i slept near the feet of her sis and i touched i and licked it. it ...

Why is he acting this way? Its like he doesn't care anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - Ive been in a relation with my boyfriend for two years and sic months, i am 15 and he is 18...i have cheated on him twice and have told him about it because i felt horrible. I know i will no longer do it...i love him... Well anyways, the last tim...

She loves me, she hates me, I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - There is a girl at my school who I like alot. She hates me alot. She rides the same bus as me. She always sits on my lap for the bus ride even if there are empty seats on the bus. If she falls asleep her head is in my neck. When we get to school she ...

I'm disturbed by the fact that my girlfriend had a lot of sexual partners before me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a 22 year old male and I'm currently with my girlfriend of 4 months. She is 18 years old. We have been having regular sex since we were together, and I love her very much. In fact, I love her more than anyone I've ever been with. Unti...

How can I stop being overprotective towards my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years. My ex girlfriend left me. For more than 2 years I've had a very good relationship with my girlfriend, however sometimes I feel I am overprotective, or ask too many questions. We have talked about thi...

I get anxious when I talk to my boyfriend and have a hard time trusting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I'm getting anxious feelings every time I speak to/think about my boyfriend? A good example to give is this one that's happening right now. I'm on the phone to him, and I'm so happy that I'm talking to him as we've just come back from a holiday...

My girlfriend's best friend is really causing problems!

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12 November 2010 (F) - I need some advice - I'm sorry this is so long, but there's a lot to it. My girlfriend and I are having problems (we're lesbians) – but not to do with our relationships, or anything between us. We are both madly in love with each other and plan on ...

Girlfriend cries every night on the phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - i have a girlfreind of 3 years and every night she crys on the phone. i have to ask her what wrong she doesnt tell me. she then goes on to be very nasty to me what can i do.. i feel i need to help but im so so emotionaly drained. i have tried ...

Her past bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid About two years ago I ment this girl while I was at a bar league softball game! At the time she was 19 and I was 24. I bought her a shot she bought me one back we had some small talk but I didnt have enough courage to persue her! A few we...

How do you stay away from somebody you cant let go of but at the same time you know is bad for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) - Recently i've been thinking about this situation i'm in and have decided that enough is enough and i need to change it once and for all. I will cut this story very short. Basically i liked this guy, who turned out to be a complete jerk and now he ...