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writes:I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): my friend found out her man was cheating on her and she graffitied LOVE RAT on his door and cut up all his clothes.
It wanst him who found the scene of carnage but the one of the the other 'girls' he was lying to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the antidotes... appreciate the petty immaturity... :)
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reader, softtouchmale2003 + ♥, writes (28 August 2009):
 Back in the early 80's I was engaged to a girl that I really did love very much. There wasn't anything I would not do to make her happy, well except feed her drugs.She got hooked on crack because her sister turned her onto it.The drug ruined our relationship. Soon I came home and found her with some guy and a fight broke out. Anyway, so the relationship was over. She decided she wanted to party and hang out. I decided I couldn't take being lied to. I didn't care so much that she had been cheating on me. But I did care that she lied to me about so many things, sold some of my stuff to pay for crack, and slept with other men to get crack.The point is, I left and she told me she never wanted to see me again. Okay. Good.So about a year later she calls me up and wants to meet me. She has me chasing all over the place trying to find her because she said it was really important.Well we finally meet up at this restaurant and she needed me to lend her $80. Well that was the best $80 I ever spent! She owed me money to go out and get a gram of coke so she could cook up some crack.And about another year later, she asked me to help her out. She was in a lot of trouble. A real lot of trouble as in she was busted for trafficking with her coke dealing boyfriend.She wanted me to put up my house to post bond for her.My response, "Sure babe. Soon as you pay me back that $80 I lent you."I never heard back from her again, almost. I did see her on "Cops" though and about 15 later I saw her working at a grocery store. She'd just been released from prison.So the point I am getting down to is, I didn't get any revenge, I just let Karma get her.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (28 August 2009):
Well, I am fortunently far too petty to be mature and deal with situations like an adult. I dated a girl once who was fun, she was attractive, but she also was a caniving bitch. When we I left her and apparently broke her heart she decided to try to hurt me. Now that being said, she found it funny to run around banging out my friends like they were dominoes and just one by one. Boom, boom, boom. Right, Then she takes it a step further, and tells people my friends of my "infantile penis".. granted during every break up the mans penis tends to shrink , what three, maybe four inches when your ex desribes it?So enough is enough. When approached for the tenth time from a friend about what they had heard. I decided to settle score. Now I am adequate in my dimensions, so I dont feel intimadatd. But at party with our mutual friends my ex and I both attended. I shouted."Its not that my penis was too small, her f-in vagina had an echo!!!! "The room burst into laughter and her face turned bright red. and she called me an ass hole. I know I am petty, and it wasnt needed to be so juvenille about the whole situation.. but by God did it feel good to settle the score.-iydm
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reader, lost-girl1  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 I can understand that lol i too like to hear about them just to imagine i have maybe done them myself, sometimes if you conjure it up in your own mind and play it out it's as if you did do it and it releases the want to physically do it if ya get me lol
Chin up girl, you deserve the best and you will get it and he will see what he has lost believe me so motor on and keep yourself busy do what you like to do and most of all... smile :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI liked Elpigaro's response. I agree with everyone's responses and that's how I conduct myself however... sometimes in the deep of the night I wish I was just mean enough, lol.
Still would like to hear the revenge stories though... sorry sometimes I need the dark humor they provide.
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reader, lost-girl1 +, writes (28 August 2009):
It is very easy to want revenge on someone who has hurt you, played you, used you, betrayed you when you have given them nothing but unconditional love and support etc. But it is never a good idea to act out the revenge because although at that moment when you are in the frame of mind for doing it and it feels like it will make you feel better and move one easier, it wont. You will regret it because it will only backlash on you. I never ever ever seeked revenge on anyone, it was very hard but what i did was go through the motions but keep my head up high even though crumbling inside.. because you will overcome it... but the best thing about it that you know that saying "What goes around comes around"? That is so so true!!! Keep saying it yourself, believe that the person who hurt you will get his or her comeuppance and believe me they will and you will hear about it. It could take a month a year whatever, it will happen and the moment you hear about it the feeling you get is unbelievable! You just can not stop smiling! and laughing lol It is well worth the wait, and because you did not take revenge... you will stand to look the better person for it, people will have more respect for you for it and you will feel oh so proud of yourself too:D
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reader, pepper27  + ♥, writes (28 August 2009):
 Hi Hunny
I dont think you will get many telling you these kind of storys, I think revenge is not sweet at all...I no when you have been hurt you feel anger and want to hurt the other person but I believe that you being the better person and learning from this is the best way forward..Thats my advise TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Although a lot of things would seem just or fun to do. I think the best revenge is to truly believe "good riddance" and live your life well and happily. Eventually, you will discover they did not. Cheater rarely I would even say never really end up happy. But unfortunately, those who are cheated on sometimes never get over it remain bitter and live unhappily. That is the saddest thing. I know two such stories where men cheated on their wives and left them and their families for someone else the cheaters were both incredibly selfish and I don't think happy. They have no or bad relations with their kids and don't seem to be in bliss with their new partners. But the wives they left also had a bad go of it financially and remained bitter and alone . So in a way they lost the most. :( the BEST revenge is to live your life to the fullest and happiest. Cheaters are never satisfied and rarely feel remorse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Well my best story is that since my ex dumped me, Ive travelled the world, snowboarded on three continents. Holidayed abroad frequently, climbed the alps, done triathlons and bought and learned to ride my own sportsbike.
May not be what your looking for but the best form of revenge is to have your ex go, Damn it I had my chance and Ive blown it.
Rememeber your dignity is priceless.
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