When I ask if something is wrong he says no, but it sure seems like something is wrong

A female age 41-50, *oo Old For This writes:

I have been "seeing" a guy for a about 3 months. After about the first month he stopped calling so I assumed it wasn't going anywhere. I found out I was pregnant about a week later...yes we used protection and yes it was 100% his. I did tell him but suggested that I end the pregnancy. He said he wanted the baby. I told him I didn't want him to be with me only because I was pregnant. He reassured me that he wouldn't stay in a relationship because of it but thought we should see if we had a connection because he really wanted the baby. For the next 3 weeks we saw each other alot and spoke several times a day. I was still reluctant and gave him plenty of opportunity to walk away. I lost the baby 2 weeks ago. We continued to see eah other after and even went away for a weekend after I lost it. He even said he'd like to try again. Since we have come back from our weekend away, I haven't seen him. He still calls everyday. I asked if he was sincere about trying again and he said yes. If he's not into me why does he keep calling? I don't know what to do. When I ask if something is wrong he says no.

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