A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Pls help my sister and her family been staying with my parents and i 4 a few months which has been hell her one kid sleeps in my room 16yr old her 9yr with my parents and her son in her room , i'm at home so i do all the house chores , i've been trying to do all spring cleaning but no one will help me prepare for our fasting month (ramadaan) and when they at home weekends i have to clean too today my 67yr old father and i were painting the house inside not once did they offer to help , had to move all furniture by ourselves i asked my niece to pls mop my room while i started on the other room and she said straight no infront of her mom so i told her don't be so u sleep in my room too her mother got upset and said u don't talk like that to my daughter i said fine if u don't want to u won't sleep in my room. Did i do the right thing ? Is my approach wrong to all this ? pls give me ur honest views? are they taking advantage of my parents and i , her husband doesn't even wash the bath after his bathed, i'm so tired i don't no what to do any more, help? Reply to this Question |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol opted for the making them leave part by asking for money she owe's me coz she doesn't like paying back and not allowing her to get in my clothes . . . so i'll keep u informed coz she is cross now i asked for my money lol.
A
female
reader, DearCassy  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 Glad I could help.And if they are too much for you before they find another place to stay,then you have a right to kick them out or make them leave(the nicer way to put it).
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Cassy
Thank u for the advice , today we continued the painting i'm so tired her daughter doesn't sleep in my room any more and i over heard her on the phone asking for a place to rent I pray they do move soon before it get's worse.
...............................
A
female
reader, DearCassy +, writes (16 August 2009):
Your sister and her kids are very disrespectful.And they should at least have the courtesy to be respectful and polite in someone else's home.What do you do?You lay down some ground rules.You make them help you clean up,do chores,and anything else you need help with.You tell your sister and her kids that you will not be disrespected in your own home and if they can't be respectful and decent house mates,then you will not let them live with you anymore.Hope I helped.
...............................
|
