I feel like I'm his mother and he's the older one!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I moved in with my boyfriend instead of going home after the first time we met. I would not have just done that if he hadn't have asked but he did and so i was willing, obviously, i really liked him and we didnt wanna leave each other. I moved cities to be with him. He knew he didnt have enough money for both of us and yet asked me anyway. He didnt tell me he didnt have enough and that it would cause us problems. I haven't got round to signing on at the job centre yet because i've been ill in hospital with quinsies, had my friend over quite a lot and now i might be pregnant too, so i have that playing on my mind. The job centre hasnt been the top of my agenda. Last night he was really fobbed off at me and told me that i was pissing him about and he felt like a fool for loving me. Ive never done him any wrong, im always pleasent to him, i clean for him and help him with money the best way i can. I tell him when hes overspending, i make sure he gets to work on time. Bloody hell i'm like his mother and hes the older one!! And what he said really upset me. I dont wanna seem like a bitch, i just simply havent got round to it. Is he in the right here?

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