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I want to ask him what's going on but don't want an argument!

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Question - (28 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year now and have a baby on the way but what worries me is the fact that this girl that he works with keeps messenging him on facebook and by text and the other day he swapped his car for hers and I dont believe this is right because he doesnt trust me to drive his car. I have confronted him about all the above but he continues to say I love you and theres nothing going on we're just workmates blah blah but he always says it in a angry tone of voice not a normal one should I be worried or not i am scared to confront him again as I dont want to have an agruement about it.?? Please Help me

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A female reader, linz09 United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2009):

linz09 agony auntHi there

Your pregnant with his child and he's messing around facebooking, texting and oddly swapping cars with this girl. Being pregnant sometimes makes you feel vunerable so why is he making you feel worse.

Sit him down and say 'Look I really need to know what is going on here,I'm having your child and your messaging, texting and swapping cars with a workmate who happens to be female when you don't even allow me to drive your car.. you can raise your voice all you like, but I need to know the truth.Is this an innocent friendship or is it something else?'

Don't be scared to confont him and make it clear you're not wanting an argument your wanting answers!

Be strong, confident and straight and see what he has to say..

Tell me the outcome

Take care :)

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A female reader, happy_joy202 United States +, writes (28 August 2009):

maybe they are friends, my bestfriend is a guy we do things together and have fun all the time by ourselves and its nothing more then two friends hanging out. it not good to get upset if your pregnant..be careful

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A female reader, Netra1985 United States +, writes (28 August 2009):

Im in the same boat you are in. The only thing is I have 3 kids and myself and there dad been together for 7yrs and 9months. But no don't keep confronting him you are going to keep making him mad. There is really no point. Whatever they want to do they are going to do it. You can't stop it.

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