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What should I do? Giving up is not an option!

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Question - (25 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guys/girls,, i will make it simple and not that big but i really need your help

i know a girl that im close to (going out, filtering, feeling jealous, calls, texts) but i had a problem and i hurt her because i couldnt talk with her for 3 weeks and she said before i dont like you to ignore me but i couldnt so when i saw her and tried to talk to her she said that she isnt in the mood to talk or doesnt want to talk to me..

i sent her letter explaining everything but she is still hurt or mad and doesnt talk to me this time..

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i feel the feeling of losing her because i have a friend who is approaching her at the current time and i cant do anything about it, i knew from some friends that she tells him what happens between me and her from the problem time and now after, like i got news that she told him he sent me a letter like that, and i have noticed that she doesnt want to show up with this guy friend in front of me or talk to him when im in the same place?

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the problem has been for one week since she doesnt wanna talk with me but today i felt it, she is making excuses to get near me and i have caught her eye looking at me then she turned away to her girl friend??

guys you know how it feel like this, the guy just didnt respect me because he knew that i like her and she is comfortable with me and likes back, but i keep it easy when i see him and i have never spoken with him about it?

what to do? giving up is not an option please

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2010):

You can't do anything. You have done everything to try and get her to talk, and she isn't. This other guy is now making advances because he sees she isn't talking to you and sees this as his moment. There is only one thing you can do and that's to walk up to and ask her to talk. If that doesn't work, then you're running around after someone who jsut isn't into you enough to work the problem out.

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