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writes:Hello, I'm in a awkward situation and need some help. Last summer I moved to a new town and visited the local pub every weekend. I quickly fell for the barmaid who worked there, but at the time I didn't know she was a compulsive liar, she is well known down the pub for her constant lies.One night, back in August, I made a move. She told me she's sorry and only wanted to be friends. We hardly spoke to each other for 2 months after that. The last 3 months have been fine between us, like they were before I asked her out, however she recently handed her notice in and she no longer works down my local, but I do still see her on the train 3 times a week.Two weeks ago I was down the pub chatting to someone she used to work with, and they told me that back in the summer the person I asked out went round telling people I tried to attack her the night I asked her out, but I clearly didn't. This has made me feel really upset and angry, as I consider this a very serious thing to go round telling people. Its her birthday this weekend and i've been invited out for a drink with her and some of her other friends. Part of me is saying that I should just let it go, because it happened almost a year ago and things are fine between us now, but another part of me doesn't want to be in the same room as her anymore. I really don't know what to do, she doesn't know that i've found out what she said about me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCheers for your help, I do believe the person who told me, i've heard first hand some of the lies she has come out with, but they were all innocent lies, not about anyone, until now anyway.
My mate has been invited as well, i'll have a chat with him and tell him why I won't be going.
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reader, viethuni228  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Crying wolf can lead to serious consequences for her and yourself. U shouldn't just let it go. U should ask your source if she can back it up and seriously do something about it. I had a close friend go through court on a case like this when he really didn't do it. It shouldn't ever get to that point. It was heartbreaking to c him go in and out of the court over a women crying wolf. In the end he was found not guilty but the whole process is something u really want to avoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): If the person who told you about her lie is willing to back that up with a statement, I'd seriously consider sueing her for slander. Innocent men have found themselves in prison due to women like her. She needs to be stopped before she cries rape.
I'd definitely stay away from her. She's bad news.
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