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writes:I'm 19 years old, i'm living in a one bedroom flat with my 28 year old boyfriend who goes out to work for eight hours every day, and generally comes home tired or in a mood. We have a kiss and a cuddle, maybe watch a film, he'll cook us some tea then we go to bed for sex and sleep. On his days off he's too tired from work to bother going out anywhere, and were too broke to do most things anyway. If we do go anywhere its to one of his friends houses to do exactly what we would have done at home. I also think i am pregnant, i dont have a positive answer yet as tests keep coming back negative but I KNOW i am, i can feel it and have all symptoms. I dont work myself because i just moved cities to be with him and in this current economic crisis its literally IMPOSSIBLE to find work, anywhere. So all i do until he gets back from work is sit on the computer or clean up. I'm so bored and depressed!!! There has to be more to life, surely?? I feel like my lifes slowly going down hill! I'm supposed to be starting college in September, but im not even sure if i want to do that! I dont have any friends because i dropped out of school at 15 and lost them all one by one and now the only one i had remaining has fallen out with me. I just feel so lonely and confused. I dont know where my lifes heading or where i even want it to head! Help please!
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reader, arie  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 i think you need to try harder to find a job, i know your life is depressing but it is up to you to change it. life waits for no one, if you want to change it you have to get up and do it yourself. sometimes in life you are going to be on your own. but you need to push, and i say yes to going to college, it may be your way of learning makeing new friends, new experiances and getting away from home. u should also have a talk with your boyfriend too about how depressed you are because im sure he wouldnt want you feeling that way, and if he dosent care, then you really deserve someone better who will ok. i hope u liked my advice,goodluck and godbless
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