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I tell little white lies to my guy and now there's no trust

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Question - (26 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay,lets say i been tellin white lies to my fella for a while now. nothin serious,mostly related to the opposite sex. without goin 2 deep,we split up most times he thinks he finds out,he doesnt knowe,just thinks he has cos jealous people tell him cos they want him. my fella told me if i do it again he wont come back next time. he found out again thru a so called friend. ofcourse i denied it,he cant prove it. its her word against mine,but i said go if you dont believe me,cos if there is no trust there is no love,he must fancy her if he believed her b 4 me. okay,now he wont come back. is there a way i can deal with it as i knowe i messed up and i love him and miss him. he might be 2 timing me for all i knowe,i dont knowe cos he wont answer my txts. how do i make him see we are so good 2 gether. he knowes he can come back. what shall i do.

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A male reader, dyeruz United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2010):

You lied and lied even when he told you to stop you still lied, then he didn't find out from you he had to hear it from someone else, so why should he believe anything that comes out of your mouth. When you grow up and start to treat other people as adults and with a little respect maybe you can have a fulfilling relationship.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010):

I don't blame him for not trusting you.

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