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Am I jealous of his ex or the fact that he has a child with her and not me?

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Question - (8 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *oungmum89 writes:

Do you think its normal to be jealous of your boyfriends ex girlfriend who he has a child for? I'm not sure if its her i'm jealous of or just the fact that he has a child with her and not with me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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A female reader, shnookims South Africa +, writes (8 November 2010):

shnookims agony auntYes, It is definately normal. When a normal relaitonhsip ends, people lose contact. your boyfriends ex is always going to be apart of his and their childs life which makes it difficult and a little awkward for you, especially being so young.

My advice is, don't let the jealousy get the better of you and ruin the relaitonship (I speak from experience). Just constantly remind yourself that he's chosen you, not her and try to block insecure or paranoid thoughts out of your mind.

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