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Should I message him or not?

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Question - (28 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok this guy i like alot sort of went hot and cold when we went camping the weekend just gone.

my friend has told me he said he can see a future with me and stuff which is really good and we've always had little moments.

anyways camping he was blowing really hott and cold like he would stare at me and stuff through the fire we had going the first night we were there in our tent there was me him my friend and her brother and there was two sections you can close and he was in one and my friends brother in another i was sleeping by where he was sleeping and he was like can i keep this open i don't want to be on my own so we were like yeah that's fine and i was saying my dads crazy you'd get on well with him and he said oh i'll have to meet your dad i was like yeah sure!

then he was on my phone so i went over to his side and we were literally side by side heads against eachother as he looked on my phone.

then we were going to sleep and he poked me.

anyways morning he told everyone i was staring at him all night ( which i wasn't lol)

but he kept telling people i was.

then he'd just go quiet so i thought um ok....

then he started talking abit more and there was a log which had white bark and i was really stunned by it and wanted to take a bit home so he gave me his very LAST piece even though there was a whole other piece left.

then later that night me my friend and her boyfriend went looking for him and her brother they went off for a walk and when they came back he stood RIGHT next to me like his arm was overlapping my arm.

then we were by the fire he was a little quiet then he left his hoody and i laid on it and he was like where too is my hoody i said oh sorry didn't realise he was like nah that's fine like.

he sat by me by the fire as well and stuff.

i wanted to message him and let him know how i feel but my friend said to be careful as it may cause awkwardness.

what do you think i should do?

do you think he was being hott and cold with me?

thanks in advance.

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A female reader, linz09 United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2009):

linz09 agony auntI think you both like each other but are afraid to make the next move, soooooo I would wait till I see him again and ask him if he would like to come and see a film with you or go bowling or anything where just you and him have some time alone together.

Ignore your friends comments and just do What you feel is right.

All I can then say is watch this space..

Let me know how it goes.

;)

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