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female
age
51-59,
*mylingle41
writes:I have been dating this man for almost four years, but he will not even hold my hand because I am a married woman, but I have told him that in my eyes, I am not a married woman because my soon to be ex-husband was molesting our three children, including having sex with our oldest daughter. I have been told that in the eyes of the Lord, I am not a married woman because my soon to be ex-husband forsook our wedding vows when he molested our children. I was told that if he had admitted his sin, repented his sin and did his punishment for his sin that it would be different but since none of those things have happened, in the eyes of the Lord, I am not a married woman. Somebody please help me and advise me on this. I love this man with all my heart and soul and want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is convinced that he committed adultery by even looking at me with lust in his eyes while I am still married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): It sounds like he is very bitter about you being married, or, he sees it as an embarrasment.
Either way he should except you for who you are, no matter your many 'titles' and most importantly, he should love you for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): Maybe you could both just remain really close friends until your divorce is sorted out. I know it must be frustrating, but if he really feels so bad about this, then it might be best to wait for a bit and take things more slowly. Hopefully, he will relax more when you are "officially" single again. Good luck. x
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