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writes:this will sound crazy and its sounds like I have problems I know I do, so some info on this is I want to fight someone really bad because of this girl. she drives me so crazy in a good way and we are just friends but I have made her feel bad and confused and overwhelmed, she says she does not hate me but I feel like she does. this is why I want to fight someone. I feel like if I get my ass beat I will feel better about myself. I told her I would never do anything to make her feel bad but I did not realize the whole time I was. I just figured this out last night and told a lot of people I want to fight someone, she then told me I have problems and I agree. my question is how can I deal with this I think the only way I can make myself better is to get beaten up and its ridiculous. I don't know what to reply to her about her saying I have problems. I hate myself for making her feel uncomfortable and because of that I have not talked to her in a few days and unless I know something good to say to what she told me I am not going to talk to her for a long time. Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (27 July 2010):
Pain has never help anyone, and you do is complain about how much pain you are in. Go and work out, get a punching bag, or go for a long run.
You want this girl bad, right? You want a fight. You get the fight, and the other guy takes it to far, and now you dead. SO??? Did you get girl? Nope, you get to watch other have her from the after life. Wouldn't that be the biggest pain ever...If you punishment for being dumb, was to follow her everywhere in the after life but never to touch her.
I am not saying you are dumb, but your thinking is.
You sound like you have major anger issues...maybe that the reason she is staying away from you. Yeah she likes you, but she sees the warning.
Trust me dude, if you mind feels this way, your body will show it, and if your body shows all this anger...hmmm.
Smart thing about you is...You already know you have a problem, good start. Normally for me...If I see pain coming my way, I move out of the way, and let it go by.
There are millions of girls around, don't let one make you get you ass kicked.
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