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writes:I have been with my b/f for nearly 5 years. We broke up in April after I learnt some devasting news about his life, he has started to take drugs.I threw him out of our home and bought him out. I kept in contact with him to support him to seek help. He has been off drugs for 4 months now and we started to date again. Things were going well but then he started being late when he was supposed to be coming round and we would go a week or two without seeing each other.I love him dearly but worry that I am no longer in love with him. For the past 3 weeks we have done nothing but argue every time we have seen each other.Some days I want to cut him out of my life completely and some days the thought of breaking up for good feels like a knife in my stomach. I am 99.9% certain no drugs are involved, I just think he will always be flighty and I want the "normal life" with 2.5 kids.I am very confused!
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (23 September 2007):
 it' not a good idea because for a start, it's not easy to stay off drugs and 4 months isn't that long to be able to decide that he's ready for a relationship again.
he doesn't need arguing and he needs to be on his own really. you need to help him help himself by letting him go and that way you'll have time to decide what the best thing to do is.
time will tell.
good luck
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (16 September 2007):
Eaiser said than done, but you must give him up. Be more careful in selecting your next boyfriend. People tend to repeat their mistakes in picking mates.
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