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Husband got laid off, became lazy, after 3 years of this, I want out!

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Question - (17 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2009)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i realy dont know how to start i been married to my husband for 6 years we have 3 children together the frist 3 years he was working hard and i was stay home mam then he got layd off then since i had better experince at work i star going back to my job that was it my husban become looser from that day all he do is sleep all day and be online all night and afternoon he out with his freinds he dont help me nothing if i try to talk to him he saying he know he is wrong and he is trying to find a job wich he never does he never help me with my worries he dont know how much i make or huw much i puy pills he dont care no body even his chidren i try so hard to support him he never listing to me we saperte many times all the time he promise me he will be better husnabd and father wich he never do his promise now we been seperte for 3 weeks and i told him i need divorse insted of working our problem he call me and calls me name like whore and i he dont love me and he hates me and he will kill me and many stupid staff our kidds love him and they ask me wen dady is gona come home i dont wanna go back to him how do i get rid of him by the way i dont think our marrige has chance thnx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2009):

He's done nothing to fix this. I think he's suffering from depression to be honest. But since he hasn't tried to fix it, and he has treated you appallingly, I think you need to find a lawyer and start over. The last thing you need is your kids seeing all this.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (17 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntwell its beter of for worst right you husband needs to get his butt kiked thats what he really needs i hate guys like that treating there wives like that well i would suggest telling him your considering a divorce because appereantly he doesnt want to be married anymore but you could also suggest marriage counseling there may be something going on with him you dont kno about

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