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He doesn't love me but wants to be with me?

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Question - (8 November 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2010)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend told me straight out he dosent love me but that he still wants to be with me. he said he dosent think he will ever love me but still wants our relationship to work. what do i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

thankyou all for your advice :)

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (9 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntHe doesn't love you but doesn't want to be alone..so he likes the idea of being in a relationship. Do you want to be with a guy who wants to be with you for just companionship, never taking it any further than what it is?

At 30-35, you're looking for love, and he just can't give it to you. Ditch him.

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A female reader, Natalie:) United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2010):

Natalie:) agony auntYou deserve to be loved so don't waste your time with this guy.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (8 November 2010):

Griffo agony auntNo brainer. Move on you deserve to be in love with someone and someone with you. You only live for around eighty or so years so why waste your time with someone who dosent love you.

It will be difficult for you to move on but you need to do what you want.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2010):

You dump him. Why would you want to be second best all your life? What happens if another woman comes along and he leaves?

You're just setting yourself up for misery. What is the point in being with someone who doesn't love you at all? None at all, when there is someone out there who will love you.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (8 November 2010):

Honeypie agony auntAsk yourself this, IS that a relationship YOU want?

Is he just hanging on to you til "true love" shows up? Someone better comes by?

I think you deserve better.

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