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He says he feels comfortable with me but doesn't want to get too close!

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Question - (8 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *allerina71 writes:

hi guys,when a guy says he wants to be more than friends but is wary and doesn't like getting too close but feels comfortable with you what does that mean?a bit confused!opinions greatly welcomed!

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2010):

It means he wants sex without commitment. Only go to the next level if this is also what you want, you're sure that you will never develop romantic feeling for him and that are willing to lose his friendship when it's all over. I'm inclined to agree with the other aunts however and advise you not to go down this road. I did recently and it not work out well :(

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2010):

He's got too many things going on in his life to get involved in. He'll either only use you for sex and keep using you, or he'll use you then move on. Let him fox his life first.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2010):

It means he's a mess and he's making no sense.

Tell him to give you a call when he sorts his head out but you won't wait for him and are off to find a guy who is over the age of 14 and not scared of girls.

DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM. Once he's had that he'll move on to the next girl who he feels "comfortable" with.

Good Luck!! xx

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