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female
age
30-35,
*Mama Miax
writes:I am currently in a relationship that has me so confused. I feel quite strongly about him, and although i would hate to admit it, i am falling for him. I met him through friends and he seemed to like me a lot. He called me constantly asking me to go out with him and his friends, to just hang out me and him watching movies and such.. this carried on for around 2 months with no signs of moving from the friends area..My friends told me it could never happen because he hadnt dated since school.. so one night i admitted i liked him and he asked me out the same night.Things were pretty good at the start, we saw each other lots, he seemed really into me and we had lots of fun.Now we have been dating for 5 months and things dont seem to be moving forward at all. I feel impatient that i want things to move forward from casual dating, i want something serious, i want him to love me.. He doesnt always want to hang out.. i would like it even if he showed up on a night to spend an hour with me.. but he never does. The other night he said 'he thinks' hes falling for me.. I just didnt feel that is enough.. i feel like i am wasting my time trying for a serious relationship with him.He introduces me to all his friends and family, has no problem been close to me around other people.. its like when we are together things are amazing.. but as soon as we are apart, its like i dont exist!He doesnt contact me through the day apart from a few txts.. no calls, no asking how i am. Just 'what are you up to'When i try talk about it, he doesnt try to console me, or tell me i am wrong in my thinking.. he says that i am been silly.. or that i am over thinking things. Which makes me feel even worse!When we are around other guys, i cant speak to anyone without him saying that i look too 'close' to them. He says he doesnt trust me, but he has no reason not to, i would give him my all.. in my eyes its the other way round.Why does he act like hes jealous when he doesnt make such an effort with me to begin with?Why when i ask him about us, does he say he wants to be with me and he likes me.. when he shows all the signs that he's just not that into me?I am sick of feeling like a nagging girlfriend and like i am acting crazy.. but i would just really appreciate any truthful advice or answers.So sorry this is so long, i just wanted to get the whole story in their..Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): isnt the fact that he doesnt trust you a worry to you? I personally think trust should be the first thing in a relationship...and i think until that trust's there, you won't move forward. Is he a jealous person? show him that you really care for him, but dont try to MAKE him believe you. if he doesnt accept it, i think its time to move on
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