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writes:Hi, I am currently in a relationship with my teacher from high school, though I am no longer in high school. I am almost 20 years old, and I think I have fallen deeply for this man. I can tell him anything, and we talk for hours about nothing and everything. He is my first and only so far. I can't stop thinking about how gentle and beautiful it was. I know that we would never be together because he is married and has kids. I feel terrible for being a part of something so ugly. I honestly do, I've cried about it. I just can't seem to get over my own selfish needs, how do I even begin to change things now?I don't think I'll ever regret him being my first, it was a beautiful experience. But I do know it was wrong, and still is wrong. we've slept together 3 times so far and it seems to get better every time. How do I begin to stop this? the thoughts the need to be where he is. The thoughts of him, his lips puckered and red after a heavy duty make out session? I know I've let this go too far, and now i need help.
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 You stop this by deciding what kind of person you want to be. You can either choose to live your life with a degree of integrity or live a life filled with deception and sneaking around. It's up to you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 July 2010):
I'm very glad you've come to your senses, even if you already have made a big mistake.
Call him, tell him it's over and that you will tell his wife if he contacts you again, put the phone down, delete his number and all contacts, and promise yourself that you will never stoop so low as to have a relationship with a married man who is having a great time and laughing at you again.
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